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Worthy by Jada Pinkett Smith
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it was ok
bookshelves: hollywood, written-by-women, 2023-nonfiction, celeb-memoirs, november-2023

Ooh Child!!!

I wanna start this off by saying I'm not a Jada hater. I think she's a great celebrity. I love gossip and she gives me tons of it. Her movies back in the day were some bangers.

Low Down Dirty Shame
Woo
Set It Off

Iconic movies!

She birthed two weirdos and yall know I love a weirdo. I never watched Red Table Talk but I loved the tea she got other celebrities to spill. I knew I was going to read this book as soon as it was announced because I'm a messy bitch who loves drama. I'm happy that Jada gets to tell her story. I think it's weird that people want her to shut up. I don't think she's ruining Will Smith's career/ reputation, he's a grown ass man who I believe loves this messy drama.

All that is to say....this book ain't it. Jada Pinkett Smith is a liar and she seems incredibly self centered. She talks in therapy speak and she uses spiritual language to lie to us. I said when I read Will's book that they shouldn't be married and if we are to believe her they aren't married...on paper....but they are married...and working on their bond. I felt in Will's book like Jada didn't like Will and this book confirmed that for me. She LOVES being Will Smith's wife...but she doesn't love being married to Will Smith. She complains that his career comes first but then doesn't see that his career is how she got her role in The Matrix or how her Punk band got to open for Britney Spears and perform at Ozzfest.

Like girl you really you earned that?

She talks constantly about being authentic while being phony and inauthentic. She said she wrote this book to share what she learned but what did she learn? If you say things using flowery language it sounds less like lying. She turned what sounds like a great friendship with Tupac into this great platonic love affair. She turned preying on a much younger emotionally and mentally fragile man into an "entanglement". She believes everyone should share "their truth" but wonders why that young man chose to talk about their relationship. She never talked about her alopecia but then feels that Chris Rock joking around her baldness is an affront to all alopecia sufferers. She and Will publicly painted their marriage as a rock solid partnership but then seems confused that people are interested in their weird marriage. She talks about growing up poor but then seems obvious to how her wealth makes her children's artistic endeavors much easier( they are gurus).

Oh and she lies about her and Will being Scientologist. She admits that she used their homeschooling curriculum and that she sent her father to their rehab but denies ever being a member. Multiple former Scientologists have said that not only were Will and Jada members but that they were supposed to recruit other Black famous people.

I'm obviously in the minority with my opinions on her book, almost every review I read talked about her openness and honesty. I didn't buy it. She's came off out of touch, self centered and morally superior. But her worst crime was that this book was boring. She has lead a big and action packed life but I actually fell asleep multiple times while reading this book. Usually reading wakes me up, that's why I try to stop reading at least an hour before bed but Jada was a sleeping pill for me. She should stop trying to sound wise and profound and try sounding entertaining.

This book wasn't for me but I still recommend it because Will and Jada are important for the culture....Will's book is better tho.
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Reading Progress

October 26, 2023 – Started Reading
October 26, 2023 – Shelved
October 27, 2023 –
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2.64%
October 31, 2023 –
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7.69%
October 31, 2023 –
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15.38%
October 31, 2023 –
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November 1, 2023 –
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November 1, 2023 –
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November 1, 2023 –
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November 3, 2023 –
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November 3, 2023 – Shelved as: written-by-women
November 3, 2023 – Shelved as: hollywood
November 3, 2023 – Shelved as: 2023-nonfiction
November 3, 2023 – Shelved as: celeb-memoirs
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November 3, 2023 –
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November 4, 2023 – Shelved as: november-2023
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November 5, 2023 –
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November 5, 2023 –
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November 5, 2023 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by scthoughts (new)

scthoughts I didn’t even know she had a book coming out but I’m not surprised. Also, Woo is such an underrated movie. I think I still have the vhs tape. 😂


Erin Woo does not get its due.


message 3: by Debra (new)

Debra Terrific review, Erin! I have read many reviews were it is mentioned that she uses therapy type language and that they didn't care for the book either. I think I will pass.


message 4: by Luvtoread (Trying to catch up) (last edited Jun 06, 2024 12:27PM) (new)

Luvtoread (Trying to catch up) Awesome review, Erin! I am not a Jada fan but not a basher either. I just hated all the hypocrisy she's put out there about their family and marriage. Like you said they put out there about a rock solid marriage and she got so defensive when she would finally publicly reveal all the unstable cracks in their marriage but saying "We're married and a solid team yet haven't lived together in 6 or 7 years!". It wouldn't bother me so much but she's so smug and narcissistic in so many things she reveals. It's all about Jada! I think I might read Will's book since you said it was much better!

Sorry for being so long winded and thanks again for such an eye opening review!!📘💖


Erin Thanks Debra! Her vocabulary was super annoying


Erin Not a problem @Luvtoread. I think you'll like Will's book.


Jessica This is why I love your reviews! I read Will's book as well and I took pretty much the exact same position as you on both. I called her a flat out, boldfaced liar, especially since I'm part of Gen X so I remember a LOT of the stuff from that time period and the math just ain't mathin'. I was called a hater but I'll eat that label because I am certainly a hater of lies in regard to books. If you're going to do that, just write a novel!


Erin Thank you Jessica! You can call her out without being a hater.


message 9: by Cher 'N Books (new)

Cher 'N Books Well damn. I think I enjoyed your review more than I would the memoir.


Erin Thanks Cher!


message 11: by é (new)

é Kizior Jada has always rubbed me the wrong way! She uses the Tupac friendship and makes it more than it is. She also emasculates the hell out of Will, which is just wrong. Cheat on him if you must, but don't take his manhood from him. Thank you for verifying my suspicions! I won't give her my money.


Erin Yeah, Jada definitely rubs me the wrong way but I still want to like her


Lalaa #ThisBlackGirlReads YES! Thank you, this review is spot on! My thoughts exactly.


Erin This book really leads to a vast array of opinions


Maya (Sup3rN0va) Thank you for your review, I like how in depth you were about your issues with this book. I haven't it read, not sure if I'm going to. I'm seeing a few negative reviews that are similar to yours but the other ones didn't have as much depth as yours.


Erin Thanks Maya! I just didn't want people to think my problems with the book were do to sexism because there's alot of that going around


message 17: by Kim (new)

Kim Everything you said. I read the book and wondered why she wrote a book, nothing she wrote warranted a book. She didn’t get into details about anything. Her relationship with Tupac was flat. Everything read like the end of the story, for instance she left out all the details and just shared the end. It was horrible. It sounded like a spiritual journey she could have kept to herself. I didn’t learn anything about who she is except she didn’t want to marry Will.


Erin Yeah Kim, my guess is that she wants to start a spiritual podcast


message 19: by Lori (new)

Lori I was hoping you would find something worthwhile to make me wanna read Jada's book. Alas,I guess I will pass. Too many other unread books waiting.Thanks for such an interesting review and time saver;)


Erin Thanks Lori! It's really not worth it unless you just wanna feel apart of the crowd.


Kennedy Thank you. I also agree Will had the better book. The career, the fans, the money Jade does not.


message 22: by LoisLovesMemoirs (new)

LoisLovesMemoirs Thank you for the review! The most helpful tip was “her worst crime was that it was boring� :) GOOD TO KNOW!


message 23: by s.g. (new)

s.g. But they are not important. That’s the problem with our culture. These people are not special in any way.


Brianne 100% agree. Thank you.


message 25: by Denise (new) - added it

Denise This is honesty right here. I listened to the book and do was so hard for me to believe a lot of it.


Mrs.Bucks I listened to the audiobook and it sounded beautiful, the language and her voice but it didn't amount to anything lol. She's keeping him hostage for an image, security and to avoid the prenup conversation. She wasn't meant for marriage, she is a free spirit who wants to do everything and one person cannot fulfil her.


Cheryl I do agree with everything you said. Now I need to read Will’s book.


message 28: by S. (new) - rated it 4 stars

S. Reid @Erin, I repsect your reasons for not liking the book, however, you have to understand that this book IS JADA KOREN PINKETT'S STORY-NOT WILL SMITH'S. Thus, JADA HAS EVERY RIGHT TO TELL HER STORY TO THE BEST OF HER KNOWLEDGE, & SHE DID NOT NEED HER PARTNER'S OR HER CHILDREN, OR HER FANS OR NON-FANS' PERMISSION TO SPEAK ON HER OWN LIFE.


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