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A Man Called Ove
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Received as an ARC from the publisher. Started 5-8-14. Finished 5-11-14. First let me explain what happened to me while reading this book aloud to my wife as she was preparing dinner. I'm 70; she's almost 70. I'd read the first page, laughed out loud and decided she'd like to hear it read. I read, we laughed and nodded knowingly, then I got to the end of chapter 4 and completely lost it---I couldn't continue through those last few sentences. My wife said I should quit since she knows that I cry at supermarket openings! Now how many books have you read that can cause that kind of a physical and emotional response?! On the other hand, this book is hilarious, insightful, touching and just plain awesome. It seems pretty simple at first but there is more depth to this book than any I've read in forever. As I got near the end, I thought that there really should be a sequel, then the plot changed-----definitely no sequel. But I'm thankful I had the opportunity to read this. You will too.
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Great review. I just finished this one, and I know exactly how you felt while reading it. This has been one of my favorite books ever read, and it's nice to see many others feel the same.


Diane wrote: "David, there is a sequel of sorts. "The Love Song of Miss Queenie Hennessey" was written simultaneously by the author and released in March. It's the story of Queenie in the hospice as Harold is..."










Excellent idea. I hadn't thought about a differing view.

I just wanted to reach out...and do not know if you'll ever receive this or if these comments are actual people, that...
What struck me most about your review was not your comments about the book itself. I never got that far...although scrolling down to write this comment evidently you eluded to the ending of the book?;)... I giggle quietly when life presents bigger fish to fry and others have the beauty of being concerned with those kinds of issues...:). Sooooo...
If you ever do read this...I just wanted to share what struck me most about your review/comment. To be honest, I stopped after a couple of lines bc what you wrote was so profound that I found myself hoping you and your wife are still alive and vibrant; that this was a review from an authentic person who holds the compassion and empathy I strive to influence my children with, and that, if I wrote what I'm writing at this moment...where the f&cking does my comment end up and who the f&cking would ever read it....SOOOO...
I'm going to get to my point as it's as if I'm journaling at this point :)
What struck me most was that you began so naturally describing you were reading aloud to your wife. What then unfolded was your desire to share with her the humor you were experiencing at that time, from simply several pages of a book.
This was so profound to me, given you're both in your 70's, the desire to want to see the one you love the most be able to share the same experience you were having...I believe is the secret success to marriage. It encompasses compassion, empathy and the desire to want to make your partner feel good. As simply complex as I could express given I have written so much to get to my point:). Many blessings and happy reading.
Hold onto what you've been doing because you're both doing what it takes to beat the odds of the divorce rate of 52% of couples in the US.
The Passionate Marriage is one of my recommended books. And although it's a fabulous book, the authenticity of your comment is enough to model what it takes to succeed in interpersonal commitments:)





