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Stone Yard Devotional by Charlotte  Wood
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it was amazing
bookshelves: women-australia-reviewed

Five Brilliant stars for Charlotte Wood and although I haven't yet read the other Booker nominees, I would love this one to win. She writes about many subjects that are close to my range of interests: the mother who composts everything - I have one of those.

My mother said that anything that had once been alive should go back into the soil. Food scraps went into the compost, of course, including meat and bones, despite the general advice against this. Paper, torn into strips to allow air and microbes to move freely through. She would cut old pure cotton or silk or woollen clothes into small shreds and compost them too. Fish bones and flesh. Linen tea towels. She reluctantly left out larger pieces of wood, but longed for a woodchipper. She left cane furniture to rot and then buried it. She quoted a Buckingham Palace gardener she had once seen on television, who added leather boots to his compost bin. All that was needed was time, and nature.
Anything that had lived could make itself useful, become nourishment in death, my mother said.

I never knew anyone else who had her reverence for the earth itself.


From my earliest memories I remember my mother saving scraps for the compost- I know she put in bones and materials, paper and cardboard. From my earliest years I've know that you can't have too many "greens" or your compost will stink.

Back to Charlotte Wood - Yes, she reminds me quite a bit of Alice Munro, and her stories set in those isolated prairie towns. Munro's townsfolk are similar to the ones described in our narrator's home-town near the Monaro plains of South West Australia. Wood supplies hardly any description of this isolated, dry land and again I think this is a decision to avoid any type of romanticism - although I do love Gretel Erhlich's work - a writer who is able to viscerally put the high plains of Montana and Wyoming onto paper. I think Wood eschews description in order to focus exclusively on how her humans interact with the natural world. At the abbey there is an ugly, bewildering, destructive plague of mice. Although I might note here that her squeamish levels are quite low. As a cat and dog owner I've unfortunately had to deal with rather a large number of corpses. Out in the wilds of Portugal my two dogs have caught and broken the necks of several mongoose. The screams of an animal fighting for its life are not something you forget quickly - or even when you view its mangled body, can you soothe yourself that it was killed quickly. I would guess that Wood has lived primarily in a city.

On the other-hand her analyses of the human necessity for Forgiveness are some of the best I've ever read; both in a formal capacity, as revealed by the sisters, members of the Catholic faith, with whom our narrator lives. She recounts incidents from her own life in a less formal manner. There is an unpleasant incidence of bullying in school, and another where she fails to acknowledge some Vietnamese refugees, whom she had met earlier. The narrator's stories remind us that to forgive or not is part of everyone's life and that it can become a difficult question when we consider people who have harmed us. Wood presents some fairly basic concepts but then develops this theme of forgiveness in many more complex scenarios; which certainly caused me to reflect on my own life and the relationships I have.

I've spent some considerable time thinking about a particular person, and I've long since come to the conclusion that although I understand his behaviour I'm not sure whether I can ever forgive his refusal to have any interaction with me. There are consequences for decisions made. Wood relates the story of a woman who is dying; the narrator's friend, Beth has neither the energy or time to give to a person from her past. This person has embarked on a 12-step program, and wants to connect with her. Our narrator approved and understood her friend's decision, but sometimes Wood underestimates, I think the life-experience and knowledge of some of her readers.

On the whole, I forgive her because of her insights into how people either deal or don't deal with the subject of death; how they grieve over loved ones. There are several sections where the narrator recounts the death of her mother; she talks at some length about the necessity of being practical, and of being present with people who are dying. These sections Wood handles with supreme clarity and sense. She writes with many declarative sentences, in a simple style and thus she asks us to consider our own most repressed fears.

Only recently, for example have I acknowledged how much I hate to stay in any person's home other than my own - and I recognise this is due to some unpleasant experiences earlier in my life. We bury those feelings of fear. This is the common way of dealing with so much that is out of our control.

Wood clarifies that most people hide the truth; the essential truth about themselves from themselves. In the character of Helen Parry she has created a rare person who is able to acknowledge, confront, and then forgive the harm that has been done to her. The narrator and the character of Helen Parry are possibly two parts of the same person - our author - I suspect, because these two characters have been created with such authenticity.

Loved it, loved it, loved it. I've ordered The Weekend, which I understand is something quite different from Stone Yard Devotional, but I'm happy to read anything by this wonderful writer. She reminds me of Helen Garner, who is another favourite of mine.

The Spare Room - Helen Garner - she writes about living and dying with cancer.
The Solace of Open Spaces Gretel Ehrlich - evocative descriptions of wild places.
The Progress of Love - Alice Munro - families, small towns.
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Reading Progress

August 3, 2024 – Shelved as: booker-longlist
August 3, 2024 – Shelved
August 9, 2024 – Started Reading
August 11, 2024 –
page 109
34.06% "One reviewer complained of 'tell not show' type writing - but this would be an accurate/realistic way to write this account. I also noticed the lack of direct dialogue - it seems odd especially when encountering new characters but - 1 monastery - the reluctance to speak and the privacy of the nuns.
2 - when our narrator lives with them - she explains speech comes with slow pauses and often questions are unanswered."
August 16, 2024 –
page 157
49.06% "Helen Parry must be our narrator's alter-ego. She views Helen's presence in the Abby as the sisters must once have viewed her presence amongst them. A woman, angry from the external world caught up with campaigns, protests and environmental issues.
The mouse plague - I think also metaphorical - in that the mice represent us - the human species, overrunning the planet, eating everything in our paths. Gory cannibals"
August 17, 2024 –
page 175
54.69% "I think the same reviewer said - this is memoir style of writing and really not a novel. Wood jumps around with her subject matter - mice, Virginia Woolf, the actor David Gulpilil, back to her characters David Gittens, Simone, Bonaventure, their reluctance to kill the mice, their chickens - Helen Parry - her domineering character, our narrator's mother, our narrator's school years, the Australian landscape - I Like"
August 19, 2024 –
page 181
56.56% "I find myself reading this quite slowly - but I think that is deliberate on the part of the author. When you read a plot driven story - we read quickly. Wood on the other hand, gives us only short sections of "story" - the section about 'the charismatics' for instance. I also find myself thinking of Alice Munro stories - that focus on small-town life - people know each other; gossip; who doesn't follow the crowd."
August 20, 2024 –
page 217
67.81% ""The man said that his daughter her own life out of revulsion for capitalism, for the consumption responsible for the unprecedented collapse of ecosystems, the galloping extinctions - but at this the audience could take no more."
Yes - I want to agree whole heartedly with this - with the fact that people do no listen until it is too late. BUT - would a 17 year old make this decision for these reasons?"
August 20, 2024 – Shelved as: women-australia-reviewed
August 20, 2024 – Finished Reading

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CanadianReader And I loved your insightful review, and your connections to your own life. Forgiveness, repressed fears, our resistance to seeing ourselves with clarity. Fascinating. I’m very eager to read this and have the first hold on it at my local library. I will read your review with even greater interest once I’ve done so.

The subject of forgiveness is such a compelling one. I’m just thinking now that there are some people I’ve been able to forgive, but I do not want to re-engage with.

Sometimes, of course, one does not have a choice and must re-engage. Forgiveness isn’t entirely static, is it? The old hurts can sometimes bubble up.

Like you, I loved The Spare Room. Have you read Nunez’s What Are You Going Through?


message 2: by Laura (last edited Aug 21, 2024 01:28AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Laura CanadianReader wrote: "And I loved your insightful review, and your connections to your own life. Forgiveness, repressed fears, our resistance to seeing ourselves with clarity. Fascinating. I’m very eager to read this an..."

Hi CR - a very well thought out comment. Do you know BetterHelp? It's an online therapy service, which I appreciate and use. Because of Wood's book I chose a group session which discusses Forgiveness. The therapist clarified almost immediately because of several questions, that Forgiveness and Reconciliation - can be treated as two separate concepts. Your comments show you already understand this, but I didn't have that clear idea in my head. And yes, the other topic that came up is that Forgiveness is a process - an ongoing process. We had a very wonderful discussion in the Group yesterday - one man spoke about his three lists - and over time - the people you can never, never ever forgive can be moved up - to the middle list - to people you can consider forgiving - and possibly reconciling with.

To return to Wood - she's really opening the subject in several ways. And I really appreciated her very delicate and kind approach to all the Sisters - their different stories and individual personalities. I came to the conclusion that she could have written so much more. There's also a great deal about judgement in the book - and of course bigotry. That's really where I felt the Alice Munro connection.

I certainly look forward to your take on the book - I hope you don't give it 2 stars. :)

I see in a few reviews that Nunez is mentioned - an author new to me, so I will definitely have a look - Sigrid Nunez? - Off to look !!


message 3: by Fran (new)

Fran Hawthorne Thank you for your beautiful, thoughtful and personal review. You have prompted me to start thinking about forgiveness and people in my life. (I feel like I don't need to read the book, because your review is so rich--which was probably not your intention!)


Laura Hi Fran - I suspect lots of readers won't like this book - it's written in lots of little segments - which are all on different topics - there's a meandering plot - very meandering - and the style is realistic - in that some of her sentences are remarkably blunt - even clumsy - it is meant to represent a diary or memoir - far more than a novel. I read it quite slowly - and only picked it up again and again because I started to feel respect for the voice/the narrator. I hope you read it - I'm curious to see how other people react. 😊


message 5: by Fran (new)

Fran Hawthorne Thanks for explaining more about the book. I think it helps if people know not to expect a traditional plot-driven, straight-line novel.


message 6: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Laura, it sounds like this one touched you in a deep and personal way. That is what most of us want from a book. I'm so glad you found it here.


Laura Lisa wrote: "Laura, it sounds like this one touched you in a deep and personal way. That is what most of us want from a book. I'm so glad you found it here."

Hi Lisa - thank you for your comment. Yes, the book did engage me, although it's not very easy to read. Wood jumps around all over the place, but you gradually start to see her themes and how they connect. If you try this, I hope you stick with it - I put it down several times, but was called back. Do you see what I mean?
I sometimes wonder how deeply we want - to be 'touched'.


message 8: by Daniel (new)

Daniel Shindler Dazzling review, Laura. You imparted the feel of the novel and how it connected to you. I am tempted to try this one.


message 9: by Laura (last edited Sep 02, 2024 12:02PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Laura Daniel wrote: "Dazzling review, Laura. You imparted the feel of the novel and how it connected to you. I am tempted to try this one."

Hi Daniel - I hope you try this - I have some minor quibbles with it, but I have to admire that she really has gone out on a limb and it feels new and different. I really liked those touches - that she gives of the environment around her. Camera-like - a close up of the hens and an iguana, and then a long-shot of Helen swimming in the same part of the dam as herself. The buildings of the town - the hospital where Helen's mother was 'locked up' - they have a sparse, desolate quality - something I admired and kept looking for - but didn't really include in the review. She's really breaking quite a few moulds - at least I felt that - in my rather clumsy way - wanting other and settling with what she decides to give us. I ended up liking that a lot. Maybe you won't be interested in any of that - I'm sure you'll have your own distinctive interaction with it, should you try it. :)


message 10: by Laura (last edited Sep 02, 2024 03:26PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Laura Hi Daniel - I wanted to add one more thing - because it was bothering me. There is a tension in the text in relation to the landscapes - there is a deliberate with-holding of description. I was literally yearning for evocative, lush, lengthy descriptions of the high desert plains, of their dry and rare beauty. I wanted her to wax lyrical on these isolated landscapes and thus inevitably to 'romanticise' them - paint them in beauty - but she doesn't. And I realised this is a reflection of how the sisters live - they have very little, and have to make do with what they are given. And so the lack of 'description' is a comment on the austerity of their lives - they must take, or accept what they are given, just as I have to accept the odd sentences of description. Our narrator and the sisters have to accept the limitations of what is available to them - and be grateful for what they have or what they are given.

It is a subtle but also scathing reflection on our modern existence - our constant instant gratification - with supermarkets and internet purchases - online information and media coverage - the world at our finger tips endlessly supplying us with more and more (the waste generated) and surplus-to-needs information.

That tension she sets up, of with-holding is very deliberate and also very beautiful. And of course the same with-holding of narrative - narrative means explanations - we're given snippets of stories. So Wood has quite cleverly blended her style and her structure to present an integrated whole. And I liked this very much. She refuses to be Thoreau or a 'Nature Lover' an off-gridd/self-sufficient homesteader - because those have a strong element of self-determining; rather than simple acceptance of what is received. She is practising the ascetic of the Buddhist monks. They have a wrap and a food bowl, a towel and a toothbrush. Her approach has a similar humility in it.

Sorry if I've bored you with too many details - I just wanted to get these insights into words. I felt these things as I read, but I hadn't really caught them in exact description.


message 11: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Laura wrote: "I sometimes wonder how deeply we want - to be 'touched'."

At times that is exactly what I want from a book. And these are the books that make me ache and continue to live with me through years.


Janelle Wonderful review, Laura :)

I have The Weekend on my shelf to read also. You might like to add The Submerged Cathedral. It’s her second novel, I think, from about 20yrs ago. I loved it.


Margaret Williams Loved Stone Yard and your review Laura. But The Weekend probably my least favourite of Charlotte Wood's novels. Recommend The Submerged Cathedral or any or the others.


Laura Hi Janelle and Margaret - my apologies - I did not receive any notifications for your comments.
So - you're both recommending - Submerged Cathedral - I will definitely get to that. Thank you both 😊😊


message 15: by Julie (new)

Julie G Excellent, Laura. This is my new favorite review of yours. So much meat on this bone (whether you compost it or not!).


Laura Hi Julie - thanks for reading - are you planning on trying this one?


message 17: by Julie (new)

Julie G Hi Laura,
Well, it certainly seems like a compelling read. (Did GRs get rid of our friendship? I received a new notification. . . wait, let me clarify: I don't receive ANY notifications of any sort now. . . but I saw in my notifications box that you were "following" me now. GRs is now informing me of when my friendships are over, AND is putting people I have BLOCKED back onto my friend list. Good times!)


Laura Hi Julie - sometimes I cull my friends list if the books we read don't overlap. I generally try to avoid American fiction - but as I'm always reading Lark Benobi's reviews it becomes more and more impossible to say - no. Although she does also read plenty of translated and fiction from other countries. Sorry - I didn't mean to cut you off completely - that was a mistake. I try to tick - and then untick Top Friends boxes because sometimes I end up with massive numbers of reviews from the same person - both very old and new reviews all together. Yes - and I have to trawl through my feed to find comments I didn't get any notifications for.
Yes - sorry if you were cut - every now and again I try to streamline my friends list just so that it covers more of my interest area - but that just doesn't seem to happen.


Laura Given up basically, on trying to control my feed.


message 20: by Julie (new)

Julie G Hi Laura,
Well, I'm an American writer and I love American fiction. . . but, of course what I really love is great writing, regardless of who writes it, or where. No pressure on anything--I was just wondering if GRs had been managing my friends again! I'd rather that this site spent less time managing my friend lists and this feed and instead RESTORED OUR NOTIFICATIONS!


Laura Hi Julie - I did receive notifications for all your comments here - which is a first in recent months. I'll send you a friend request - which you can accept or decline as you wish. Or not! :)
I just notice that GR is weighted with American writers and novels - and it's part of my small resistance to the powers that be. But there again if I can't find a book I want I will succumb to Amazon. And I do have a Wallace Stenger waiting my attention. :)


Laura Hi Lisa - sorry - someone gave a Like - and I was re-reading this. Yes - I like books that make me reflect on my life - but it can be a painful process. Sometimes we don't like the person we are - or maybe we see in our past. I love re-reading because as you say - the books stay with us. 😊


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