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Stone Yard Devotional
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Five Brilliant stars for Charlotte Wood and although I haven't yet read the other Booker nominees, I would love this one to win. She writes about many subjects that are close to my range of interests: the mother who composts everything - I have one of those.
My mother said that anything that had once been alive should go back into the soil. Food scraps went into the compost, of course, including meat and bones, despite the general advice against this. Paper, torn into strips to allow air and microbes to move freely through. She would cut old pure cotton or silk or woollen clothes into small shreds and compost them too. Fish bones and flesh. Linen tea towels. She reluctantly left out larger pieces of wood, but longed for a woodchipper. She left cane furniture to rot and then buried it. She quoted a Buckingham Palace gardener she had once seen on television, who added leather boots to his compost bin. All that was needed was time, and nature.
Anything that had lived could make itself useful, become nourishment in death, my mother said.
I never knew anyone else who had her reverence for the earth itself.
From my earliest memories I remember my mother saving scraps for the compost- I know she put in bones and materials, paper and cardboard. From my earliest years I've know that you can't have too many "greens" or your compost will stink.
Back to Charlotte Wood - Yes, she reminds me quite a bit of Alice Munro, and her stories set in those isolated prairie towns. Munro's townsfolk are similar to the ones described in our narrator's home-town near the Monaro plains of South West Australia. Wood supplies hardly any description of this isolated, dry land and again I think this is a decision to avoid any type of romanticism - although I do love Gretel Erhlich's work - a writer who is able to viscerally put the high plains of Montana and Wyoming onto paper. I think Wood eschews description in order to focus exclusively on how her humans interact with the natural world. At the abbey there is an ugly, bewildering, destructive plague of mice. Although I might note here that her squeamish levels are quite low. As a cat and dog owner I've unfortunately had to deal with rather a large number of corpses. Out in the wilds of Portugal my two dogs have caught and broken the necks of several mongoose. The screams of an animal fighting for its life are not something you forget quickly - or even when you view its mangled body, can you soothe yourself that it was killed quickly. I would guess that Wood has lived primarily in a city.
On the other-hand her analyses of the human necessity for Forgiveness are some of the best I've ever read; both in a formal capacity, as revealed by the sisters, members of the Catholic faith, with whom our narrator lives. She recounts incidents from her own life in a less formal manner. There is an unpleasant incidence of bullying in school, and another where she fails to acknowledge some Vietnamese refugees, whom she had met earlier. The narrator's stories remind us that to forgive or not is part of everyone's life and that it can become a difficult question when we consider people who have harmed us. Wood presents some fairly basic concepts but then develops this theme of forgiveness in many more complex scenarios; which certainly caused me to reflect on my own life and the relationships I have.
I've spent some considerable time thinking about a particular person, and I've long since come to the conclusion that although I understand his behaviour I'm not sure whether I can ever forgive his refusal to have any interaction with me. There are consequences for decisions made. Wood relates the story of a woman who is dying; the narrator's friend, Beth has neither the energy or time to give to a person from her past. This person has embarked on a 12-step program, and wants to connect with her. Our narrator approved and understood her friend's decision, but sometimes Wood underestimates, I think the life-experience and knowledge of some of her readers.
On the whole, I forgive her because of her insights into how people either deal or don't deal with the subject of death; how they grieve over loved ones. There are several sections where the narrator recounts the death of her mother; she talks at some length about the necessity of being practical, and of being present with people who are dying. These sections Wood handles with supreme clarity and sense. She writes with many declarative sentences, in a simple style and thus she asks us to consider our own most repressed fears.
Only recently, for example have I acknowledged how much I hate to stay in any person's home other than my own - and I recognise this is due to some unpleasant experiences earlier in my life. We bury those feelings of fear. This is the common way of dealing with so much that is out of our control.
Wood clarifies that most people hide the truth; the essential truth about themselves from themselves. In the character of Helen Parry she has created a rare person who is able to acknowledge, confront, and then forgive the harm that has been done to her. The narrator and the character of Helen Parry are possibly two parts of the same person - our author - I suspect, because these two characters have been created with such authenticity.
Loved it, loved it, loved it. I've ordered The Weekend, which I understand is something quite different from Stone Yard Devotional, but I'm happy to read anything by this wonderful writer. She reminds me of Helen Garner, who is another favourite of mine.
The Spare Room - Helen Garner - she writes about living and dying with cancer.
The Solace of Open Spaces Gretel Ehrlich - evocative descriptions of wild places.
The Progress of Love - Alice Munro - families, small towns.
My mother said that anything that had once been alive should go back into the soil. Food scraps went into the compost, of course, including meat and bones, despite the general advice against this. Paper, torn into strips to allow air and microbes to move freely through. She would cut old pure cotton or silk or woollen clothes into small shreds and compost them too. Fish bones and flesh. Linen tea towels. She reluctantly left out larger pieces of wood, but longed for a woodchipper. She left cane furniture to rot and then buried it. She quoted a Buckingham Palace gardener she had once seen on television, who added leather boots to his compost bin. All that was needed was time, and nature.
Anything that had lived could make itself useful, become nourishment in death, my mother said.
I never knew anyone else who had her reverence for the earth itself.
From my earliest memories I remember my mother saving scraps for the compost- I know she put in bones and materials, paper and cardboard. From my earliest years I've know that you can't have too many "greens" or your compost will stink.
Back to Charlotte Wood - Yes, she reminds me quite a bit of Alice Munro, and her stories set in those isolated prairie towns. Munro's townsfolk are similar to the ones described in our narrator's home-town near the Monaro plains of South West Australia. Wood supplies hardly any description of this isolated, dry land and again I think this is a decision to avoid any type of romanticism - although I do love Gretel Erhlich's work - a writer who is able to viscerally put the high plains of Montana and Wyoming onto paper. I think Wood eschews description in order to focus exclusively on how her humans interact with the natural world. At the abbey there is an ugly, bewildering, destructive plague of mice. Although I might note here that her squeamish levels are quite low. As a cat and dog owner I've unfortunately had to deal with rather a large number of corpses. Out in the wilds of Portugal my two dogs have caught and broken the necks of several mongoose. The screams of an animal fighting for its life are not something you forget quickly - or even when you view its mangled body, can you soothe yourself that it was killed quickly. I would guess that Wood has lived primarily in a city.
On the other-hand her analyses of the human necessity for Forgiveness are some of the best I've ever read; both in a formal capacity, as revealed by the sisters, members of the Catholic faith, with whom our narrator lives. She recounts incidents from her own life in a less formal manner. There is an unpleasant incidence of bullying in school, and another where she fails to acknowledge some Vietnamese refugees, whom she had met earlier. The narrator's stories remind us that to forgive or not is part of everyone's life and that it can become a difficult question when we consider people who have harmed us. Wood presents some fairly basic concepts but then develops this theme of forgiveness in many more complex scenarios; which certainly caused me to reflect on my own life and the relationships I have.
I've spent some considerable time thinking about a particular person, and I've long since come to the conclusion that although I understand his behaviour I'm not sure whether I can ever forgive his refusal to have any interaction with me. There are consequences for decisions made. Wood relates the story of a woman who is dying; the narrator's friend, Beth has neither the energy or time to give to a person from her past. This person has embarked on a 12-step program, and wants to connect with her. Our narrator approved and understood her friend's decision, but sometimes Wood underestimates, I think the life-experience and knowledge of some of her readers.
On the whole, I forgive her because of her insights into how people either deal or don't deal with the subject of death; how they grieve over loved ones. There are several sections where the narrator recounts the death of her mother; she talks at some length about the necessity of being practical, and of being present with people who are dying. These sections Wood handles with supreme clarity and sense. She writes with many declarative sentences, in a simple style and thus she asks us to consider our own most repressed fears.
Only recently, for example have I acknowledged how much I hate to stay in any person's home other than my own - and I recognise this is due to some unpleasant experiences earlier in my life. We bury those feelings of fear. This is the common way of dealing with so much that is out of our control.
Wood clarifies that most people hide the truth; the essential truth about themselves from themselves. In the character of Helen Parry she has created a rare person who is able to acknowledge, confront, and then forgive the harm that has been done to her. The narrator and the character of Helen Parry are possibly two parts of the same person - our author - I suspect, because these two characters have been created with such authenticity.
Loved it, loved it, loved it. I've ordered The Weekend, which I understand is something quite different from Stone Yard Devotional, but I'm happy to read anything by this wonderful writer. She reminds me of Helen Garner, who is another favourite of mine.
The Spare Room - Helen Garner - she writes about living and dying with cancer.
The Solace of Open Spaces Gretel Ehrlich - evocative descriptions of wild places.
The Progress of Love - Alice Munro - families, small towns.
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Reading Progress
August 3, 2024
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August 3, 2024
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August 9, 2024
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August 11, 2024
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34.06%
"One reviewer complained of 'tell not show' type writing - but this would be an accurate/realistic way to write this account. I also noticed the lack of direct dialogue - it seems odd especially when encountering new characters but - 1 monastery - the reluctance to speak and the privacy of the nuns.
2 - when our narrator lives with them - she explains speech comes with slow pauses and often questions are unanswered."
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2 - when our narrator lives with them - she explains speech comes with slow pauses and often questions are unanswered."
August 16, 2024
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"Helen Parry must be our narrator's alter-ego. She views Helen's presence in the Abby as the sisters must once have viewed her presence amongst them. A woman, angry from the external world caught up with campaigns, protests and environmental issues.
The mouse plague - I think also metaphorical - in that the mice represent us - the human species, overrunning the planet, eating everything in our paths. Gory cannibals"
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The mouse plague - I think also metaphorical - in that the mice represent us - the human species, overrunning the planet, eating everything in our paths. Gory cannibals"
August 17, 2024
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"I think the same reviewer said - this is memoir style of writing and really not a novel. Wood jumps around with her subject matter - mice, Virginia Woolf, the actor David Gulpilil, back to her characters David Gittens, Simone, Bonaventure, their reluctance to kill the mice, their chickens - Helen Parry - her domineering character, our narrator's mother, our narrator's school years, the Australian landscape - I Like"
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August 19, 2024
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"I find myself reading this quite slowly - but I think that is deliberate on the part of the author. When you read a plot driven story - we read quickly. Wood on the other hand, gives us only short sections of "story" - the section about 'the charismatics' for instance. I also find myself thinking of Alice Munro stories - that focus on small-town life - people know each other; gossip; who doesn't follow the crowd."
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August 20, 2024
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""The man said that his daughter her own life out of revulsion for capitalism, for the consumption responsible for the unprecedented collapse of ecosystems, the galloping extinctions - but at this the audience could take no more."
Yes - I want to agree whole heartedly with this - with the fact that people do no listen until it is too late. BUT - would a 17 year old make this decision for these reasons?"
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Yes - I want to agree whole heartedly with this - with the fact that people do no listen until it is too late. BUT - would a 17 year old make this decision for these reasons?"
August 20, 2024
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Hi CR - a very well thought out comment. Do you know BetterHelp? It's an online therapy service, which I appreciate and use. Because of Wood's book I chose a group session which discusses Forgiveness. The therapist clarified almost immediately because of several questions, that Forgiveness and Reconciliation - can be treated as two separate concepts. Your comments show you already understand this, but I didn't have that clear idea in my head. And yes, the other topic that came up is that Forgiveness is a process - an ongoing process. We had a very wonderful discussion in the Group yesterday - one man spoke about his three lists - and over time - the people you can never, never ever forgive can be moved up - to the middle list - to people you can consider forgiving - and possibly reconciling with.
To return to Wood - she's really opening the subject in several ways. And I really appreciated her very delicate and kind approach to all the Sisters - their different stories and individual personalities. I came to the conclusion that she could have written so much more. There's also a great deal about judgement in the book - and of course bigotry. That's really where I felt the Alice Munro connection.
I certainly look forward to your take on the book - I hope you don't give it 2 stars. :)
I see in a few reviews that Nunez is mentioned - an author new to me, so I will definitely have a look - Sigrid Nunez? - Off to look !!





Hi Lisa - thank you for your comment. Yes, the book did engage me, although it's not very easy to read. Wood jumps around all over the place, but you gradually start to see her themes and how they connect. If you try this, I hope you stick with it - I put it down several times, but was called back. Do you see what I mean?
I sometimes wonder how deeply we want - to be 'touched'.


Hi Daniel - I hope you try this - I have some minor quibbles with it, but I have to admire that she really has gone out on a limb and it feels new and different. I really liked those touches - that she gives of the environment around her. Camera-like - a close up of the hens and an iguana, and then a long-shot of Helen swimming in the same part of the dam as herself. The buildings of the town - the hospital where Helen's mother was 'locked up' - they have a sparse, desolate quality - something I admired and kept looking for - but didn't really include in the review. She's really breaking quite a few moulds - at least I felt that - in my rather clumsy way - wanting other and settling with what she decides to give us. I ended up liking that a lot. Maybe you won't be interested in any of that - I'm sure you'll have your own distinctive interaction with it, should you try it. :)

It is a subtle but also scathing reflection on our modern existence - our constant instant gratification - with supermarkets and internet purchases - online information and media coverage - the world at our finger tips endlessly supplying us with more and more (the waste generated) and surplus-to-needs information.
That tension she sets up, of with-holding is very deliberate and also very beautiful. And of course the same with-holding of narrative - narrative means explanations - we're given snippets of stories. So Wood has quite cleverly blended her style and her structure to present an integrated whole. And I liked this very much. She refuses to be Thoreau or a 'Nature Lover' an off-gridd/self-sufficient homesteader - because those have a strong element of self-determining; rather than simple acceptance of what is received. She is practising the ascetic of the Buddhist monks. They have a wrap and a food bowl, a towel and a toothbrush. Her approach has a similar humility in it.
Sorry if I've bored you with too many details - I just wanted to get these insights into words. I felt these things as I read, but I hadn't really caught them in exact description.

At times that is exactly what I want from a book. And these are the books that make me ache and continue to live with me through years.

I have The Weekend on my shelf to read also. You might like to add The Submerged Cathedral. It’s her second novel, I think, from about 20yrs ago. I loved it.


So - you're both recommending - Submerged Cathedral - I will definitely get to that. Thank you both 😊😊


Well, it certainly seems like a compelling read. (Did GRs get rid of our friendship? I received a new notification. . . wait, let me clarify: I don't receive ANY notifications of any sort now. . . but I saw in my notifications box that you were "following" me now. GRs is now informing me of when my friendships are over, AND is putting people I have BLOCKED back onto my friend list. Good times!)

Yes - sorry if you were cut - every now and again I try to streamline my friends list just so that it covers more of my interest area - but that just doesn't seem to happen.

Well, I'm an American writer and I love American fiction. . . but, of course what I really love is great writing, regardless of who writes it, or where. No pressure on anything--I was just wondering if GRs had been managing my friends again! I'd rather that this site spent less time managing my friend lists and this feed and instead RESTORED OUR NOTIFICATIONS!

I just notice that GR is weighted with American writers and novels - and it's part of my small resistance to the powers that be. But there again if I can't find a book I want I will succumb to Amazon. And I do have a Wallace Stenger waiting my attention. :)
The subject of forgiveness is such a compelling one. I’m just thinking now that there are some people I’ve been able to forgive, but I do not want to re-engage with.
Sometimes, of course, one does not have a choice and must re-engage. Forgiveness isn’t entirely static, is it? The old hurts can sometimes bubble up.
Like you, I loved The Spare Room. Have you read Nunez’s What Are You Going Through?