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Dopamine Nation by Anna Lembke
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it was amazing
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What an interesting read! I've been zipping through this book with gusto.

Basically dopamine is our "urge" neurotransmitter and hormone. It makes us WANT. When we get what we want, we get another spike of it as a reward. If we fail to get what we want our dopamine drops down drastically.

However dopamine operates like a seesaw - and our body seeks equilibrium. If the seesaw veers too much in one direction, we begin to experience the opposite emotion....the other side of the seesaw starts to rise, as if to compensate for too much of the first emotion.

The author talks a lot about how pain is good for us. One example she gave was a man who was so determined to have freezing baths he got a meat freezer that he could fill with water - and when ice formed on the top he'd break the ice and submerge himself for several minutes. He felt so good afterwards that he persuaded friends and their families to join in! They'd have icy bathing parties, with hot baths following the icy submerging. The resulting dopamine hit was apparently worth it. People in Scandinavia are of course famous for having saunas followed by icy dips. Runners too experience a high as a reward for their hard work. Even walking for 30 minutes today can have great benefits to one's mood.

On the other side.... People who regularly go sky-diving can suffer with anhedonia (a complete lack of enjoyment in their lives.) They get such a high from sky-diving it becomes the equivalent of taking a heavy drug - they are getting such big dopamine overloads when sky-diving that ordinary life seems without pleasure.

Lempke also talks about how easy it is to get addicted to all sorts of things, from gambling to social media to shopping. She usually asks her patients to refrain from their drug or addictive behaviour for one month and then review the situation, to see if abstinence or moderation is the way forward.

Meanwhile we do ourselves a lot of good by simply paying attention to the ordinary things in life, with a healthy mix of mild experiences of pain and pleasure. A walk in the park, doing the housework, going to an exhibition, or having supper with friends. Keeping that seesaw reasonably balanced. The odd bout of skydiving would be fine, but probably not a good thing to do on a regular basis.

My one negative takeaway? I was upset by the mentions of unpleasant animal research. An unintended consequence of me reading the book has been to really bring this into my awareness and it's made me much more determined to do something positive about it.

Anyway, all in all the book was very interesting, and I shall end with my usual notes.
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message 1: by Jenna (new)

Jenna ❤ ❀  ❤ Wow, this sounds really interesting!! (Minus the animal research of course) I did not know that about sky-divers, and now I understand why people would torture themselves in ice cold water. No thank you, I'll find another way to get some dopamine!

Thanks for teaching me some new things first thing in the morning, Caroline, got my day off to a wonderful start.


message 2: by Caroline (new)

Caroline Wow! Caroline, a few months ago I listened to a podcast interview of this author (I think it was an episode of Hidden Brain), and I was mesmerized by her talk of the seesaw. Had you ever heard that before? I hadn't, despite reading plenty about dopamine. She was very open about an addiction (truly an addiction) that she developed to erotica novels and how it led her to researching this topic.


message 3: by Mikey B. (new)

Mikey B. Interesting review
I do think the internet is a dopamine drug - giving you instant gratification and rewards - and possibly leading to a shorter attention span!


message 4: by Ian (new)

Ian A very interesting review Caroline!

On the sky divers, I can imagine that is true. I've heard of other people who engage in high risk activities who regard "ordinary" life as irredeemably dull.

I also agree entirely with Mikey. The internet constantly gives us dopamine hits (such as GR likes and comments!) and shortens our attention span by constantly diverting our attention.


Caroline Jenna wrote: "Wow, this sounds really interesting!! (Minus the animal research of course) I did not know that about sky-divers, and now I understand why people would torture themselves in ice cold water. No than..."

Hi Jenna,
I first heard Lempka talk about a year ago at a meeting I attended, and she mentioned the benefits of cold water dipping there. All summer, every time I had a shower, I tried to will myself to turn the setting to cold. I didn't manage it even ONCE! Definitely a fellow wimp here!🤣


Caroline Caroline wrote: "Wow! Caroline, a few months ago I listened to a podcast interview of this author (I think it was an episode of Hidden Brain), and I was mesmerized by her talk of the seesaw. Had you ever heard that..."

Oh I like Hidden Brain!

No, I'd never heard of the seesaw concept in relation to dopamine before. The idea of too much pleasure causing pain, and pain causing pleasure. It was such a weird idea - but I see videos on television of people swimming in the sea on Christmas Day in freezing weather, and they all say they find it really invigorating. I'm also familiar with a sense of euphoria I get when I've done a really difficult task, eg I've had a big dental appointment or completed my tax returns or whatever. The initial feelings is dread - and then afterwards I feel really good, with a big sense of achievement (but perhaps it's just my dopamine neurotransmitters doing a happy dance on the see saw.)

Re her mentioning her earlier addiction to erotic novels. In the book she speaks at length about honesty and radical honesty, & how it can affect our lives for the better - and for me this was almost the most interesting part of the book. Her publicly talking about her obsession with erotic novels is probably part of her commitment to honesty.


Caroline Mikey B. wrote: "Interesting review
I do think the internet is a dopamine drug - giving you instant gratification and rewards - and possibly leading to a shorter attention span!"


Yes, I completely agree. As you have said elsewhere - think of the days when we'd have to consult a book to get information, maybe even go to the library first! The difference is staggering.


message 8: by Caroline (last edited Feb 13, 2024 09:00PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Caroline Ian wrote: "A very interesting review Caroline!

On the sky divers, I can imagine that is true. I've heard of other people who engage in high risk activities who regard "ordinary" life as irredeemably dull.

I..."


How interesting that you've heard that other people who engage in high risk activities regard "ordinary" life as irredeemably dull. I heard the other day that these excitement-seekers have high pain thresholds, so maybe in order to feel pain/excitement they have to do quite drastic things. I didn't know that they found ordinary life boring though - that is very interesting.


message 9: by Am (new)

Am Y Great review, Caroline! Thanks for bringing this book to my attention! For some reason, in recent years, the word "dopamine" has started to trend in schools here - all my students keep mentioning it! I first learned about it (and its involvement in schizophrenia) back in the '90s when I was doing my undergrad degree in psychology) - back then nobody knew what "dopamine" was but now it's the buzzword on everyone's mouths! XD


Caroline Am wrote: "Great review, Caroline! Thanks for bringing this book to my attention! For some reason, in recent years, the word "dopamine" has started to trend in schools here - all my students keep mentioning i..."

Am - you're right, it is rather flavour of the month - but probably in no small part due to this book. I think the author has been incredibly popular, doing interviews all over the place. How interesting that you did a degree in psychology - a subject I have always found fascinating.


message 11: by Cecily (new)

Cecily Fascinating. The usefulness of pain is one of the reasons I'm wary of suppressing it too much (though obviously that's easier when one doesn't suffer from extreme and chronic pain).


message 12: by Caroline (last edited Apr 08, 2024 12:15AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Caroline Cecily wrote: "Fascinating. The usefulness of pain is one of the reasons I'm wary of suppressing it too much (though obviously that's easier when one doesn't suffer from extreme and chronic pain)."

Sorry Cecily, I only just saw that you'd commented.

Very interesting what you say about being wary of suppressing pain too much. I tend to be a wuss when I have the option of reaching for a paracetamol - but that's an interesting perspective.

What I do have is a horrible shower that sometimes runs erratically hot and then much too cool. Nowadays when it flips onto cool I say "Yay for the dopamine!" to myself - which in a crazy way cheers me up - and I could extend that to other physically unpleasant situations. Without a doubt Lembke says we do best when life isn't always about chasing the highs, but rather experiencing the lows as well. Much better to have small mood swings rather than big ones.


C.  (Comment, never msg). I read a lot of healing books. To really see why we work the way we do and what can be done better, "Energy Medicine" by Donna Eden is a must see.

Yes, animal rights must always be defended and respected. Results are inapplicable to humans and should ONLY come from volunteering humans ever again.


Caroline C. (Comment or e-mail, please never send msg). wrote: "I read a lot of healing books. To really see why we work the way we do and what can be done better, "Energy Medicine" by Donna Eden is a must see.

Yes, animal rights must always be defended and re..."


Hi C,

Thank you for your comments. I had a look at Energy Medicine, but I'm afraid it doesn't look my cup of tea. I'm fairly happy with regular medicine.... But thanks for the suggestion. :-)


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