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My Friends by Fredrik Backman
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it was amazing

" That's all of life. All we can hope for. You mustn't think about the fact that it might end, because then you live like a coward, you never love too much or sing too loudly. You have to take it for granted, the artist thinks, the whole thing: sunrises and slow Sunday mornings and water balloons and another person's breath against your neck. That's the only courageous thing a person can do."

Deeply moving story of friendship and art and everything in between. A few shortcomings (too much telling in the first half rather than showing is the major thing) but it is more than made up for with the gorgeous tale.

This is the story of four friends. And one girl who needs to connect with them. Twenty-five years ago, four teenagers forged a bond that circumstances can never break. One of them goes on to become a famous artist, and the first painting he created serves as a catalyst for what happens in the future.

I think it's best to just go with this story. You really don't need to know what it's about, because Backman's writing stands on its own regardless of the subject matter. His words paint a picture of flawed people looking for connection, looking to find their true selves. I know there are readers who just don't connect with his writing style, but I'm not one of those. I love the stream of consciousness writing, where I get to know the thoughts of the characters despite how broken they might be, and I am able to join them in their journey.

I think his characters are so viscerally real because he puts himself into them. His writing is raw and vulnerable and incredibly meaningful due to that vulnerability. His writing makes me think and feel and that's exactly what I want a book to do.

Backman remains my absolute favorite.

I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book, all opinions are my own.
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Reading Progress

August 14, 2024 – Shelved
August 14, 2024 – Shelved as: to-read
December 21, 2024 – Started Reading
December 29, 2024 – Finished Reading

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Southern Lady Reads Hope you love it when it comes out!


Krystal Yes! Seeing this just made my day! 🩷🩷


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Rosh OMG!!! Thanks for this update, Melissa! Will keep my eyes peeled!


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Jayme ☺️


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Katie ‼️‼️‼️


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K. East I agree!!! ANYthing by Backman is on my Must Read list!!


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Suzanne Same LOL


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Catherine (alternativelytitledbooks) - in a book slump :( Same here Melissa!!! It absolutely made my day! ❤️


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Wendy with a book Yay! Thanks for your update! I’ve practically been stalking the internet for years waiting for an announcement of his next book.


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PK Devers Wendy, and here I thought I was the only one lol. I’m constantly scouring the Internet looking for anything new from Fredrik.
He just came out with a short story called “The Answer is No�. I just bought it for my Kindle. He is by far my favorite author. I’ve loved every single moment of reading everything he’s ever written. I can’t wait for My Friend to be released!


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Midge Backman returns with an unforgettably funny, deeply moving tale of four teenagers whose friendship creates a bond so powerful that it changes a stranger’s life twenty-five years later.

Can read more about book online. Simon & Schuster.com


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Michelle I feel The same! I just got his short story on Amazon first reads and I can’t tell you how excited I was to find out he was releasing more books!!!


Susan's Reviews I just got his short story about a condo dwelling and the crazy board of directors on NetGalley. Hilarious! The central conflict revolves around... a frying pan!!!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) I still have read this author this book sounds amazing!


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MarilynW 🤗


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jennyreadit I’ll read anything he writes! Even if it’s a grocery list- he’s a genius with words! 😍


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Maria I cannot wait! I'm so excited. Yeeey


message 18: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Well expressed review. I can’t wait to read this.


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Barbara I'm happy to see he's publishing a new novel next year. I'm a huge fan as well.


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Kat I'm happy you enjoyed this, Melissa. You've stoked my curiosity about it!


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NZLisaM Wonderful review, Melissa. 🩵


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Susan's Reviews wrote: "I just got his short story about a condo dwelling and the crazy board of directors on NetGalley. Hilarious! The central conflict revolves around... a frying pan!!!"

Loved that one!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Tara wrote: "I still have read this author this book sounds amazing!"

You absolutely do need to read his books!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) MarilynW wrote: "🤗"

Woooo!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) jennyreadit wrote: "I’ll read anything he writes! Even if it’s a grocery list- he’s a genius with words! 😍"

I completely agree. I rarely highlight quotes but his books are filled with my highlights!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Maria wrote: "I cannot wait! I'm so excited. Yeeey"

I hope you love it!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Liz wrote: "Well expressed review. I can’t wait to read this."

I really hope you enjoy it too


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Barbara wrote: "I'm happy to see he's publishing a new novel next year. I'm a huge fan as well."

I'm thrilled he is writing again too!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Kat wrote: "I'm happy you enjoyed this, Melissa. You've stoked my curiosity about it!"

I hope you give it a chance!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) NZLisaM wrote: "Wonderful review, Melissa. 🩵"

Thank you Lisa!


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R L HERSKOWITZ Melissa, fantastic review!
Have a happy New Year 🎆 🥳‼️


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) R L HERSKOWITZ wrote: "Melissa, fantastic review!
Have a happy New Year 🎆 🥳‼️"


Thank you so much!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Fantastic review, Melissa! I’m so glad to hear that you loved it! 😍 Have a Happy New Year! 🥳 🎇 🎊


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Rosh Backman is an absolute favourite of mine as well and I can't wait to get my hands on this. Glad to see your 5 stars for this, Melissa. Wonderful review!


Kaceey Fabulous review Melissa! I absolutely love his writing style too! Can’t wait to read this one!🧡


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Tara wrote: "Fantastic review, Melissa! I’m so glad to hear that you loved it! 😍 Have a Happy New Year! 🥳 🎇 🎊"

Thank you Tara, and to you as well!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Rosh wrote: "Backman is an absolute favourite of mine as well and I can't wait to get my hands on this. Glad to see your 5 stars for this, Melissa. Wonderful review!"

Thanks Rosh!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Kaceey wrote: "Fabulous review Melissa! I absolutely love his writing style too! Can’t wait to read this one!🧡"

Thanks Kaceey!


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Fran Melissa...Happy New Year & Happy Reading in 2025!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Fran (Not Receiving Notifications) wrote: "Melissa...Happy New Year & Happy Reading in 2025!"

Thanks Fran, to you as well!


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Andrea Great review, Melissa. Happy New Year.❤️


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Andrea wrote: "Great review, Melissa. Happy New Year.❤️"

Thanks Andrea, Happy New year!


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Sherri Thacker I may have to try this one!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Sherri wrote: "I may have to try this one!"

It's a sweet book


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Catherine (alternativelytitledbooks) - in a book slump :( SO beyond excited to have gotten this ARC and to see your 5 stars...woohoo! Absolutely love Backman and he rarely disappoints!! Excellent review Melissa, and Happy New Year to you! 🥂


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Catherine wrote: "SO beyond excited to have gotten this ARC and to see your 5 stars...woohoo! Absolutely love Backman and he rarely disappoints!! Excellent review Melissa, and Happy New Year to you! 🥂"

Hope you enjoy it too! Happy New Year!


Susie This is the way to do a review; too many others are giving away too much (IMHO), and the gradual revelations are an important part of this book.


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Jayne Love seeing those 5 stars, Melissa. Fabulous review. This is a 21-hour audiobook and that scared me but you have sold me!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Susie wrote: "This is the way to do a review; too many others are giving away too much (IMHO), and the gradual revelations are an important part of this book."

Exactly right, I did struggle and decided that part of the joy of this novel is in the discovery!


Melissa (Semi-hiatus for Work) Jayne wrote: "Love seeing those 5 stars, Melissa. Fabulous review. This is a 21-hour audiobook and that scared me but you have sold me!"

Wow, that is long. But if Marin Ireland is the narrator it's worth it (I don't know if she is, but I hope so!)


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