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Don’t Tell Me How to Die by Marshall Karp
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it was ok

The premise centers on Maggie, who faces the daunting reality of inheriting the fatal illness that took her mother at a young age. As she grapples with her mortality, her focus shifts to finding a suitable partner for her husband after her passing, mainly due to her father's unfortunate experience with a con artist following her mother’s death.

The narrative predominantly unfolds through flashbacks, illustrating a teenage Maggie in reckless moments, surrounded by peers, parents, and her sister, all engaged in dialogue filled with sarcasm. This blend of humour against a serious theme aims to create a sense of levity; however, the humour may not resonate as intended, leaving some moments feeling less effective.

The plot requires a significant suspension of disbelief, with several events seeming implausible, which can create a disconnect between readers and the story’s reality. Despite being in their 40s, the adult characters often appear to lack substantial development from their teenage selves, coming across more as caricatures instead of fully fleshed-out characters. The dialogue sometimes feels contrived, missing the richness of authentic human interaction.

There are also aspects of the portrayal of women that could be perceived as problematic, presenting them as predatory figures who target grieving widowers. This characterization raises concerns and could detract from the overall message of the narrative.

Despite initial reservations, I chose to continue reading, influenced by the seemingly positive reviews and hopeful for an improvement in the narrative quality. Unfortunately, my expectations were not met as the story progressed.

The synopsis promised a thriller infused with sharp humour, yet this potential seems underexplored throughout the text. Overall, there are interesting themes at play, but there is an opportunity for more profound character development and a more nuanced approach to humour and relationships.

I lost my mother when I was a teenager due to cancer. I expected a more emotional and nuanced narrative and expected to shed some tears. That wasn’t the case. I was dry-eyed and rolling my eyes and became offended at how they portrayed the women as opportunist vultures.

I want to thank Blackstone Publishing and NetGalley for providing an e-ARC through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.
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Reading Progress

January 16, 2025 – Shelved
January 16, 2025 – Shelved as: to-read
March 5, 2025 – Started Reading
March 6, 2025 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Tina (new)

Tina I appreciate your forthright and honest review. Sorry this one wan't better for you ❤️‍� Hope your next one is a full 5 stars!!!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you very much, Tina! ❤️‍�


Norma ~ The Sisters Oh I'm sorry that this one wasn't a better read for your Tara. Wonderful review. I hope that you absolutely love your next read.


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Norma!


message 5: by Taufiq (new)

Taufiq Yves Dry-eyed and eye-rolling? That's a strong reaction! Thanks for the honest review, Tara.


Nikki Lee I always appreciate an honest review, Tara. Hope you enjoy the next one. 💜


message 7: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Fair and honest review Tara.


Marialyce I felt the same. It was a pure low substance book.


message 9: by Srivalli (new)

Srivalli Rekha So sorry this was disappointing. Fair review, Tara. Hope your next read is a 5-star.


Jayme Sorry it didn’t work for you! This seems to be a “love it or hate it� book!


JaymeO Sorry it didn’t work for you! Terrific review!


message 12: by NZLisaM (last edited Mar 06, 2025 12:07PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

NZLisaM Sorry you found it problematic, Tara. Hope your next read is 5 stars! Appreciate your honest review.


Shelley's Book Nook Amazing review of this one, Tara. I hope we both have better reads moving forward. 🤗💕


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Shelley! 💖


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you kindly, Sri! :)


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you very much, Jayme!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Lisa! 💗


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Nikki! 🩵


message 20: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen What a shame! Hope your next is better, Tara.


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Jayme! 💞


message 23: by Dutchie (new)

Dutchie Wonderful review, Tara!💕 Sorry this wasn’t a winner for you.


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Dutchie! 💞


message 25: by Krystal (new)

Krystal Sorry this was a miss for you! Great review, Tara!!🖤


message 26: by Lisa (new)

Lisa B So sorry this was not a good fit for you hope your next book is more enjoyable! 🧡


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Krystal! 🩵


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Lisa! 🩵


Rosh (Off GR duty for a fortnight!) Oh, this one is certainly getting all the hype! Sorry it didn't work so well for you, Tara. I'll go in with more realistic expectations. Fair review! ❤️ Thanks for sharing your personal feelings about the portrayal of women here - helps a lot!


Casey Reads 🌸 Yikes this one sounds like a miss! Hope your next read is better!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you very much, Casey!


Darla An honest and helpful review, Tara. So sorry to hear that this rang hollow in the light of your own personal experiences.


Holly  B (slower pace!) A trigger for me too. Onto better


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Rosh! ❤️ I believe it is important to share the impact of women’s character portrayals in books, both positive and negative.


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Darla! ❤️‍�


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Yes, onto to better! I just wish I wasn’t in a reading slump. I hope your current book is more enjoyable, Holly! 🩵


message 37: by JanB (new) - rated it 2 stars

JanB I’m sorry for the loss of your mother Tara. I’m sure that experience made this book even more ridiculous. Their cavalier attitude was off-putting.

I completely agree their depiction of women as opportunistic vultures was offensive. Onto better for both of us!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you so much, Kat! ❤️‍� I appreciate your support. Although the book put me in a brief reading slump, I turned that around by picking up some new titles from the library tonight. I’m looking forward to diving into my first book, “What Happened to the McRay’s� by Tracy Lang! ✨�


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thank you for your support and insightful, honest reviews, Rosh! ❤️‍�


message 40: by Kat (new) - added it

Kat Your feelings about the book are understandable. After so many initial raves, I'm seeing more reviews like yours lately. I appreciate your honest thoughts, Tara! 🩷


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Thanks so much, Kat! 💗


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