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丿乇賵睾诏賵蹖蹖 乇賵蹖 賲亘賱
丿乇 夭蹖乇 倬賵爻鬲賴 亘爻蹖丕乇蹖 丕夭 賲卮丕睾賱貙 賲爻丕蹖賱 馗乇蹖賮 賵 賳丕倬蹖丿丕蹖蹖 賵噩賵丿 丿丕乇丿 讴賴 丿蹖诏乇丕賳 丕夭 丌賳賴丕 丌诏丕賴 賳蹖爻鬲賳丿. 丿乇 丕蹖賳 賲蹖丕賳 丿賳蹖丕蹖 倬夭卮讴蹖 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 毓噩蹖亘鈥屫臂屬� 丕蹖賳 賲卮丕睾賱 丕爻鬲 賵 卮丕蹖丿 乇賵丕賳鈥屬矩藏蹿┷� 倬乇乇賲夭賵 乇丕夭鬲乇蹖賳 丌賳賴丕 亘丕卮丿.
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蹖丕賱賵賲 丿乇 丕蹖賳 爻賴 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 讴賴 丿乇賴賲 诏乇賴 禺賵乇丿賴鈥屫з嗀� 亘丕 鬲乇讴蹖亘 賵丕賯毓蹖鬲鈥屬囏й� 乇賵丕賳 讴丕賵蹖貙 乇賵丕亘胤 倬蹖趩蹖丿賴 賲蹖丕賳 乇賵丕賳倬夭卮讴 賵 亘蹖賲丕乇 乇丕 賳卮丕賳 丿丕丿賴鈥屫ж池�. 倬夭卮讴丕賳蹖 讴賴 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮丕賳 乇丕 賲丿丕賵丕 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁嗀� 丕賲丕 丿乇 夭賵丕蹖丕蹖 倬賳賴丕賳 乇賵丨 賵 匕賴賳卮丕賳貙 禺賵丿 賴賲 丿趩丕乇 亘蹖賲丕乇蹖 賴爻鬲賳丿.
544 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1996
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Irvin D. Yalom
87听books9,594听followersIrvin David Yalom, M.D., is an author of fiction and nonfiction, Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry at Stanford University, an existentialist, and accomplished psychotherapist.
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August 27, 2009
I'm going to go ahead and give this five stars. It's not a perfect book, certainly not from a literary point of view. It was didactic at times, occasionally draggy with lengthy lecture-like dialogue and inner monologue, and some of its plot twists were highly contrived. But I don't think Yalom was trying to write a perfect novel, or if he was, that goal was secondary. What he was trying to do, according to an interview I read, is carve out a new genre -- what he calls the "teaching novel." It's an ambitious feat, and I feel he succeeded brilliantly.
The novel itself follows two parallel stories of clients lying to their gullible therapists, who for their part are struggling with boundary issues. The main plot focuses on Ernest, a psychopharmacologist-turned-beginner-psychotherapist, considering a career in psychoanalysis but starting to have doubts about the artificiality and rigidity of the relationship. As a therapist, Ernest would like to experiment with being more genuine, human, and transparent in the therapy room. This goal leaves him ripe for the machinations of Carol, a vengeful ex-wife whose husband, Ernest's patient, has left her thanks in part to Ernest's empowerment. Carol, the original hell-hath-no-fury dame, enters therapy with Ernest under false premises (and using an alias) so she can seduce him and subsequently ruin his career. Alas, Ernest's resolution to experiment with abandoning the traditional neutral stance makes it increasingly tricky for him to navigate Carol's aggressively seductive advances.
The subplot follows Ernest's supervisor, Marshal, an orthodox psychoanalyst who is critical of Ernest's renegade experimentation with deviating from the traditional neutral stance. Marshal is a stickler for the boundaries and rules imposed by psychoanalytic theory. He is also ruthlessly pursuing political advancement in the psychoanalytic society with little regard for his relationships with some of his colleagues, a classic example of someone who insists on the letter of the law while violating its spirit. A wealthy patient manages to convince Marshal to invest a significant amount of money with him -- a quintessential example of dual roles, although in a moment of weakness Marshal accepts the patient's ethically questionable justification that therapy is terminating and the therapeutic relationship is no longer relevant. This initial weakening leads to other ethical slips and boundary violations on Marshal's part, with far-reaching consequences.
These plots were certainly intriguing, and the characters were multifaceted and real although I found Carol's personality a little too changeable. For me, though, the book's main weaknesses on a literary level -- its lengthy, agenda-driven dialogue and asides -- were also its strengths on a didactic level. Using his characters as mouthpieces, Yalom explored some fascinating questions:
Is it ever okay to sleep with a patient? How about a former patient? How about a patient you saw 10 years ago, briefly, in group therapy? How about investing money with a former patient -- what's really wrong with that?
Which therapist is right 鈥� the one who rigidly embraces technique at the expense of creativity and individuality, or the maverick who ignores technique and strikes out on his own, taking risks and muddying the ethical waters?
When, and to what degree, is self-disclosure on the part of the therapist appropriate? What are the advantages and disadvantages of maintaining a neutral stance, as opposed to relating to the client on a more human level?
Yalom doesn't provide easy answers to these questions. Instead, he has his characters ruminate about them and debate them at length, raising many intelligent points on all sides and fleshing out the complexity of these issues. These long-winded discussions and asides do little to advance the plot or deepen the characterization, but they definitely stimulate thought and educate the reader about Yalom's therapy approaches.
More educational than a novel, more interesting than a textbook -- I give Yalom full points for creating this genre and providing us with an excellent example of its potential.
The novel itself follows two parallel stories of clients lying to their gullible therapists, who for their part are struggling with boundary issues. The main plot focuses on Ernest, a psychopharmacologist-turned-beginner-psychotherapist, considering a career in psychoanalysis but starting to have doubts about the artificiality and rigidity of the relationship. As a therapist, Ernest would like to experiment with being more genuine, human, and transparent in the therapy room. This goal leaves him ripe for the machinations of Carol, a vengeful ex-wife whose husband, Ernest's patient, has left her thanks in part to Ernest's empowerment. Carol, the original hell-hath-no-fury dame, enters therapy with Ernest under false premises (and using an alias) so she can seduce him and subsequently ruin his career. Alas, Ernest's resolution to experiment with abandoning the traditional neutral stance makes it increasingly tricky for him to navigate Carol's aggressively seductive advances.
The subplot follows Ernest's supervisor, Marshal, an orthodox psychoanalyst who is critical of Ernest's renegade experimentation with deviating from the traditional neutral stance. Marshal is a stickler for the boundaries and rules imposed by psychoanalytic theory. He is also ruthlessly pursuing political advancement in the psychoanalytic society with little regard for his relationships with some of his colleagues, a classic example of someone who insists on the letter of the law while violating its spirit. A wealthy patient manages to convince Marshal to invest a significant amount of money with him -- a quintessential example of dual roles, although in a moment of weakness Marshal accepts the patient's ethically questionable justification that therapy is terminating and the therapeutic relationship is no longer relevant. This initial weakening leads to other ethical slips and boundary violations on Marshal's part, with far-reaching consequences.
These plots were certainly intriguing, and the characters were multifaceted and real although I found Carol's personality a little too changeable. For me, though, the book's main weaknesses on a literary level -- its lengthy, agenda-driven dialogue and asides -- were also its strengths on a didactic level. Using his characters as mouthpieces, Yalom explored some fascinating questions:
Is it ever okay to sleep with a patient? How about a former patient? How about a patient you saw 10 years ago, briefly, in group therapy? How about investing money with a former patient -- what's really wrong with that?
Which therapist is right 鈥� the one who rigidly embraces technique at the expense of creativity and individuality, or the maverick who ignores technique and strikes out on his own, taking risks and muddying the ethical waters?
When, and to what degree, is self-disclosure on the part of the therapist appropriate? What are the advantages and disadvantages of maintaining a neutral stance, as opposed to relating to the client on a more human level?
Yalom doesn't provide easy answers to these questions. Instead, he has his characters ruminate about them and debate them at length, raising many intelligent points on all sides and fleshing out the complexity of these issues. These long-winded discussions and asides do little to advance the plot or deepen the characterization, but they definitely stimulate thought and educate the reader about Yalom's therapy approaches.
More educational than a novel, more interesting than a textbook -- I give Yalom full points for creating this genre and providing us with an excellent example of its potential.
January 26, 2022
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賲賳 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 丿蹖诏賴鈥屬�. 賳丕噩蹖 囟賲丕蹖乇 诏賲 卮丿賴. 鬲爻賱蹖賲 卮丿賳 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 亘蹖賲丕乇 乇賵 乇丿 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 禺賵丿賲 乇賵 賲蹖鈥屭┴促呚� 禺賵丿賲 乇賵 亘賴 禺胤乇 賲蹖鈥屬嗀ж操呚� 賴乇 讴丕乇蹖 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 鬲丕 亘蹖賲丕乇 乇賵 賳噩丕鬲 亘丿賲. 丕蹖賳 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 讴賱 胤賵賱 丨乇賮賴鈥屬� 氐丕丿賯賴.
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賲丕乇卮丕賱 丕卮鬲乇蹖丿乇 诏賮鬲賴 亘賵丿 馗賴賵乇 卮賵禺蹖鈥屬囏й� 賮乇毓蹖 丿乇 丿乇賲丕賳 丕睾賱亘 賳卮丕賳賴鈥屰� 禺賵亘蹖 丕爻鬲.
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賲賵囟賵毓 爻丕丿賴鈥屫й屬囏� 夭賳 亘丕蹖丿 亘賴 趩卮賲丕賳 賲乇丿 賳诏丕賴 讴賳賴 賵 亘乇丕蹖 趩賳丿 丿賯蹖賯賴 禺蹖乇賴 亘賲賵賳賴. 賴賲賴鈥屫� 賴賲蹖賳.
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诏賮鬲賴 卮丿賴 讴賴 賴丿賮 丿乇賲丕賳 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 蹖讴 賳賮乇 賲丕丿乇 賵 倬丿乇 禺賵丿卮 亘丕卮賴. 賲賳 賮讴乇 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 賲丕 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬� 賴賲蹖賳 乇賵 賴賲鈥屫必ж� 亘丕 賲卮丕賵乇賴 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲. 賴丿賮 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲卮丕賵乇 禺賵丿鬲 亘卮蹖.
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诏匕卮鬲賴 亘禺卮蹖 丕夭 禺賵丿丌诏丕賴 丨丕賱 丨丕囟乇 鬲賵卅賴. 毓蹖賳讴蹖 乇賵 丿乇爻鬲 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 讴賴 鬲賵 丕夭 胤乇蹖賯 丕賵賳 丨丕賱 丨丕囟乇 乇賵 鬲噩乇亘賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗃�. 丕诏賴 亘禺賵丕賲 賰丕賲賱 亘卮賳丕爻賲鬲貙 亘丕蹖丿 趩蹖夭蹖 乇賵 讴賴 賲蹖鈥屫ㄛ屬嗃� 亘亘蹖賳賲.
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鬲氐賲蹖賲鈥屬囏й� 亘丿 丕蹖賳胤賵乇蹖 賳馗丕賲 倬蹖丿丕 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�: 亘丕 賲鬲賯丕毓丿 讴乇丿賳 禺賵丿鬲 讴賴 賴蹖趩 趩丕乇賴鈥屰� 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫й� 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇丿.
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禺賵丿 乇丕 鬲丕 噩丕蹖蹖 丌卮讴丕乇 讴賳 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 賲賮蹖丿 丕爻鬲.
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亘蹖丕 爻毓蹖 讴賳蹖賲 爻賵丕賱鬲 乇賵 丿乇讴 讴賳蹖賲. 亘賴 賲賳 亘诏賵 賵丕賯毓丕 趩賴 趩蹖夭蹖 丕夭 賲賳 賲蹖鈥屬矩必驰屫� 賵 趩乇丕責
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蹖賵賳诏 賲蹖鈥屭� 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 亘丕蹖丿 亘乇丕蹖 賴乇 亘蹖賲丕乇 蹖讴 夭亘丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 噩丿蹖丿 丕禺鬲乇丕毓 讴賳賴.
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乇賵蹖 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 亘丿鬲 賵 乇賵蹖 賵蹖賱蹖 鬲賲乇讴夭 讴賳 賵 亘匕丕乇 丕賮讴丕乇鬲 丌夭丕丿 亘丕卮賳. 賴乇 趩蹖夭蹖 乇賵 讴賴 亘賴 匕賴賳鬲 賲蹖鈥屫必迟� 亘诏賵. 爻毓蹖 賳讴賳 倬蹖卮鈥屫з堌臂� 讴賳蹖 蹖丕 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲毓賳丕 丿丕乇賳 乇賵 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 讴賳蹖. 爻毓蹖 賳讴賳 亘賴 趩蹖夭蹖 賲毓賳丕蹖蹖 亘亘禺卮蹖. 賮賯胤 亘賱賳丿 亘賱賳丿 賮讴乇 讴賳.
蹖丕賱賵賲 亘丕 賳亘賵睾卮貙 丿賵 乇賵蹖讴乇丿 爻賳鬲鈥屭必й� 丿乇 趩丕乇趩賵亘 乇賵 亘丕 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 賽 賲賳毓胤賮 丿乇 鬲賯丕亘賱 賯乇丕乇 賲蹖鈥屫� 賵 亘賴 賵丕爻胤賴鈥屰� 趩賳丿 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賲賵丕夭蹖 賲丕 乇賵 亘丕賴丕卮賵賳 丌卮賳丕 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
亘賴 賳馗乇賲 蹖丕賱賵賲 鬲賵蹖 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘貙 賲禺氐賵氐丕 亘賴鈥屬堌ж池焚団€屰� 丕乇賳爻鬲貙 卮禺氐蹖鬲 禺賵丿卮 乇賵 丿乇 丕賵丕蹖賱 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇蹖卮 賳卮賵賳 賲蹖鈥屫�.
讴鬲丕亘蹖 讴賴 賯胤毓丕 亘賴 賴乇 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇蹖 鬲賵氐蹖賴鈥屫� 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 賵 禺賵丿賲 亘蹖鈥屬嗁囏й屫� 丕夭卮 賱匕鬲 亘乇丿賲 賵 亘賴乇賴鈥屬呝嗀� 卮丿賲貨 丕賲丕 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 爻丕蹖乇 丕賮乇丕丿貙 賳賲蹖鈥屫堎嗁� 趩賯丿乇 賲賮蹖丿 亘丕卮賴 賵 卮丕蹖丿 讴賲蹖 倬乇丕讴賳丿賴 亘賴 賳馗乇 亘乇爻賴.
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蹖丕丿诏丕乇蹖 丕夭 讴鬲丕亘:
丕乇賳爻鬲 賴賲蹖卮賴 賮讴乇 賲蹖鈥屭┴必� 丕诏乇 賳蹖丕夭蹖 亘賴 倬賵賱 賳丿丕卮鬲貙 亘丕夭 賴賲 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗃� 賲蹖鈥屭┴必�.
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讴丕乇賱 乇丕噩乇夭 賲蹖鈥屭佖�: 賵賯鬲鬲 乇賵 亘乇丕蹖 丌賲賵夭卮 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇丕賳 賴丿乇 賳丿賴貙 亘賴鬲乇賴 讴賴 夭賲丕賳 乇賵 氐乇賮 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 丕賵賳鈥屬囏� 讴賳蹖.
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鬲讴賳蹖讴 賲賳 讴賳丕乇 诏匕丕卮鬲賳 鬲賲丕賲 鬲讴賳蹖讴鈥屬囏ж池�! 賵 賲賳 賮賯胤 亘丕賴賵卮 賳蹖爻鬲賲 丿讴鬲乇 賱卮. 丕蹖賳 丕賵賱蹖賳 賯丕賳賵賳 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳 禺賵亘賴! 賵 丕诏賴 鬲賵 賴賲 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 卮丿蹖 亘丕蹖丿 賯丕賳賵賳 鬲賵 賴賲 亘丕卮賴. 爻毓蹖 讴乇丿賲 亘蹖卮鬲乇 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 亘丕卮賲 賵 讴賲鬲乇 賲丕卮蹖賳蹖.
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鬲賵 賳賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃� 丕賳诏 乇賵 丿乇賲丕賳 讴賳蹖貙 鬲賵 亘丕蹖丿 丕賳爻丕賳 倬卮鬲 亘乇趩爻亘 乇賵 丿乇賲丕賳 讴賳蹖.
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賲賳 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 丿蹖诏賴鈥屬�. 賳丕噩蹖 囟賲丕蹖乇 诏賲 卮丿賴. 鬲爻賱蹖賲 卮丿賳 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 亘蹖賲丕乇 乇賵 乇丿 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�. 禺賵丿賲 乇賵 賲蹖鈥屭┴促呚� 禺賵丿賲 乇賵 亘賴 禺胤乇 賲蹖鈥屬嗀ж操呚� 賴乇 讴丕乇蹖 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 鬲丕 亘蹖賲丕乇 乇賵 賳噩丕鬲 亘丿賲. 丕蹖賳 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 讴賱 胤賵賱 丨乇賮賴鈥屬� 氐丕丿賯賴.
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賲丕乇卮丕賱 丕卮鬲乇蹖丿乇 诏賮鬲賴 亘賵丿 馗賴賵乇 卮賵禺蹖鈥屬囏й� 賮乇毓蹖 丿乇 丿乇賲丕賳 丕睾賱亘 賳卮丕賳賴鈥屰� 禺賵亘蹖 丕爻鬲.
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賲賵囟賵毓 爻丕丿賴鈥屫й屬囏� 夭賳 亘丕蹖丿 亘賴 趩卮賲丕賳 賲乇丿 賳诏丕賴 讴賳賴 賵 亘乇丕蹖 趩賳丿 丿賯蹖賯賴 禺蹖乇賴 亘賲賵賳賴. 賴賲賴鈥屫� 賴賲蹖賳.
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诏賮鬲賴 卮丿賴 讴賴 賴丿賮 丿乇賲丕賳 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 蹖讴 賳賮乇 賲丕丿乇 賵 倬丿乇 禺賵丿卮 亘丕卮賴. 賲賳 賮讴乇 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 賲丕 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬� 賴賲蹖賳 乇賵 賴賲鈥屫必ж� 亘丕 賲卮丕賵乇賴 亘诏蹖乇蹖賲. 賴丿賮 丕蹖賳賴 讴賴 賲卮丕賵乇 禺賵丿鬲 亘卮蹖.
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诏匕卮鬲賴 亘禺卮蹖 丕夭 禺賵丿丌诏丕賴 丨丕賱 丨丕囟乇 鬲賵卅賴. 毓蹖賳讴蹖 乇賵 丿乇爻鬲 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 讴賴 鬲賵 丕夭 胤乇蹖賯 丕賵賳 丨丕賱 丨丕囟乇 乇賵 鬲噩乇亘賴 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗃�. 丕诏賴 亘禺賵丕賲 賰丕賲賱 亘卮賳丕爻賲鬲貙 亘丕蹖丿 趩蹖夭蹖 乇賵 讴賴 賲蹖鈥屫ㄛ屬嗃� 亘亘蹖賳賲.
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鬲氐賲蹖賲鈥屬囏й� 亘丿 丕蹖賳胤賵乇蹖 賳馗丕賲 倬蹖丿丕 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�: 亘丕 賲鬲賯丕毓丿 讴乇丿賳 禺賵丿鬲 讴賴 賴蹖趩 趩丕乇賴鈥屰� 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫й� 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇丿.
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禺賵丿 乇丕 鬲丕 噩丕蹖蹖 丌卮讴丕乇 讴賳 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 賲賮蹖丿 丕爻鬲.
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亘蹖丕 爻毓蹖 讴賳蹖賲 爻賵丕賱鬲 乇賵 丿乇讴 讴賳蹖賲. 亘賴 賲賳 亘诏賵 賵丕賯毓丕 趩賴 趩蹖夭蹖 丕夭 賲賳 賲蹖鈥屬矩必驰屫� 賵 趩乇丕責
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蹖賵賳诏 賲蹖鈥屭� 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 亘丕蹖丿 亘乇丕蹖 賴乇 亘蹖賲丕乇 蹖讴 夭亘丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 噩丿蹖丿 丕禺鬲乇丕毓 讴賳賴.
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乇賵蹖 丕丨爻丕爻丕鬲 亘丿鬲 賵 乇賵蹖 賵蹖賱蹖 鬲賲乇讴夭 讴賳 賵 亘匕丕乇 丕賮讴丕乇鬲 丌夭丕丿 亘丕卮賳. 賴乇 趩蹖夭蹖 乇賵 讴賴 亘賴 匕賴賳鬲 賲蹖鈥屫必迟� 亘诏賵. 爻毓蹖 賳讴賳 倬蹖卮鈥屫з堌臂� 讴賳蹖 蹖丕 趩蹖夭賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 賲毓賳丕 丿丕乇賳 乇賵 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 讴賳蹖. 爻毓蹖 賳讴賳 亘賴 趩蹖夭蹖 賲毓賳丕蹖蹖 亘亘禺卮蹖. 賮賯胤 亘賱賳丿 亘賱賳丿 賮讴乇 讴賳.
September 6, 2021
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 氐賵乇鬲 氐賵鬲蹖 诏賵卮 丿丕丿賲貙 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 賲乇夭賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 亘蹖賳 乇賵丕賳讴丕賵丕賳 賵 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳 亘丕蹖丿 賵噩賵丿 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮丿...
December 1, 2019
讴鬲丕亘 卮乇賵毓 賯丿乇鬲賲賳丿 賵 噩匕丕亘蹖 丿丕乇賴. 爻蹖賲賵乇 鬲乇丕鬲乇貙 蹖賴 乇賵丕賳讴丕賵 亘丕鬲噩乇亘賴 賵 賲卮賴賵乇 亘賴 爻賳鬲鈥屫蹿┵嗃� 賵 丿乇賲丕賳鈥屬囏й� 禺賱丕賯丕賳賴貙 亘賴 丿賱蹖賱 鬲禺賱賮 丕夭 丕氐賵賱 丨乇賮賴鈥屫й� 賵 丕禺賱丕賯蹖 鬲丨鬲 亘丕夭噩賵蹖蹖 賯乇丕乇 诏乇賮鬲賴 賵 倬乇賵爻賴鈥屰� 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 乇賵 卮乇丨 賲蹖鈥屫� 讴賴 丿乇 趩丕乇趩賵亘 賯賵丕毓丿 丨乇賮賴鈥屫й� 賵 丕禺賱丕賯蹖 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗃� 亘賴 亘賳鈥屫ㄘ池� 乇爻蹖丿賴 賵 趩丕乇賴鈥屫й� 亘乇丕蹖 鬲乇丕鬲乇 亘丕賯蹖 賳匕丕卮鬲賴 噩夭 丿乇賲丕賳 賮蹖鈥屫з勜ㄘз囐� 賵 禺乇賵噩 丕夭 丨丿賵丿 乇賵丕亘胤 賲噩丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇-丿乇賲丕賳诏乇.
亘丕 丕蹖賳 賲賯丿賲賴 蹖丕賱賵賲 乇賲丕賳卮 乇賵 丕賮鬲鬲丕丨 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 賵 賲爻丕卅賱蹖 賲孬賱 氐丿丕賯鬲 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 丿乇賲丕賳蹖貙 賳賵毓 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇-亘蹖賲丕乇 賵 丨丿賵丿 乇丕亘胤賴 乇賵 亘丕 亘賴 鬲氐賵蹖乇 讴卮蹖丿賳 乇賵蹖讴乇丿 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 丿賵 丿乇賲丕賳鈥屭� 丕氐賱蹖 賯氐賴 賲胤乇丨 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
賲鬲丕爻賮丕賳賴 鬲賵 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕乇賴丕 賲賳胤賯 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 鬲丨鬲鈥屫ж屫� 賲賮賴賵賲 賲賵乇丿賳馗乇 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賯乇丕乇 诏乇賮鬲賴 賵 蹖丕賱賵賲 亘乇丕蹖 乇爻賵賳丿賳 賲賳馗賵乇卮 蹖丕 賲胤乇丨 讴乇丿賳 賲賵囟賵毓 賲賵乇丿賳馗乇卮 亘賴 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 丌爻蹖亘 夭丿賴.
囟賲賳 丕蹖賳鈥屭┵� 丿乇賵睾鈥屭堐屰� 乇賵蹖 賲亘賱 丿乇 讴賱 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 囟毓蹖賮 賵 賲亘鬲匕賱蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵 賳亘丕蹖丿 丕夭卮 丕賳鬲馗丕乇蹖 賮乇丕鬲乇 丕夭 丕賴丿丕賮 丌賲賵夭卮蹖 賵 亘蹖丕賳 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 賲爻丕卅賱 鬲賮讴乇亘乇丕賳诏蹖夭 丿丕卮鬲.
讴鬲丕亘 倬乇 丕夭 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 胤賵賱丕賳蹖賴 讴賴 賳賯卮 禺丕氐蹖 丿乇 倬蹖卮乇賮鬲 賵賯丕蹖毓 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賳丿丕乇賴 蹖丕 賳賯卮 讴賲蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵 氐乇賮賳 丕亘夭丕乇蹖賴 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖丕賳 毓賯丕蹖丿 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賵 胤乇丨 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 賲爻丕卅賱. 賴乇趩賳丿 丕蹖賳 囟毓賮 亘賴 賳馗乇 賲蹖鈥屫必迟� 丕賲丕 鬲賵 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鬲賳賴丕 趩蹖夭蹖 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 賲賳 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿 賵 丕夭 爻丕丿诏蹖 賵 禺丕賲蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 丨賵丕爻賲鈥� 乇賵 倬乇鬲 賲蹖鈥屭┴必� 賴賲蹖賳 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 毓賲蹖賯 亘賵丿.
亘丕 賵噩賵丿 丕蹖賳鈥屭┵� 賲丕噩乇丕蹖 爻蹖賲賵乇 鬲乇丕鬲乇 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗀池� 賳賯胤賴鈥屰� 丕鬲氐丕賱 禺賵亘蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕賳爻噩丕賲 賯氐賴 賵 賲賮丕賴蹖賲 賲胤乇丨 卮丿賴 鬲賵鈥� 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕卮賴貙 丕賲丕 賲鬲丕爻賮丕賳賴 禺蹖賱蹖 讴賲 丕夭卮 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 卮丿賴 賵 讴鬲丕亘 賳馗賲 讴賲蹖 丿丕乇賴貨 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳鈥屬囏й� 賮乇毓蹖 讴丕賲賱賳 亘蹖鈥屫ж� 賵 亘蹖鈥屫з囐呟屫� 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 丕囟丕賮蹖貙 亘蹖丕賳 爻乇爻乇蹖 賵 亘蹖鈥屬呝嗀ж池ㄘ� 蹖讴 爻乇蹖 賲賮丕賴蹖賲 賵 ... .
丕夭 賴乇 丿乇蹖 爻禺賳蹖 禺賱丕氐賴.
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亘賴 賳馗乇賲 賮賯胤 丿乇氐賵乇鬲蹖鈥屭┵� 丕夭 爻亘讴 蹖丕賱賵賲 賵 讴丕乇賴丕卮 禺賵卮鬲賵賳 賲蹖丕丿貙 亘乇丕蹖 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賵賯鬲 亘匕丕乇蹖丿. 丕诏乇 丕夭 胤乇賮丿丕乇丕蹖 蹖丕賱賵賲 賳蹖爻鬲蹖丿 蹖丕 鬲丕 丨丕賱丕 讴鬲丕亘蹖 丕夭卮 賳禺賵賳丿蹖丿 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賳賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
亘丕 丕蹖賳 賲賯丿賲賴 蹖丕賱賵賲 乇賲丕賳卮 乇賵 丕賮鬲鬲丕丨 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁� 賵 賲爻丕卅賱蹖 賲孬賱 氐丿丕賯鬲 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 丿乇賲丕賳蹖貙 賳賵毓 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇-亘蹖賲丕乇 賵 丨丿賵丿 乇丕亘胤賴 乇賵 亘丕 亘賴 鬲氐賵蹖乇 讴卮蹖丿賳 乇賵蹖讴乇丿 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲 丿賵 丿乇賲丕賳鈥屭� 丕氐賱蹖 賯氐賴 賲胤乇丨 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
賲鬲丕爻賮丕賳賴 鬲賵 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕乇賴丕 賲賳胤賯 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 鬲丨鬲鈥屫ж屫� 賲賮賴賵賲 賲賵乇丿賳馗乇 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賯乇丕乇 诏乇賮鬲賴 賵 蹖丕賱賵賲 亘乇丕蹖 乇爻賵賳丿賳 賲賳馗賵乇卮 蹖丕 賲胤乇丨 讴乇丿賳 賲賵囟賵毓 賲賵乇丿賳馗乇卮 亘賴 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 丌爻蹖亘 夭丿賴.
囟賲賳 丕蹖賳鈥屭┵� 丿乇賵睾鈥屭堐屰� 乇賵蹖 賲亘賱 丿乇 讴賱 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 囟毓蹖賮 賵 賲亘鬲匕賱蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵 賳亘丕蹖丿 丕夭卮 丕賳鬲馗丕乇蹖 賮乇丕鬲乇 丕夭 丕賴丿丕賮 丌賲賵夭卮蹖 賵 亘蹖丕賳 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 賲爻丕卅賱 鬲賮讴乇亘乇丕賳诏蹖夭 丿丕卮鬲.
讴鬲丕亘 倬乇 丕夭 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 胤賵賱丕賳蹖賴 讴賴 賳賯卮 禺丕氐蹖 丿乇 倬蹖卮乇賮鬲 賵賯丕蹖毓 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賳丿丕乇賴 蹖丕 賳賯卮 讴賲蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵 氐乇賮賳 丕亘夭丕乇蹖賴 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖丕賳 毓賯丕蹖丿 賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 賵 胤乇丨 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 賲爻丕卅賱. 賴乇趩賳丿 丕蹖賳 囟毓賮 亘賴 賳馗乇 賲蹖鈥屫必迟� 丕賲丕 鬲賵 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鬲賳賴丕 趩蹖夭蹖 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 賲賳 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿 賵 丕夭 爻丕丿诏蹖 賵 禺丕賲蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 丨賵丕爻賲鈥� 乇賵 倬乇鬲 賲蹖鈥屭┴必� 賴賲蹖賳 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 毓賲蹖賯 亘賵丿.
亘丕 賵噩賵丿 丕蹖賳鈥屭┵� 賲丕噩乇丕蹖 爻蹖賲賵乇 鬲乇丕鬲乇 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗀池� 賳賯胤賴鈥屰� 丕鬲氐丕賱 禺賵亘蹖 亘乇丕蹖 丕賳爻噩丕賲 賯氐賴 賵 賲賮丕賴蹖賲 賲胤乇丨 卮丿賴 鬲賵鈥� 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕卮賴貙 丕賲丕 賲鬲丕爻賮丕賳賴 禺蹖賱蹖 讴賲 丕夭卮 丕爻鬲賮丕丿賴 卮丿賴 賵 讴鬲丕亘 賳馗賲 讴賲蹖 丿丕乇賴貨 蹖賴 爻乇蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳鈥屬囏й� 賮乇毓蹖 讴丕賲賱賳 亘蹖鈥屫ж� 賵 亘蹖鈥屫з囐呟屫� 丿蹖丕賱賵诏鈥屬囏й� 丕囟丕賮蹖貙 亘蹖丕賳 爻乇爻乇蹖 賵 亘蹖鈥屬呝嗀ж池ㄘ� 蹖讴 爻乇蹖 賲賮丕賴蹖賲 賵 ... .
丕夭 賴乇 丿乇蹖 爻禺賳蹖 禺賱丕氐賴.
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亘賴 賳馗乇賲 賮賯胤 丿乇氐賵乇鬲蹖鈥屭┵� 丕夭 爻亘讴 蹖丕賱賵賲 賵 讴丕乇賴丕卮 禺賵卮鬲賵賳 賲蹖丕丿貙 亘乇丕蹖 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 賵賯鬲 亘匕丕乇蹖丿. 丕诏乇 丕夭 胤乇賮丿丕乇丕蹖 蹖丕賱賵賲 賳蹖爻鬲蹖丿 蹖丕 鬲丕 丨丕賱丕 讴鬲丕亘蹖 丕夭卮 賳禺賵賳丿蹖丿 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賳賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
December 22, 2016
鈥楩orget that crap about the patient not being ready for therapy! It鈥檚 the therapy that鈥檚 not ready for the patient. But you have to be bold and creative enough to fashion a new therapy for each patient.
丕蹖賳 趩乇賳丿蹖丕鬲蹖 讴賴 賲蹖诏賴 亘蹖賲丕乇 亘乇丕蹖 丿乇賲丕賳 丌賲丕丿賴 賳蹖爻鬲 乇賵 賮乇丕賲賵卮 讴賳! 丕蹖賳 丿乇賲丕賳賴 讴賴 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 丌賲丕丿賴 賳蹖爻鬲. 賵 鬲賵 亘丕蹖丿 丌賳賯丿乇 卮噩丕毓 賵 禺賱丕賯 亘丕卮蹖 讴賴 蹖讴 乇丕賴 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 噩丿蹖丿 賵 賲鬲賮丕賵鬲蹖 乇賵 亘乇丕蹖 賴乇 亘蹖賲丕乇 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮蹖.
亘禺卮蹖 丕夭 賲鬲賳 讴鬲丕亘-
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鬲賲 丕氐賱蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 丿乇 讴賱 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 乇丕亘胤賴 蹖 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 亘蹖賳 亘蹖賲丕乇 賵 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 賲蹖 倬乇丿丕夭丿. 賲卮讴賱丕鬲蹖 讴賴 丿乇 乇賵賳丿 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕蹖噩丕丿 卮丿賴 賵 诏丕賴丕 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 亘賴 亘蹖賲丕乇 禺賵丿 賵 蹖丕 亘賱毓讴爻 賵丕亘爻鬲賴 賲蹖卮賵丿.
賳賵蹖爻賳丿賴 丿乇丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 鬲丕讴蹖丿 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖 亘乇 丕蹖賳 賲蹖讴賳丿 讴賴 賲蹖鬲賵丕賳賴乇 乇丕亘胤賴 丕蹖 乇丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 蹖 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丿乇賳馗乇 诏乇賮鬲. 丕蹖賳 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 賲鬲賯丕亘賱 丕賳爻丕賳 賴丕 賲蹖鬲賵丕賳丿 丌賳 賴丕乇丕 亘賴 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 鬲亘丿蹖賱 讴賳丿. 鬲賲丕賲蹖 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 亘丕 賴賲丿蹖诏乇 丕賳鬲賯丕賱 賴丕蹖 賲鬲賯丕亘賱蹖 乇丕 乇丿 賵 亘丿賱 賲蹖讴賳賳丿貨 丕賳鬲賯丕賱 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇 亘賴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 賵 丕夭 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 亘賴 亘蹖賲丕乇.
丿乇 丕亘鬲丿丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 讴賴 诏賮鬲 賵 诏賵蹖蹖 丕爻鬲 亘蹖賳 丿讴鬲乇 鬲乇丕鬲乇貙丿乇賲丕賳诏乇蹖 讴賴 丿乇 丨賯蹖賯鬲 亘賴 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮 禺蹖丕賳鬲 讴乇丿賴 賵 亘丕 丕賵 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 賵丕賯毓蹖 丿丕卮鬲賴 丕爻鬲 賵 丿讴鬲乇 賱賻卮. 丕蹖賳 诏賮鬲 賵 诏賵 亘丕毓孬 賲蹖卮賵丿 鬲丕 丿讴鬲乇 賱賻卮 亘賴 賮讴乇 亘乇賯乇丕乇 讴乇丿賳 蹖讴 丕乇鬲亘丕胤蹖 賵丕賯毓蹖 亘丕 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮 亘蹖 丕賮鬲丿.
丨乇賮蹖 讴賴 丿讴鬲乇 鬲乇丕鬲乇 賲蹖夭丿 丕蹖賳 亘賵丿 讴賴 鬲讴賳蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕賵 亘蹖 鬲讴賳蹖讴 亘賵丿賳卮 丕爻鬲... 賵 鬲賳賴丕 丕诏乇 亘禺賵丕賴蹖丿 亘丕 卮禺氐蹖 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 亘乇賯乇丕乇 讴賳蹖丿 亘丕蹖丿 亘丕 丕賵 氐丕丿賯 亘丕卮蹖丿. 丿讴鬲乇 丕乇賳爻鬲 賳蹖夭 賴賲蹖賳 乇賵蹖賴 乇丕 亘丕 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮 亘賴 賳丕賲 讴丕乇賱 倬蹖 诏乇賮鬲. 鬲丕 噩丕蹖蹖 讴賴 乇丕亘胤賴 蹖 亘蹖賳卮丕賳 亘爻蹖丕乇 倬蹖趩蹖丿賴 卮丿. 乇丕亘胤賴 丕蹖 讴賴 亘乇 丕爻丕爻 诏賮鬲 賵 诏賵蹖蹖 丿賵 胤乇賮賴貙 丕丨爻锟斤拷爻蹖 賵 亘乇 倬丕蹖賴 賵 丕爻丕爻 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 讴乇丿賳 亘賵丿.
禺蹖賱蹖 丕夭 鬲賲 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 蹖丕賱賵賲 丿乇 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘卮 亘賴 讴丕乇 诏乇賮鬲賴 丕爻鬲 亘賴 賳丨賵蹖 卮亘蹖賴 讴鬲丕亘 丿蹖诏乇 賴賲丕賳 "賵賯鬲蹖 賳蹖趩賴 诏乇蹖賴 讴乇丿" 賲蹖 亘丕卮丿. 亘丕 丕毓鬲賲丕丿 賵 賵丕亘爻鬲诏蹖 賲鬲賯丕亘賱 丕爻鬲 讴賴 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 賲蹖鬲賵丕賳丿 亘蹖賲丕乇 禺賵丿 乇丕 亘賴 乇丕丨鬲蹖 丿乇賲丕賳 讴賳丿. 丕賲丕 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 丕爻鬲 讴賴 亘丕蹖丿 賲乇丕賯亘 丨丿 賵 丨丿賵丿 賴丕蹖 禺賵丿 賳蹖夭 亘丕卮丿 賵 賲乇夭 賴丕蹖 禺賵丿卮 乇丕 丕夭 賯亘賱 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 賲卮禺氐 讴賳丿.
賴乇趩賳丿 讴賴 讴鬲丕亘 丿乇 賯丕賱亘 乇賲丕賳 賳賵卮鬲賴 卮丿賴 丕爻鬲 丕賲丕 亘賳馗乇 賲賳 亘丕蹖丿 禺賵丕賳賳丿賴 倬蹖卮 夭賲蹖賳賴 丕蹖 丕夭 丕胤賱丕毓丕鬲 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻蹖 丿丕卮鬲賴 亘丕卮丿 鬲丕 亘鬲賵丕賳丿 賲賮丕賴蹖賲 賵 亘賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 乇丕 丿乇蹖丕賮鬲 讴賳丿.
賲賮丕賴蹖賲蹖 趩賵賳: 丕賳鬲賯丕賱 貙 丿賮丕毓 賴丕 貙 賲賯丕賵賲鬲 貙賵.. 讴賴 亘爻蹖丕乇 丿乇 噩丕蹖 噩丕蹖 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 趩卮賲 賲蹖禺賵乇丿.
鬲乇噩賲賴 蹖 讴鬲丕亘 丕夭噩賳丕亘 丨爻蹖賳 讴丕馗賲蹖 蹖夭丿蹖 鬲乇噩賲賴 丕蹖 鬲賯乇蹖亘丕 賲賳丕爻亘 亘賵丿.. 鬲乇噩賲賴 讴乇丿賳 趩賳蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘賴丕蹖蹖 賳蹖夭 爻禺鬲蹖 賴丕蹖 禺賵丿卮 乇丕 蹖賯蹖賳丕 丿丕乇丿.
丕賲丕 亘賴 卮禺氐賴 賳孬乇 禺賵丿 丕乇賵蹖賳 蹖丕賱賵賲 乇丕 賳倬爻賳丿蹖丿賲 賵 胤乇丨 噩賱丿 讴鬲丕亘 亘乇丕蹖賲 亘爻蹖丕乇 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賳蹖 鬲乇 亘賵丿 . :丿蹖
February 25, 2024
丿乇賵睾诏賵蹖蹖 乇賵蹖 賲亘賱 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 乇丕亘胤賴鈥屰� 亘蹖賳 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗂� 賵 亘蹖賲丕乇 賵 賴賲趩賳蹖賳 丕禺賱丕賯 讴丕乇蹖 乇賵丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇丕賳賴. 丿乇 胤賵賱 讴鬲丕亘 趩賳丿 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 倬蹖趩蹖丿賴 丿乇 賴賲 亘丕 丌丿賲鈥屬囏й屰� 讴賴 蹖賴 胤賵乇蹖 亘賴 賴賲 賲乇亘賵胤 賲蹖卮賳 乇賵 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬�. 卮禺氐蹖鬲 丕氐賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗂臂� 亘賴 丕爻賲 丕乇賳爻鬲 賱卮 賴爻鬲. 丿乇 丕亘鬲丿丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 氐丨亘鬲鈥屬囏ж� 乇賵 亘丕 蹖讴 乇賵丕賳鈥屫辟呚з嗂� 亘丕 鬲噩乇亘賴 亘賴 賳丕賲 爻蹖賲賵乇 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬� 讴賴 丿趩丕乇 蹖讴 禺胤丕蹖 丕禺賱丕賯蹖 卮丿賴 讴賴 亘賴 賳馗乇 禺賵丿卮 亘賴鬲乇蹖賳 乇丕賴 亘乇丕蹖 丿乇賲丕賳 亘蹖賲丕乇卮 亘賵丿賴. 丿乇 丕丿丕賲賴 賲丕噩乇丕賴丕蹖蹖 賴賲 丿乇 賲賵乇丿 賲丕乇卮丕賱 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬� 讴賴 丿乇 賵丕賯毓 爻乇倬乇爻鬲 賵 賲卮丕賵乇 丕乇賳爻鬲 賴爻鬲 賵 丿乇 丕丿丕賲賴 亘丕 趩賳丿 亘蹖賲丕乇 丕乇賳爻鬲 賴賲 丌卮賳丕 賲蹖卮蹖賲 賵 丿丕爻鬲丕賳賴丕蹖 诏丕賴蹖 噩丿丕诏丕賳賴 賵 诏丕賴 倬蹖趩 丿乇 倬蹖趩 丕賵賳賴丕 賵 乇賵丕亘胤卮賵賳 乇賵 賲蹖鈥屫堎嗃屬�. 讴鬲丕亘 賵丕賯毓丕 讴卮卮 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘蹖 丿丕乇賴 賵 丨鬲蹖 亘賴 賳馗乇賲 丨賯卮 亘賵丿 鄞.鄣 賴賲 亘丿賲. 賴賲 丕夭 賳馗乇 丌賲賵夭卮蹖 賴賲 丿丕爻鬲丕賳蹖 賯丕亘賱 鬲賵噩賴 賵 噩匕丕亘賴. 賴
March 13, 2021
蹖讴 乇賲丕賳 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕禺鬲蹖 鬲賲丕賲 毓蹖丕乇
亘爻蹖丕乇 讴丕賲賱 鬲乇 賵 賲丨讴賲 鬲乇 丕夭 乇賲丕賳 賲毓乇賵賮 賵賯鬲蹖 賳蹖趩賴 诏乇蹖爻鬲
賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 丕蹖賳噩丕 賴賲 蹖丕賱賵賲 亘乇 倬丕蹖賴 賳馗乇蹖丕鬲 賵噩賵丿诏乇丕蹖丕賳賴 禺賵丿卮 丿乇 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵丕賳丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕诏夭蹖爻鬲丕賳爻蹖丕賱 噩賴丕賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳卮 乇丕 爻丕禺鬲賴
賲丕噩乇丕蹖 丿賵 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻 乇丕 賲蹖禺賵丕賳蹖賲 讴賴 蹖讴蹖 亘賴 卮睾賱卮 賳诏丕賴蹖 賲讴丕賳蹖讴蹖 丿丕乇丿 賵 丌賳 乇丕 氐乇賮丕 讴丕乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 讴爻亘 丿乇丌賲丿 賲蹖丿丕賳丿 賵 丿蹖诏乇蹖 鬲氐賲蹖賲 賲蹖诏蹖乇丿 卮睾賱卮 乇丕 亘爻鬲乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 鬲賲丕賲 毓蹖丕乇 賯乇丕乇 亘丿賴丿. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮 卮乇賵毓 亘賴 禺賵丿丕賮卮丕诏乇蹖 賲蹖讴賳丿 賵 丕诏乇趩賴 鬲丕 賱亘賴 倬乇鬲诏丕賴 禺丕乇噩 卮丿賳 丕夭 趩丕乇趩賵亘 乇丕亘胤賴 亘蹖賲丕乇-丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 賲蹖乇賵丿 丕賲丕 賳賴丕蹖鬲丕 乇賵卮卮 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 賲賮蹖丿 賵丕賯毓 賲蹖卮賵丿.
丕蹖賳噩丕 卮丕蹖丿 蹖丕賱賵賲 讴賲蹖 禺賵卮 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 賲丕噩乇丕 乇丕 鬲乇鬲蹖亘 丿丕丿賴 亘丕卮丿 丕賲丕 賲蹖丿丕賳蹖賲 讴賴 丕蹖賳 賳诏丕賴 讴賱蹖 丕賵 亘賴 乇賵丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕爻鬲
讴賱 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賴賲 亘乇 丕蹖賳 亘爻鬲乇 卮讴賱 诏乇賮鬲賴 讴賴 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻 賴丕 噩夭賵 诏賵賱 禺賵乇 鬲乇蹖賳 丕賮乇丕丿 噩丕賲毓賴 賴爻鬲賳丿 趩賵賳 毓丕丿鬲 丿丕乇賳丿 丕蹖賳 胤賵乇 賮乇囟 讴賳賳丿 讴賴 賴賲賴 亘賴 丌賳賴丕 乇丕爻鬲 賲蹖诏賵蹖賳丿
亘亘禺卮蹖丿 讴賲蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 乇丕 賱賵 丿丕丿賲
賲賳 讴鬲丕亘 氐賵鬲蹖 乇丕 诏賵卮 丿丕丿賲 讴賴 賲蹖卮賵丿 诏賮鬲 蹖讴 賳賲丕蹖卮 乇丕丿蹖賵蹖蹖 亘丕 鬲賳馗蹖賲蹖 丨乇賮賴 丕蹖 亘賵丿 亘丕 趩賳丿蹖賳 诏賵蹖賳丿賴 丿乇 賳賯卮 讴丕乇丕讴鬲乇賴丕蹖 賲禺鬲賱賮 賵 賮囟丕爻丕夭蹖 賳爻亘鬲丕 禺賵亘
亘爻蹖丕乇 讴丕賲賱 鬲乇 賵 賲丨讴賲 鬲乇 丕夭 乇賲丕賳 賲毓乇賵賮 賵賯鬲蹖 賳蹖趩賴 诏乇蹖爻鬲
賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 丕蹖賳噩丕 賴賲 蹖丕賱賵賲 亘乇 倬丕蹖賴 賳馗乇蹖丕鬲 賵噩賵丿诏乇丕蹖丕賳賴 禺賵丿卮 丿乇 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵丕賳丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕诏夭蹖爻鬲丕賳爻蹖丕賱 噩賴丕賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳卮 乇丕 爻丕禺鬲賴
賲丕噩乇丕蹖 丿賵 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻 乇丕 賲蹖禺賵丕賳蹖賲 讴賴 蹖讴蹖 亘賴 卮睾賱卮 賳诏丕賴蹖 賲讴丕賳蹖讴蹖 丿丕乇丿 賵 丌賳 乇丕 氐乇賮丕 讴丕乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 讴爻亘 丿乇丌賲丿 賲蹖丿丕賳丿 賵 丿蹖诏乇蹖 鬲氐賲蹖賲 賲蹖诏蹖乇丿 卮睾賱卮 乇丕 亘爻鬲乇蹖 亘乇丕蹖 蹖讴 乇丕亘胤賴 丕賳爻丕賳蹖 鬲賲丕賲 毓蹖丕乇 賯乇丕乇 亘丿賴丿. 亘賳丕亘乇丕蹖賳 丿乇 乇丕亘胤賴 亘丕 蹖讴蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賲丕乇丕賳卮 卮乇賵毓 亘賴 禺賵丿丕賮卮丕诏乇蹖 賲蹖讴賳丿 賵 丕诏乇趩賴 鬲丕 賱亘賴 倬乇鬲诏丕賴 禺丕乇噩 卮丿賳 丕夭 趩丕乇趩賵亘 乇丕亘胤賴 亘蹖賲丕乇-丿乇賲丕賳诏乇 賲蹖乇賵丿 丕賲丕 賳賴丕蹖鬲丕 乇賵卮卮 亘乇丕蹖 亘蹖賲丕乇 賲賮蹖丿 賵丕賯毓 賲蹖卮賵丿.
丕蹖賳噩丕 卮丕蹖丿 蹖丕賱賵賲 讴賲蹖 禺賵卮 亘蹖賳丕賳賴 賲丕噩乇丕 乇丕 鬲乇鬲蹖亘 丿丕丿賴 亘丕卮丿 丕賲丕 賲蹖丿丕賳蹖賲 讴賴 丕蹖賳 賳诏丕賴 讴賱蹖 丕賵 亘賴 乇賵丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丕爻鬲
讴賱 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賴賲 亘乇 丕蹖賳 亘爻鬲乇 卮讴賱 诏乇賮鬲賴 讴賴 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻 賴丕 噩夭賵 诏賵賱 禺賵乇 鬲乇蹖賳 丕賮乇丕丿 噩丕賲毓賴 賴爻鬲賳丿 趩賵賳 毓丕丿鬲 丿丕乇賳丿 丕蹖賳 胤賵乇 賮乇囟 讴賳賳丿 讴賴 賴賲賴 亘賴 丌賳賴丕 乇丕爻鬲 賲蹖诏賵蹖賳丿
亘亘禺卮蹖丿 讴賲蹖 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 乇丕 賱賵 丿丕丿賲
賲賳 讴鬲丕亘 氐賵鬲蹖 乇丕 诏賵卮 丿丕丿賲 讴賴 賲蹖卮賵丿 诏賮鬲 蹖讴 賳賲丕蹖卮 乇丕丿蹖賵蹖蹖 亘丕 鬲賳馗蹖賲蹖 丨乇賮賴 丕蹖 亘賵丿 亘丕 趩賳丿蹖賳 诏賵蹖賳丿賴 丿乇 賳賯卮 讴丕乇丕讴鬲乇賴丕蹖 賲禺鬲賱賮 賵 賮囟丕爻丕夭蹖 賳爻亘鬲丕 禺賵亘
May 13, 2018
You hear about good books and you want to read them. Even if you鈥檝e been disspointed by other recomandations in the past, you have some expectations, if there are more people saying the same thing: read it!
And God i wanted to read this book for months, maybe 1-2 years until it finally happened.
What a joy. Completely fantastic. Sometimes the action in your life that is missing can be found in a book, if the book is good enough, it may become your action too. And there are so many things that can aply to everyone (including myself).
I almost cried at the end, and as i was reading the words of the last sentence i felt a short shiver of delight. Pure delight for something beutiful, helpfull, kind of mindblowing, kind of close to your heart - and i remembered why i admire Yalom so much: he鈥檚 like a balerina among life situations, dancing through them full of grace and strenght. The reading itself (at least of the second half of the book) gives you SATISFACTION. Satisfaction of the life lead by karma, the always balanced destiny.
One of the faves now, read it!
And God i wanted to read this book for months, maybe 1-2 years until it finally happened.
What a joy. Completely fantastic. Sometimes the action in your life that is missing can be found in a book, if the book is good enough, it may become your action too. And there are so many things that can aply to everyone (including myself).
I almost cried at the end, and as i was reading the words of the last sentence i felt a short shiver of delight. Pure delight for something beutiful, helpfull, kind of mindblowing, kind of close to your heart - and i remembered why i admire Yalom so much: he鈥檚 like a balerina among life situations, dancing through them full of grace and strenght. The reading itself (at least of the second half of the book) gives you SATISFACTION. Satisfaction of the life lead by karma, the always balanced destiny.
One of the faves now, read it!
March 12, 2014
Ce-mi r膬m芒ne altceva de f膬cut dec芒t s膬 devin psihoterapeut? Cartea mi-a pl膬cut mult, foarte mult, at芒t de mult 卯nc芒t am dat comand膬 葯i de alte c膬r葲i de-ale lui, c膬r葲i pe care le-ar citi doar cei care au treab膬 cu psihoterapia. Dar mie mi-a pl膬cut prea mult ideea de a-mi fi propriul psihoterapeut ca s膬 nu fac cercet膬ri pe tema asta. 卯n mod sigur nu a葯 fi 卯n stare s膬 fac din asta o profesie 葯i cu at芒t mai pu葲in o ocupa葲ie.
脦n ciuda faptului c膬, din punct de vedere literar, nu mi-a pl膬cut at芒t de mult ca Pl芒nsul lui Nietzsche, cred c膬 pe viitor cartea asta va avea un impact mult mai mare asupra mea.
脦n ciuda faptului c膬, din punct de vedere literar, nu mi-a pl膬cut at芒t de mult ca Pl芒nsul lui Nietzsche, cred c膬 pe viitor cartea asta va avea un impact mult mai mare asupra mea.
May 27, 2012
Not my favorite of Yalom's more oriented towards the public and love of drama with clients versus typical therapy. Believe it or not most of us don't sleep with our clients.
July 14, 2020
丕氐賱丕 丿賵爻鬲 賳丿丕卮鬲賲 鬲賲賵賲 亘卮賴 丿乇 毓蹖賳 丨丕賱 賴賲 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕卮鬲賲 亘丕 爻乇毓鬲 亘禺賵賳賲卮 讴賴 亘亘蹖賳賲 趩蹖 賲蹖卮賴!
April 26, 2023
鬲乇噩賲賴: 賲賵爻蹖 乇囟丕蹖蹖
禺蹖賱蹖 噩丕賱亘 賵 賱匕鬲亘禺卮 亘賵丿.
趩賯丿乇 銆娳囒� 倬卮鬲 亘賴 夭蹖賳 賵 诏賴蹖 夭蹖賳 亘賴 倬卮鬲銆� 乇賵 禺賵亘 鬲氐賵蹖乇 讴乇丿貙 賳蹖丕夭賴 讴賴 亘丕夭賴賲 亘禺賵賳賲卮.
禺蹖賱蹖 噩丕賱亘 賵 賱匕鬲亘禺卮 亘賵丿.
趩賯丿乇 銆娳囒� 倬卮鬲 亘賴 夭蹖賳 賵 诏賴蹖 夭蹖賳 亘賴 倬卮鬲銆� 乇賵 禺賵亘 鬲氐賵蹖乇 讴乇丿貙 賳蹖丕夭賴 讴賴 亘丕夭賴賲 亘禺賵賳賲卮.
February 1, 2020
Ce mi-a pl膬cut mai mult 葯i mai mult a fost c膬 am avut ocazia de a intra 卯n intimitatea unui terapeut, mi s-a dezv膬luit f膬r膬 pudoare 葯i f膬r膬 minciuni, c膬 doar vorbea cu sine 卯nsu葯i.
Te 卯ntrebi uneori dac膬 medicii se g芒ndesc la pacien葲i, dac膬 psihologii 卯ncheie cu adev膬rat 葯edin葲a c芒nd se termin膬 ora, iar acum ai r膬spunsul.
Alt lucru care mi-a pl膬cut foarte mult a fost perspectiva diferit膬 asupra aceluia葯i lucru. F膬r膬 s膬 vrei, c芒nd cite葯ti g芒ndurile lui Justin, 卯i dai dreptate, dar ce te faci c芒nd 葯i lui Carolyn 卯i dai dreptate?
Una peste alta, o carte excelent膬, un roman spus ca un film.
Te 卯ntrebi uneori dac膬 medicii se g芒ndesc la pacien葲i, dac膬 psihologii 卯ncheie cu adev膬rat 葯edin葲a c芒nd se termin膬 ora, iar acum ai r膬spunsul.
Alt lucru care mi-a pl膬cut foarte mult a fost perspectiva diferit膬 asupra aceluia葯i lucru. F膬r膬 s膬 vrei, c芒nd cite葯ti g芒ndurile lui Justin, 卯i dai dreptate, dar ce te faci c芒nd 葯i lui Carolyn 卯i dai dreptate?
Una peste alta, o carte excelent膬, un roman spus ca un film.
August 23, 2020
Am citit pentru prima data aceasta carte acum zece ani, daca nu ma insel. Am recitit-o de curand si pot spune ca mi-a placut la fel de mult, insa, categoric, am perceput-o diferit. Cum era si normal. Unele carti sunt facute pentru a fi citite si recitite la varste diferite, caci fiecare recitire aduce cu ea ceva in plus fata de citirea anterioara. In aceasta categorie intra si cartea de fata. Si, probabil, toate cartile lui Yalom, pe care le vei percepe diferit odata cu inaintarea in varsta.
Yalom este un psihoterapeut nonconformist, un fin cunoscator al mintii umane si un scriitor exceptional. Minciuni pe canapea reflecta vastele lui cunostinte referitoare la viata terapeutilor si ne introduce in spatele cortinei, acolo unde vom descoperi ca psihiatrii, psihoterapeutii si toti acesti doctori ai mintii sunt si ei tot oameni, cu bune si cu rele, cu demoni si cu dorinte, cu temeri si cu vicii.
Una dintre cele mai importante teme discutate -practic laitmotivul cartii -, este aceea care vizeaza relatia dintre pacient si terapeut. Este aceasta relatie mult prea formala? Nu este una autentica, care sa ajute cu adevarat pacientul si poate, la un anumt nivel, chiar sa-i fie de folos si terapeutului, prin bine cunoscutul transfer? Care sunt limitele unei astfel de relatii si cand sunt ele incalcate?
Minciuni pe canapea este o carte amuzanta, inteligenta si acaparatoare, care ridica numeroase intrebari despre umanitate, vulnerabilitate, lipsa dragostei, dorinta de apartenenta, sexualitate, traume si anxietate.
"Uita de tot rahatul ala cu pacientul care nu e pregatit de terapie. Terapia nu e cea care-i pregatita pentru pacient. "
Yalom este un psihoterapeut nonconformist, un fin cunoscator al mintii umane si un scriitor exceptional. Minciuni pe canapea reflecta vastele lui cunostinte referitoare la viata terapeutilor si ne introduce in spatele cortinei, acolo unde vom descoperi ca psihiatrii, psihoterapeutii si toti acesti doctori ai mintii sunt si ei tot oameni, cu bune si cu rele, cu demoni si cu dorinte, cu temeri si cu vicii.
Una dintre cele mai importante teme discutate -practic laitmotivul cartii -, este aceea care vizeaza relatia dintre pacient si terapeut. Este aceasta relatie mult prea formala? Nu este una autentica, care sa ajute cu adevarat pacientul si poate, la un anumt nivel, chiar sa-i fie de folos si terapeutului, prin bine cunoscutul transfer? Care sunt limitele unei astfel de relatii si cand sunt ele incalcate?
Minciuni pe canapea este o carte amuzanta, inteligenta si acaparatoare, care ridica numeroase intrebari despre umanitate, vulnerabilitate, lipsa dragostei, dorinta de apartenenta, sexualitate, traume si anxietate.
"Uita de tot rahatul ala cu pacientul care nu e pregatit de terapie. Terapia nu e cea care-i pregatita pentru pacient. "
June 12, 2021
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蹖讴 趩蹖夭 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫й� 讴賴 禺賵卮賲 丕賵賲丿貙 賵丕讴丕賵蹖 卮禺氐蹖鬲 "賲丕乇卮丕賱 丕爻鬲乇蹖丿乇" 亘賵丿. 蹖讴 乇賵丕賳讴丕賵 亘爻蹖丕乇 讴丕乇丿乇爻鬲 賵 賲賵賮賯 賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 亘賱賳丿鈥屬矩辟堌ж� 讴賴 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴 賳賵毓蹖 亘卮賴 诏賮鬲 丿乇 讴賳丕乇 賵丕讴丕賵蹖 卮禺氐蹖鬲 "讴丕乇賵賱"貙 亘丿賳賴 丕氐賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 鬲卮讴蹖賱 賲蹖鈥屫�. 賵 噩丕賱亘 丕蹖賳讴賴
亘賳馗乇賲 丕賳鬲賴丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 丨賯蹖賯鬲丕 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 亘賵丿 賵 鬲丕 丨丿 夭蹖丕丿蹖 噩亘乇丕賳 賲丕賮丕鬲 讴乇丿.
鬲毓賴丿 亘賴 賯賵丕賳蹖賳 蹖丕 鬲毓賴丿 亘賴 丿乇賲丕賳責 賲爻丕賱賴 丕蹖賳 丕爻鬲. 鬲毓賲蹖賲卮 丿乇 亘丕賯蹖 賲賵丕乇丿 賴賲 亘丕 卮賲丕!丕
丕诏乇趩賴 亘賴 賳爻亘鬲 鬲毓丿丕丿 氐賮丨丕鬲貙 賲丨鬲賵蹖 禺蹖賱蹖 賯賱蹖賱 賴爻鬲卮 丕賲丕 亘賳馗乇 賲賳 賴賲趩賳丕賳 亘丕 賲丨鬲賵蹖 亘丕讴蹖賮蹖鬲蹖 乇賵亘乇賵 賴爻鬲蹖賲. 賵 丕诏乇趩賴 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賯丕亘賱 鬲賵噩賴蹖 賵噩賵丿 賳丿丕乇賴 丕賲丕 賴賲賵賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賳蹖賲鈥屫ㄙ嗀� 讴卮卮 丨丿丕賯賱蹖 亘乇丕蹖 噩賱賵 乇賮鬲賳 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 鬲丕賲蹖賳 賲蹖鈥屭┵嗁�.
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蹖讴 趩蹖夭 丿蹖诏賴鈥屫й� 讴賴 禺賵卮賲 丕賵賲丿貙 賵丕讴丕賵蹖 卮禺氐蹖鬲 "賲丕乇卮丕賱 丕爻鬲乇蹖丿乇" 亘賵丿. 蹖讴 乇賵丕賳讴丕賵 亘爻蹖丕乇 讴丕乇丿乇爻鬲 賵 賲賵賮賯 賵 丕賱亘鬲賴 亘賱賳丿鈥屬矩辟堌ж� 讴賴 卮丕蹖丿 亘賴 賳賵毓蹖 亘卮賴 诏賮鬲 丿乇 讴賳丕乇 賵丕讴丕賵蹖 卮禺氐蹖鬲 "讴丕乇賵賱"貙 亘丿賳賴 丕氐賱蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 鬲卮讴蹖賱 賲蹖鈥屫�. 賵 噩丕賱亘 丕蹖賳讴賴
亘賳馗乇賲 丕賳鬲賴丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 丨賯蹖賯鬲丕 禺蹖賱蹖 禺賵亘 亘賵丿 賵 鬲丕 丨丿 夭蹖丕丿蹖 噩亘乇丕賳 賲丕賮丕鬲 讴乇丿.
July 28, 2023
丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘乇丕蹖 賲賳 讴賴 鬲賯乇蹖亘丕 賴賲賴鈥屰� 讴鬲丕亘鈥屬囏й� 蹖丕賱賵賲 乇賵 禺賵賳丿賲 賴蹖趩 賳讴鬲賴鈥屰� 噩丿蹖丿蹖 賳丿丕卮鬲 賵 賴蹖趩 趩蹖夭 噩丿蹖丿蹖 亘賴 賲賳 丕囟丕賮賴 讴乇丿. 囟賲賳 丕蹖賳讴賴 賲丕噩乇丕賴丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 亘賴 賴賲 丕乇鬲亘丕胤 賵 倬蹖賵爻鬲诏蹖鈥� 賳丿丕卮鬲賳 賵 丨鬲蹖 鬲賲 讴鬲丕亘 賴賲 亘乇丕賲 賲卮禺氐 賳蹖爻鬲 讴賴 丿乇 賳賴丕蹖鬲 賲蹖禺賵丕爻鬲 趩蹖鈥� 乇賵 亘賴賲賵賳 蹖丕丿 亘丿賴.
July 5, 2019
Despre credulitate, naivitate 葯i vulnerabilitate 卯n lumea medicilor psihiatri.
El 卯nsu葯i psihiatru, Yalom dezv膬luie vulnerabilitatea celui care (crede c膬) de葲ine controlul asupra celorlal葲i, pornind de la povestea doctorului Ernest Lash.
T芒n膬r 葯i ambi葲ios psihiatru, Lash consiliaz膬, timp de mai mul葲i, ani un pacient ce nu reu葯e葯te s膬 se elibereze din jugul c膬sniciei cu o so葲ie dominant膬 葯i manipulativ膬. Dup膬 ce acest pacient face, 卯n cele din urm膬, pasul decisiv, doctorul Lash devine el 卯nsu葯i 葲inta r膬zbun膬rii so葲iei p膬r膬site, care se va da drept una din pacientele neajutorate, av芒nd drept scop r膬zbunarea, prin seducerea 葯i discreditarea medicului presupus vinovat.
Abandon芒nd regulile de baz膬 ale profesiei, Lash decide s膬 foloseasc膬 unele tehnici experimentale de transfer psihologic medic-pacient, dezv膬luindu-se pe sine la modul imprudent 葯i necenzurat pacientilor s膬i, f膬r膬 a b膬nui nici m膬car o secund膬 c膬 vreunul din ei ar putea fi nesincer sau ar urm膬ri vreodat膬 un alt scop dec芒t vindecarea.
Pe de alt膬 parte, Dr. Marshal Streider, mentorul 葯i supervizorul s膬u, are la r芒ndul lui de a face cu pacien葲i manipulativi 葯i escroci 葯i ajunge, din cauza acestora, la limita conduitei legale 葯i a eticii profesionale.
Iar exemplele continu膬 葯i cu alte cazuri din lumea medicilor psihiatri care, manipula葲i de pacien葲i dominan葲i, duplicitari sau vicleni, ajung s膬 卯葯i compromit膬 pentru totdeauna cariera, fiindc膬, extrem de siguri pe faptul c膬 nu pot fi sub nicio form膬 p膬c膬li葲i, fractureaz膬 involuntar transferul psihiatru-pacient, o zon膬 extrem de sensibil膬, care poate duce la inversarea rolurilor: analistul devine analizat, iar pacientul 卯葯i manipuleaza psihiatrul.
"Poate c膬 suntem prea creduli. Suntem at芒t de obi葯nui葲i ca pacien葲ii s膬 ne pl膬teasc膬 pentru ca noi s膬 le ascult膬m adev膬ratele probleme, 卯nc芒t probabil nu ne imagin膬m c膬 exist膬 葯i posibilitatea ca ei s膬 mint膬. Am auzit de o cercetare recent膬 care arat膬 c膬 psihiatrii 葯i agen葲ii FBI nu se pricep c芒tu葯i de pu葲in s膬-i identifice pe cei care mint."
Dac膬 e葯ti 卯n c膬utarea unei lecturi faine de vacan葲膬, foarte bine scris膬, cu multe chestiuni serioase plasate 卯n cheie umoristic膬, acest roman spumos 葯i savuros poate fi alegerea ideal膬. Mai mult dec芒t at芒t, la final te treze葯ti c膬 ai descoperit lucruri neb膬nuite chiar despre tine 卯nsu葲i.
El 卯nsu葯i psihiatru, Yalom dezv膬luie vulnerabilitatea celui care (crede c膬) de葲ine controlul asupra celorlal葲i, pornind de la povestea doctorului Ernest Lash.
T芒n膬r 葯i ambi葲ios psihiatru, Lash consiliaz膬, timp de mai mul葲i, ani un pacient ce nu reu葯e葯te s膬 se elibereze din jugul c膬sniciei cu o so葲ie dominant膬 葯i manipulativ膬. Dup膬 ce acest pacient face, 卯n cele din urm膬, pasul decisiv, doctorul Lash devine el 卯nsu葯i 葲inta r膬zbun膬rii so葲iei p膬r膬site, care se va da drept una din pacientele neajutorate, av芒nd drept scop r膬zbunarea, prin seducerea 葯i discreditarea medicului presupus vinovat.
Abandon芒nd regulile de baz膬 ale profesiei, Lash decide s膬 foloseasc膬 unele tehnici experimentale de transfer psihologic medic-pacient, dezv膬luindu-se pe sine la modul imprudent 葯i necenzurat pacientilor s膬i, f膬r膬 a b膬nui nici m膬car o secund膬 c膬 vreunul din ei ar putea fi nesincer sau ar urm膬ri vreodat膬 un alt scop dec芒t vindecarea.
Pe de alt膬 parte, Dr. Marshal Streider, mentorul 葯i supervizorul s膬u, are la r芒ndul lui de a face cu pacien葲i manipulativi 葯i escroci 葯i ajunge, din cauza acestora, la limita conduitei legale 葯i a eticii profesionale.
Iar exemplele continu膬 葯i cu alte cazuri din lumea medicilor psihiatri care, manipula葲i de pacien葲i dominan葲i, duplicitari sau vicleni, ajung s膬 卯葯i compromit膬 pentru totdeauna cariera, fiindc膬, extrem de siguri pe faptul c膬 nu pot fi sub nicio form膬 p膬c膬li葲i, fractureaz膬 involuntar transferul psihiatru-pacient, o zon膬 extrem de sensibil膬, care poate duce la inversarea rolurilor: analistul devine analizat, iar pacientul 卯葯i manipuleaza psihiatrul.
"Poate c膬 suntem prea creduli. Suntem at芒t de obi葯nui葲i ca pacien葲ii s膬 ne pl膬teasc膬 pentru ca noi s膬 le ascult膬m adev膬ratele probleme, 卯nc芒t probabil nu ne imagin膬m c膬 exist膬 葯i posibilitatea ca ei s膬 mint膬. Am auzit de o cercetare recent膬 care arat膬 c膬 psihiatrii 葯i agen葲ii FBI nu se pricep c芒tu葯i de pu葲in s膬-i identifice pe cei care mint."
Dac膬 e葯ti 卯n c膬utarea unei lecturi faine de vacan葲膬, foarte bine scris膬, cu multe chestiuni serioase plasate 卯n cheie umoristic膬, acest roman spumos 葯i savuros poate fi alegerea ideal膬. Mai mult dec芒t at芒t, la final te treze葯ti c膬 ai descoperit lucruri neb膬nuite chiar despre tine 卯nsu葲i.
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April 4, 2018
鈥淢inciuni pe canapea鈥� fix asta este: minciuni (gogonate) pe canapea. Descrierea de pe copert膬 este 卯n葯el膬toare, abia dac膬 o treime din carte se refer膬 la Ernest 葯i Carolyn, restul se refer膬 la orice altceva!
Exist膬 o mul葲ime de plot-uri amestecate, unele relevante, altele complet irelevante, autorul nu a 葯tiut cum s膬 jongleze cu personajele 葯i situa葲iile astfel 卯nc芒t s膬 creeze o poveste complex膬, chiar dac膬 la un moment dat 卯ncepe s膬 卯ncurce i葲ele 葯i s膬 fac膬 un fel de p芒nz膬 de p膬ianjen.
M膬 a葯teptam ca povestea s膬 se axeze pe Ernest 葯i pe Carolyn, 葯i s膬 v膬d cam cum anume 卯葯i pierde Ernest min葲ile, 卯ns膬 cel care chiar 卯葯i pierde min葲ile este de fapt Marshal, asupra c膬ruia m膬 voi referi mai t芒rziu.
Motivul de r膬zbunare al lui Carolyn nu mi se pare suficient fondat, Carolyn nu este prea bine individualizat膬, cumva pare de carton pe alocuri. Are 卯nsu葯iri omene葯ti, dar uneori am sim葲it c膬 motiva葲ia ei nu este plauzibil膬, iar modalitatea 卯n care alege s膬 se comporte pentru a se r膬zbuna las膬 mult de dorit, nu pare prea bine g芒ndit膬.
Se fac apoi ni葯te salturi uria葯e 卯n istoria lui Shelly cu doctorul Pande, apoi pagini 卯ntregi despre poker 葯i cum se joac膬 poker, pagini despre Peter Macondo, Marshal, despre obsesia lui Shirley cu ikebana, chestia total irelevant膬 c膬 Shirley 卯l 卯n葯al膬 pe Marshal 葯i care este l膬sat膬 卯n aer! Multe sub-plot-uri nu au deznod膬m芒nt, nici chiar plot-urile mari nu au deznod膬m芒nt, 卯mi las膬 impresia c膬 povestea este neterminat膬!
Singurul motiv pentru care am dat 3/5 este faptul c膬 卯n timp ce citeam ultimele 50-60 de pagini, s-a 卯nt芒mplat ceva interesant 卯n storyline-ul cu Marshal 葯i Peter Macondo, care chiar mi-a pl膬cut. A fost imprevizibil pentru mine, 葯i chiar c芒nd credeam c膬 am s膬 mor de plictiseal膬, m-a izbit 卯n fa葲膬 ca un camion! 葮i tocmai faptul c膬 mi-a pl膬cut at芒t de mult m-a 卯nfuriat 葯i aproape c膬 eram c芒t pe aici s膬 dau 1/5, fiindc膬 autorul a avut ni葯te idei at芒t de bune pe care s膬 le exploateze, 葯i n-a 葯tiut ce s膬 fac膬 cu ele!
M-a mai enervat 葯i faptul c膬 nu a葯a 卯mi imaginam eu psihiatria, sau poate c膬 a葯a se procedeaz膬 卯n SUA. Am 卯n葲eles, ei sunt terapeu葲i, ofer膬 pacien葲ilor terapie pentru tot felul de probleme, 卯ns膬 unele nu cred c膬 葲in neap膬rat de psihiatrie, c芒t 葲in de psihologie. N-am studiat 卯nc膬 psihiatrie, dar din pu葲inele mele cuno葯tin葲e, nu despre asta ar trebui s膬 fie psihiatria. 脦mi e at芒t de greu s膬 cred c膬 tu, ca psihiatru, ai putea s膬 stai s膬 ascul葲i cum o pacient膬 vine 葯i 卯葲i descrie fanteziile ei sexuale cu tine. Nu contest c膬 e ceva clar patologic aici, pacienta are un comportament sexual cam deviat, 卯ns膬 eu c芒nd am citit descrierea de pe copert膬, mi-am imaginat o femeie cu ni葯te probleme mult mai serioase, ceva din sfera schizofreniei poate, sau ceva care chiar s膬 m膬 duc膬 cu g芒ndul la psihiatrie. S膬 dai 150 de dolari pe or膬 unui psihiatru doar ca s膬 卯i 卯n葯iri probleme de cuplu, probleme cu familia 葯i alte porc膬rii, mi se pare cea mai mare abera葲ie. De aceea exist膬 2 profesii total diferite: psiHOLOGIE, psiHIATRIE!
De asemenea, prin carte se mai vehiculeaz膬 tot felul de filosofii, pe care le-am 卯n葲eles mai mult sau mai pu葲in, ni葯te idei referitoare la psihanaliz膬, se fac trimiteri la Freud 葯i Jung, chestii din astea intelectuale.
Nu pot s膬 neg 葯i partea educativ膬 a c膬r葲ii, se relev膬 ni葯te chestii foarte interesante cu privire la moralitatea asta, care le d膬 mari b膬t膬i de cap oamenilor: faptul c膬 medicii se folosesc de tot felul de tertipuri pentru a stoarce pacien葲ii de bani, faptul c膬 l膬comia distruge omul, iar uneori o persoan膬 evit芒nd 鈥減膬catul iubirii de argin葲i鈥�, d膬 卯n 鈥減膬catul m芒ndriei鈥� (fac referire la Marshal, care pozeaz膬 drept om cinstit, dar care are ni葯te laturi 卯ntunecate pe care 葯i le neag膬, doar pentru c膬 卯i e fric膬 de consecin葲e).
Marshal cred c膬 este cel mai bine construit personaj, ini葲ial am crezut c膬-l ur膬sc, dar la final 卯mi dau seama c膬 el este prototipul oric膬ruia dintre noi. Niciun om nu este doar cinstit, doar escroc, suntem o combina葲ie, iar sintagma de 鈥渙m cinstit/om escroc鈥� deriv膬 din lupta aceasta 卯ntre cele dou膬 p膬r葲i care ne alc膬tuiesc, 葯i de partea care iese cel mai adesea la iveal膬. Deseori avem impresia c膬 dac膬 doar g芒ndim mi葯ele葯te 葯i nu 卯nf膬ptuim ceva, suntem cu mult mai buni dec芒t al葲ii care se las膬 prad膬 p膬r葲ii 卯ntunecate din ei. Mi-a pl膬cut lucrul 膬sta la Marshal, c膬 este construit ca un om veritabil, un om pe care l-a葯 putea 卯nt芒lni oric芒nd pe strad膬, iar reac葲iile lui cu privire la ce i s-a 卯nt芒mplat, chiar 卯mi par fire葯ti 葯i umane.
Cartea m-a l膬sat 卯mp膬r葲it膬 卯n dou膬, are 葯i minusuri, 葯i plusuri, probabil fiindc膬 aveam o idee preconceput膬 despre ea, 葯i anume c膬, f膬c芒nd parte din colec葲ia 鈥淩aftul Denisei鈥�, va fi ceva extraordinar.
O recomand pentru partea educativ膬 葯i pentru am膬r芒ta aia de ac葲iune din ultimele pagini.
Dou膬 citate interesante:
鈥濧m uitat cum te cheam膬. 脦n fiecare minut, a spus el, b膬t芒ndu-se u葯urel pe t芒mpl膬, o duzin膬 de neuroni corticali pier zumz膬ind, ca ni葯te mu葯te muribunde. Ironia e c膬 am publicat patru articole despre boala Alzheimer, evident c膬 am uitat unde, dar 卯n reviste bune.鈥�
鈥濶u confunda valoarea cu permanen葲a, asta duce la nihilism. [...] Totul piere. [...] Asta e soarta oric膬rei experien葲e. Nimic nu persist膬. Permanen葲a este o iluzie 葯i, 卯ntr-o zi, 卯ntregul sistem solar va fi distrus.鈥�
Exist膬 o mul葲ime de plot-uri amestecate, unele relevante, altele complet irelevante, autorul nu a 葯tiut cum s膬 jongleze cu personajele 葯i situa葲iile astfel 卯nc芒t s膬 creeze o poveste complex膬, chiar dac膬 la un moment dat 卯ncepe s膬 卯ncurce i葲ele 葯i s膬 fac膬 un fel de p芒nz膬 de p膬ianjen.
M膬 a葯teptam ca povestea s膬 se axeze pe Ernest 葯i pe Carolyn, 葯i s膬 v膬d cam cum anume 卯葯i pierde Ernest min葲ile, 卯ns膬 cel care chiar 卯葯i pierde min葲ile este de fapt Marshal, asupra c膬ruia m膬 voi referi mai t芒rziu.
Motivul de r膬zbunare al lui Carolyn nu mi se pare suficient fondat, Carolyn nu este prea bine individualizat膬, cumva pare de carton pe alocuri. Are 卯nsu葯iri omene葯ti, dar uneori am sim葲it c膬 motiva葲ia ei nu este plauzibil膬, iar modalitatea 卯n care alege s膬 se comporte pentru a se r膬zbuna las膬 mult de dorit, nu pare prea bine g芒ndit膬.
Se fac apoi ni葯te salturi uria葯e 卯n istoria lui Shelly cu doctorul Pande, apoi pagini 卯ntregi despre poker 葯i cum se joac膬 poker, pagini despre Peter Macondo, Marshal, despre obsesia lui Shirley cu ikebana, chestia total irelevant膬 c膬 Shirley 卯l 卯n葯al膬 pe Marshal 葯i care este l膬sat膬 卯n aer! Multe sub-plot-uri nu au deznod膬m芒nt, nici chiar plot-urile mari nu au deznod膬m芒nt, 卯mi las膬 impresia c膬 povestea este neterminat膬!
Singurul motiv pentru care am dat 3/5 este faptul c膬 卯n timp ce citeam ultimele 50-60 de pagini, s-a 卯nt芒mplat ceva interesant 卯n storyline-ul cu Marshal 葯i Peter Macondo, care chiar mi-a pl膬cut. A fost imprevizibil pentru mine, 葯i chiar c芒nd credeam c膬 am s膬 mor de plictiseal膬, m-a izbit 卯n fa葲膬 ca un camion! 葮i tocmai faptul c膬 mi-a pl膬cut at芒t de mult m-a 卯nfuriat 葯i aproape c膬 eram c芒t pe aici s膬 dau 1/5, fiindc膬 autorul a avut ni葯te idei at芒t de bune pe care s膬 le exploateze, 葯i n-a 葯tiut ce s膬 fac膬 cu ele!
M-a mai enervat 葯i faptul c膬 nu a葯a 卯mi imaginam eu psihiatria, sau poate c膬 a葯a se procedeaz膬 卯n SUA. Am 卯n葲eles, ei sunt terapeu葲i, ofer膬 pacien葲ilor terapie pentru tot felul de probleme, 卯ns膬 unele nu cred c膬 葲in neap膬rat de psihiatrie, c芒t 葲in de psihologie. N-am studiat 卯nc膬 psihiatrie, dar din pu葲inele mele cuno葯tin葲e, nu despre asta ar trebui s膬 fie psihiatria. 脦mi e at芒t de greu s膬 cred c膬 tu, ca psihiatru, ai putea s膬 stai s膬 ascul葲i cum o pacient膬 vine 葯i 卯葲i descrie fanteziile ei sexuale cu tine. Nu contest c膬 e ceva clar patologic aici, pacienta are un comportament sexual cam deviat, 卯ns膬 eu c芒nd am citit descrierea de pe copert膬, mi-am imaginat o femeie cu ni葯te probleme mult mai serioase, ceva din sfera schizofreniei poate, sau ceva care chiar s膬 m膬 duc膬 cu g芒ndul la psihiatrie. S膬 dai 150 de dolari pe or膬 unui psihiatru doar ca s膬 卯i 卯n葯iri probleme de cuplu, probleme cu familia 葯i alte porc膬rii, mi se pare cea mai mare abera葲ie. De aceea exist膬 2 profesii total diferite: psiHOLOGIE, psiHIATRIE!
De asemenea, prin carte se mai vehiculeaz膬 tot felul de filosofii, pe care le-am 卯n葲eles mai mult sau mai pu葲in, ni葯te idei referitoare la psihanaliz膬, se fac trimiteri la Freud 葯i Jung, chestii din astea intelectuale.
Nu pot s膬 neg 葯i partea educativ膬 a c膬r葲ii, se relev膬 ni葯te chestii foarte interesante cu privire la moralitatea asta, care le d膬 mari b膬t膬i de cap oamenilor: faptul c膬 medicii se folosesc de tot felul de tertipuri pentru a stoarce pacien葲ii de bani, faptul c膬 l膬comia distruge omul, iar uneori o persoan膬 evit芒nd 鈥減膬catul iubirii de argin葲i鈥�, d膬 卯n 鈥減膬catul m芒ndriei鈥� (fac referire la Marshal, care pozeaz膬 drept om cinstit, dar care are ni葯te laturi 卯ntunecate pe care 葯i le neag膬, doar pentru c膬 卯i e fric膬 de consecin葲e).
Marshal cred c膬 este cel mai bine construit personaj, ini葲ial am crezut c膬-l ur膬sc, dar la final 卯mi dau seama c膬 el este prototipul oric膬ruia dintre noi. Niciun om nu este doar cinstit, doar escroc, suntem o combina葲ie, iar sintagma de 鈥渙m cinstit/om escroc鈥� deriv膬 din lupta aceasta 卯ntre cele dou膬 p膬r葲i care ne alc膬tuiesc, 葯i de partea care iese cel mai adesea la iveal膬. Deseori avem impresia c膬 dac膬 doar g芒ndim mi葯ele葯te 葯i nu 卯nf膬ptuim ceva, suntem cu mult mai buni dec芒t al葲ii care se las膬 prad膬 p膬r葲ii 卯ntunecate din ei. Mi-a pl膬cut lucrul 膬sta la Marshal, c膬 este construit ca un om veritabil, un om pe care l-a葯 putea 卯nt芒lni oric芒nd pe strad膬, iar reac葲iile lui cu privire la ce i s-a 卯nt芒mplat, chiar 卯mi par fire葯ti 葯i umane.
Cartea m-a l膬sat 卯mp膬r葲it膬 卯n dou膬, are 葯i minusuri, 葯i plusuri, probabil fiindc膬 aveam o idee preconceput膬 despre ea, 葯i anume c膬, f膬c芒nd parte din colec葲ia 鈥淩aftul Denisei鈥�, va fi ceva extraordinar.
O recomand pentru partea educativ膬 葯i pentru am膬r芒ta aia de ac葲iune din ultimele pagini.
Dou膬 citate interesante:
鈥濧m uitat cum te cheam膬. 脦n fiecare minut, a spus el, b膬t芒ndu-se u葯urel pe t芒mpl膬, o duzin膬 de neuroni corticali pier zumz膬ind, ca ni葯te mu葯te muribunde. Ironia e c膬 am publicat patru articole despre boala Alzheimer, evident c膬 am uitat unde, dar 卯n reviste bune.鈥�
鈥濶u confunda valoarea cu permanen葲a, asta duce la nihilism. [...] Totul piere. [...] Asta e soarta oric膬rei experien葲e. Nimic nu persist膬. Permanen葲a este o iluzie 葯i, 卯ntr-o zi, 卯ntregul sistem solar va fi distrus.鈥�
March 14, 2015
Irvin Yalom鈥檜n okudu臒um ilk kitab谋. Bana kalsa Nietzsche A臒lad谋臒谋nda kitab谋ndan ba艧lard谋m ama ekip okumalar谋nda ilk s谋rada oldu臒u i莽in ve hakk谋nda 莽ok olumlu yorumlar g枚rd眉臒眉m i莽in biraz ge莽 de olsa ben de okudum.
Bu eseri klasik romanlardan ay谋ran birka莽 枚zelli臒i var. 脰ncelikle bir psikoterapist taraf谋ndan yaz谋lm谋艧 olmas谋 zaten yeteri kadar ilgin莽 yap谋yor. Irv谋n Yalom鈥檜n psikoterapist olarak kaleminin iyi oldu臒unu s枚yleyebilirim ama kitap edebi olarak 莽ok 眉st d眉zey diyemem. Zaten 枚yle bir beklentim olmad谋臒谋 i莽in bekledi臒imden daha ak谋c谋 ve sade bir dilinin oldu臒unu s枚yleyebilirim. Bu belki de terc眉man谋n maharetidir bilemiyorum. Kitap ile ilgili dikkatimi 莽eken bir ba艧ka nokta da kitapta bask谋n olan bir karakter bulamamam. Bunu birazdan spoiler alt谋nda daha detayl谋 anlataca臒谋m ama kitap sanki ana bir hikaye olmadan bir莽ok alt hikayeyi birle艧tiren bir roman gibi geldi bana. 陌li艧kilerin ve olaylar谋n haritas谋n谋 莽谋karacak olsak s眉rekli belli noktalarda kesi艧en ve 莽ok karma艧谋k bir yap谋s谋 olan aratmayaca臒谋ndan eminim. Ger莽ek hayatta olabilece臒inden 莽ok fazlaca tesad眉flerle biraz da zorlama bir ili艧kiyle olaylar i莽 i莽e girmi艧 olsa da bunun kitaba heyecan ve ak谋c谋l谋k getirdi臒i de yads谋namaz bir ger莽ek.
Terapi ve analiz kavramlar谋 眉zerine kurulu diyaloglarla bezenmi艧 bir roman olmas谋 nedeniyle bu meslek d谋艧谋nda olan insanlara yer yer s谋k谋c谋 gelebilecek bir kitap asl谋nda. Birka莽 psikoterapist dostumun olmas谋 ve onlarla bir projede birlikte 莽al谋艧m谋艧 olmam nedeniyle olsa gerek bu kitaptaki diyaloglar谋 hi莽 yad谋rgamad谋m ve bana s谋k谋c谋 gelmedi. Kitap hakk谋nda belki de ba艧larda biraz zorlan谋rs谋n gibi bir 枚nyarg谋 ile yakla艧mamdan 枚t眉r眉 olsa gerek benim i莽in hem ak谋c谋 hem de zevkli bir okuma oldu. Bunun yan谋 s谋ra mesleki etik konusunda da bizim daha ne kadar yol kat etmemiz gerekti臒ini anlamama vesile oldu. Zira kitap i莽inde bir莽ok kez sorgulanana bu kavram谋n ne yaz谋k ki insan谋m谋z taraf谋ndan bu d眉zeyde bir 枚nemde alg谋land谋臒谋 d眉艧眉nm眉yorum. Kitab谋 okumadan 枚nce de genel olarak bat谋n谋n etik, mesleki etik, etik 枚z disiplin gibi kavramlarda bizden daha ileri oldu臒unu d眉艧眉nmekteydim ve kitab谋 okuduktan sonra da bu kanaatim kesinlikle artt谋.
Etik kavram谋n谋n yan谋 s谋ra insan谋n bilin莽 alt谋nda yer alan baz谋 hasletlerin hayatlar谋na sirayet etme derecelerine g枚re -i艧 hayat谋 olsun 枚zel hayat谋 olsun- ili艧kilerine ne kadar da kuvvetli bir 艧ekilde y枚n verebildi臒ini anlad谋m. Kitap i莽inde ge莽en baz谋 tespitler ise bende keskin bir ayd谋nlanmaya neden oldu desem herhalde abartm谋艧 olmam.
Bundan sonras谋n谋n kitap ile ilgili detayl谋 bilgilerle dolu olaca臒谋n谋 ve hen眉z bu kitab谋 okumayanlar谋n devam etmemesinin daha iyi olaca臒谋n谋 uyarmak isterim.
脰zetlemek gerekirse zevkli, ak谋c谋, zaman zaman geren zaman zaman g眉l眉mseten ama mutlaka bir 艧eyler katan bir kitap. Kesinlikle okunmas谋 gereken bir kitap...
Bu eseri klasik romanlardan ay谋ran birka莽 枚zelli臒i var. 脰ncelikle bir psikoterapist taraf谋ndan yaz谋lm谋艧 olmas谋 zaten yeteri kadar ilgin莽 yap谋yor. Irv谋n Yalom鈥檜n psikoterapist olarak kaleminin iyi oldu臒unu s枚yleyebilirim ama kitap edebi olarak 莽ok 眉st d眉zey diyemem. Zaten 枚yle bir beklentim olmad谋臒谋 i莽in bekledi臒imden daha ak谋c谋 ve sade bir dilinin oldu臒unu s枚yleyebilirim. Bu belki de terc眉man谋n maharetidir bilemiyorum. Kitap ile ilgili dikkatimi 莽eken bir ba艧ka nokta da kitapta bask谋n olan bir karakter bulamamam. Bunu birazdan spoiler alt谋nda daha detayl谋 anlataca臒谋m ama kitap sanki ana bir hikaye olmadan bir莽ok alt hikayeyi birle艧tiren bir roman gibi geldi bana. 陌li艧kilerin ve olaylar谋n haritas谋n谋 莽谋karacak olsak s眉rekli belli noktalarda kesi艧en ve 莽ok karma艧谋k bir yap谋s谋 olan aratmayaca臒谋ndan eminim. Ger莽ek hayatta olabilece臒inden 莽ok fazlaca tesad眉flerle biraz da zorlama bir ili艧kiyle olaylar i莽 i莽e girmi艧 olsa da bunun kitaba heyecan ve ak谋c谋l谋k getirdi臒i de yads谋namaz bir ger莽ek.
Terapi ve analiz kavramlar谋 眉zerine kurulu diyaloglarla bezenmi艧 bir roman olmas谋 nedeniyle bu meslek d谋艧谋nda olan insanlara yer yer s谋k谋c谋 gelebilecek bir kitap asl谋nda. Birka莽 psikoterapist dostumun olmas谋 ve onlarla bir projede birlikte 莽al谋艧m谋艧 olmam nedeniyle olsa gerek bu kitaptaki diyaloglar谋 hi莽 yad谋rgamad谋m ve bana s谋k谋c谋 gelmedi. Kitap hakk谋nda belki de ba艧larda biraz zorlan谋rs谋n gibi bir 枚nyarg谋 ile yakla艧mamdan 枚t眉r眉 olsa gerek benim i莽in hem ak谋c谋 hem de zevkli bir okuma oldu. Bunun yan谋 s谋ra mesleki etik konusunda da bizim daha ne kadar yol kat etmemiz gerekti臒ini anlamama vesile oldu. Zira kitap i莽inde bir莽ok kez sorgulanana bu kavram谋n ne yaz谋k ki insan谋m谋z taraf谋ndan bu d眉zeyde bir 枚nemde alg谋land谋臒谋 d眉艧眉nm眉yorum. Kitab谋 okumadan 枚nce de genel olarak bat谋n谋n etik, mesleki etik, etik 枚z disiplin gibi kavramlarda bizden daha ileri oldu臒unu d眉艧眉nmekteydim ve kitab谋 okuduktan sonra da bu kanaatim kesinlikle artt谋.
Etik kavram谋n谋n yan谋 s谋ra insan谋n bilin莽 alt谋nda yer alan baz谋 hasletlerin hayatlar谋na sirayet etme derecelerine g枚re -i艧 hayat谋 olsun 枚zel hayat谋 olsun- ili艧kilerine ne kadar da kuvvetli bir 艧ekilde y枚n verebildi臒ini anlad谋m. Kitap i莽inde ge莽en baz谋 tespitler ise bende keskin bir ayd谋nlanmaya neden oldu desem herhalde abartm谋艧 olmam.
Bundan sonras谋n谋n kitap ile ilgili detayl谋 bilgilerle dolu olaca臒谋n谋 ve hen眉z bu kitab谋 okumayanlar谋n devam etmemesinin daha iyi olaca臒谋n谋 uyarmak isterim.
脰zetlemek gerekirse zevkli, ak谋c谋, zaman zaman geren zaman zaman g眉l眉mseten ama mutlaka bir 艧eyler katan bir kitap. Kesinlikle okunmas谋 gereken bir kitap...
November 7, 2021
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丿乇 丨丕賱蹖讴賴 胤賵賱丕賳蹖 亘賵丿 賵賱蹖 禺爻鬲賴 讴賳賳丿賴 賳亘賵丿 賵 鬲丕 倬丕蹖丕賳 亘丕 讴鬲丕亘 賴賲乇丕賴 卮丿賲 (亘丕 丕蹖賳讴賴 丕賱讴鬲乇賵賳蹖讴 禺賵賳丿賲 賵 诏賵卮 丿丕丿賲 賵 賲毓賲賵賱丕 乇丕
卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴丕蹖 讴鬲丕亘 賳爻亘鬲丕 夭蹖丕丿賳丿
丕夭丕賵賳噩丕蹖蹖 讴賴 毓賱丕賯賴 夭蹖丕丿蹖 亘賴 卮賳蹖丿賳 乇賵丕蹖鬲 賴丕蹖 乇賵丕賳 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 丿丕乇賲 禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘乇丕賲 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿 (丕賲丕 賳賴 亘賴 丕賳丿丕夭賴 丿乇賲丕賳 卮賵倬賳賴丕賵乇) 貙 丕賲丕 禺亘 賮讴乇 賳賲蹖讴賳賲 賴賲賴 丕夭 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 禺賵卮卮賵賳 亘蹖丕丿 亘賴 賴賲賵賳 丿賱蹖賱 讴賴 亘蹖卮鬲乇 丨爻 賲蹖卮賴 賲賳丕爻亘 蹖讴 丿乇賲丕賳诏乇賴 鬲丕 蹖讴 禺賵丕賳賳丿賴 毓丕丿蹖
*賵 丕蹖賳讴賴 倬蹖卮賳賴丕丿 賲蹖讴賳賲 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 丕賵賱蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 丕夭 蹖丕賱賵賲 賳禺賵賳蹖丿卮
賵 丕诏乇 亘賯蹖賴 讴鬲丕亘 賴丕蹖 蹖丕賱賵賲 乇賵 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕乇蹖丿 卮丕蹖丿 丕蹖賳 賴賲 亘乇丕鬲賵賳 噩丕賱亘 亘丕卮賴
賳爻禺賴 氐賵鬲蹖 讴鬲丕亘 乇賵 诏賵卮 丿丕丿賲 亘丕 诏賵蹖賳丿诏蹖 丨爻蹖賳 讴丕馗賲蹖 蹖夭丿蹖 賵 乇丕囟蹖 亘賵丿賲
爻賵賲蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘蹖 讴賴 丕夭 蹖丕賱賵賲 禺賵賳丿賲
丕賵賱蹖 : 賵賯鬲蹖 賳蹖趩賴 诏乇蹖爻鬲 : 讴鬲丕亘蹖 讴賴 趩賳丿 爻丕賱 賯亘賱 禺賵賳丿賲 賵 禺蹖賱蹖 鬲賵 匕賴賳賲 賳賲賵賳丿賴 貙 亘丕蹖丿 丿賵亘丕乇賴 亘禺賵賳賲卮
丿賵賲蹖 丿乇賲丕賳 卮賵倬賳賴丕賵乇 : 趩賴 讴鬲丕亘 禺賵亘蹖 亘丕 毓賱丕賯賴 賲賳 亘賴 诏乇賵賴 丿乇賲丕賳蹖 讴賱蹖 賱匕鬲 亘乇丿賲 丕夭 禺賵賳丿賳卮
June 9, 2017
I liked it, it was ok, and definitely a book that poses uncomfortable questions in a smart way. But unfortunately for Irvin Yalom's (unmistakable) qualities as a writer, his background as a therapist tends, in my opinion, to get in the way of his writing.
Yes, his professional insights are giving him more ideas of things to write about and an understanding of human nature. I agree with all that. But at the same time, you can see how his background also makes his portrayals of people and stories pretty limited. Every situation and relationship is thoroughly 'explained', labeled, and ultimately lacking subtlety. It's like an attempt of a poem where an over-eager author explains to the reader every metaphor he used, right after using it. Also, unfortunately, it all bears an aftertaste of the obsessions people from the field of psychology tend to have - like mapping out the power dynamic of every relationship, determining who is 'manipulating' who and stuff like that.
Even though I enjoyed several of his books and would probably read another novel of his in the future, or maybe two, I am a little put off by this.
Yes, his professional insights are giving him more ideas of things to write about and an understanding of human nature. I agree with all that. But at the same time, you can see how his background also makes his portrayals of people and stories pretty limited. Every situation and relationship is thoroughly 'explained', labeled, and ultimately lacking subtlety. It's like an attempt of a poem where an over-eager author explains to the reader every metaphor he used, right after using it. Also, unfortunately, it all bears an aftertaste of the obsessions people from the field of psychology tend to have - like mapping out the power dynamic of every relationship, determining who is 'manipulating' who and stuff like that.
Even though I enjoyed several of his books and would probably read another novel of his in the future, or maybe two, I am a little put off by this.
July 27, 2020
亘丕夭 賴賲 蹖丕賱賵賲.丕蹖賳 倬蹖乇賲乇丿 丿賽蹖賳 亘夭乇诏蹖 亘賴 诏乇丿賳 賲丕 丿丕乇賴.趩賳丿 鬲丕 賳讴鬲賴 蹖 讴賲讴 讴賳賳丿賴 蹖 乇賵丕賳卮賳丕爻蹖 丿丕卮鬲 讴賴 噩丕賱亘 亘賵丿賳.
賲孬賱:丿乇 賱丨馗賴 丿賱蹖賱 丕丨爻丕爻 賴丕蹖 賲賴賲 乇賵 亘丕夭诏賵 讴乇丿賳.趩賵賳 丕賳爻丕賳 賴丕 丿乇 丌賳 賵丕丨丿 趩賳丿蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 乇賵 鬲噩乇亘賴 賲蹖 讴賳賳.賲孬賱丕 鬲乇爻貙 禺卮賲貙 禺賵卮丨丕賱蹖.亘丕 诏賮鬲賳 丿賱蹖賱 賴乇 讴丿賵賲 丌乇丕賲卮 匕賴賳蹖 亘蹖卮鬲乇 賲蹖卮賴.丕賱亘鬲賴 賳賵卮鬲賳 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 鬲乇賴.
蹖丕 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳 亘賴 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 讴賴 蹖讴 乇賵夭 賲賳馗賵賲賴 卮賲爻蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賳 賲蹖乇賴.丕诏賴 亘賴卮 賮讴乇 讴賳蹖賲 丿賱蹖賱 丕蹖賳 賴賲賴 賳诏乇丕賳蹖 乇賵 賲鬲賵噩賴 賳賲蹖 卮蹖賲 賵 丌夭丕丿蹖 丿乇賵賳蹖 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖 丿丕乇蹖賲.
蹖丕 亘賴 賯囟蹖賴 爻蹖夭蹖賮 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳.賲丕 賴乇 趩賯丿乇 賴賲 鬲賱丕卮 讴賳蹖賲 賵 賲賵賮賯 亘丕卮蹖賲 賵 亘賴 禺賵丿賲賵賳 賮卮丕乇 亘蹖丕乇蹖賲 亘丕夭賲 賳賲蹖 鬲賵賳蹖賲 丕夭 賱亘賴 讴賵賴 毓亘賵乇 讴賳蹖賲 賵 賲賳馗乇賴 毓亘賵乇賲賵賳賵 亘丕 禺蹖丕賱 乇丕丨鬲 亘亘蹖賳蹖賲.
蹖丕 鬲賲乇蹖賳 爻賳诏 賯亘乇.讴賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕乇蹖賲 趩蹖 乇賵蹖 爻賳诏 賯亘乇賲賵賳 亘賳賵蹖爻賳.丕蹖賳 賲爻蹖乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘丕毓孬 賲蹖卮賴 噩賵乇蹖 夭賳丿诏蹖 讴賳蹖賲 讴賴 賴乇 讴爻蹖 賳賵卮鬲賴 蹖 乇賵蹖 爻賳诏 賯亘乇賲賵賳賵 丿蹖丿 亘賴 亘睾賱 丿爻鬲蹖卮 亘诏賴 毓噩亘 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 丿乇爻鬲蹖.
蹖丕賱賵賲 蹖讴 乇賵卮 睾丕賮賱诏蹖乇 讴賳賳丿賴 乇賵 賴賲 賲毓乇賮蹖 賲蹖 讴賳賴.賴賲 亘丕 禺賵丿 賵 賴賲 亘丕 丕胤乇丕賮蹖丕賳 丕蹖賳 乇賵卮 乇賵 丕賲鬲丨丕賳 讴乇丿賳 丨爻 毓噩蹖亘蹖 丿丕乇賴.乇賵卮 丕蹖賳 胤賵乇蹖賴 讴賴 蹖讴 禺胤 賲爻鬲賯蹖賲 乇賵 乇賵蹖 讴丕睾匕 賲蹖 讴卮蹖賲 賵 丕亘鬲丿丕 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕卮 乇賵 賳賯胤賴 賲蹖 匕丕乇蹖賲.賳賯胤賴 蹖 丕亘鬲丿丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 鬲賵賱丿 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 賲乇诏.賵 丕夭 亘賯蹖賴 賲蹖 禺賵丕蹖賲 亘丕 賳賯胤賴 诏匕丕卮鬲賳 亘诏賳 丕丨爻丕爻 賲蹖 讴賳賳 丕賱丕賳 鬲賵蹖 讴丿賵賲 賲乇丨賱賴 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖卮賵賳 賴爻鬲賳.噩賵丕亘 賴丕蹖 噩丕賱亘蹖 亘賵丿賳.
賲孬賱:丿乇 賱丨馗賴 丿賱蹖賱 丕丨爻丕爻 賴丕蹖 賲賴賲 乇賵 亘丕夭诏賵 讴乇丿賳.趩賵賳 丕賳爻丕賳 賴丕 丿乇 丌賳 賵丕丨丿 趩賳丿蹖賳 丕丨爻丕爻 乇賵 鬲噩乇亘賴 賲蹖 讴賳賳.賲孬賱丕 鬲乇爻貙 禺卮賲貙 禺賵卮丨丕賱蹖.亘丕 诏賮鬲賳 丿賱蹖賱 賴乇 讴丿賵賲 丌乇丕賲卮 匕賴賳蹖 亘蹖卮鬲乇 賲蹖卮賴.丕賱亘鬲賴 賳賵卮鬲賳 讴丕乇亘乇丿蹖 鬲乇賴.
蹖丕 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳 亘賴 丕蹖賳 賲賵囟賵毓 讴賴 蹖讴 乇賵夭 賲賳馗賵賲賴 卮賲爻蹖 丕夭 亘蹖賳 賲蹖乇賴.丕诏賴 亘賴卮 賮讴乇 讴賳蹖賲 丿賱蹖賱 丕蹖賳 賴賲賴 賳诏乇丕賳蹖 乇賵 賲鬲賵噩賴 賳賲蹖 卮蹖賲 賵 丌夭丕丿蹖 丿乇賵賳蹖 亘蹖卮鬲乇蹖 丿丕乇蹖賲.
蹖丕 亘賴 賯囟蹖賴 爻蹖夭蹖賮 賮讴乇 讴乇丿賳.賲丕 賴乇 趩賯丿乇 賴賲 鬲賱丕卮 讴賳蹖賲 賵 賲賵賮賯 亘丕卮蹖賲 賵 亘賴 禺賵丿賲賵賳 賮卮丕乇 亘蹖丕乇蹖賲 亘丕夭賲 賳賲蹖 鬲賵賳蹖賲 丕夭 賱亘賴 讴賵賴 毓亘賵乇 讴賳蹖賲 賵 賲賳馗乇賴 毓亘賵乇賲賵賳賵 亘丕 禺蹖丕賱 乇丕丨鬲 亘亘蹖賳蹖賲.
蹖丕 鬲賲乇蹖賳 爻賳诏 賯亘乇.讴賴 丿賵爻鬲 丿丕乇蹖賲 趩蹖 乇賵蹖 爻賳诏 賯亘乇賲賵賳 亘賳賵蹖爻賳.丕蹖賳 賲爻蹖乇 夭賳丿诏蹖 亘丕毓孬 賲蹖卮賴 噩賵乇蹖 夭賳丿诏蹖 讴賳蹖賲 讴賴 賴乇 讴爻蹖 賳賵卮鬲賴 蹖 乇賵蹖 爻賳诏 賯亘乇賲賵賳賵 丿蹖丿 亘賴 亘睾賱 丿爻鬲蹖卮 亘诏賴 毓噩亘 丕賳鬲禺丕亘 丿乇爻鬲蹖.
蹖丕賱賵賲 蹖讴 乇賵卮 睾丕賮賱诏蹖乇 讴賳賳丿賴 乇賵 賴賲 賲毓乇賮蹖 賲蹖 讴賳賴.賴賲 亘丕 禺賵丿 賵 賴賲 亘丕 丕胤乇丕賮蹖丕賳 丕蹖賳 乇賵卮 乇賵 丕賲鬲丨丕賳 讴乇丿賳 丨爻 毓噩蹖亘蹖 丿丕乇賴.乇賵卮 丕蹖賳 胤賵乇蹖賴 讴賴 蹖讴 禺胤 賲爻鬲賯蹖賲 乇賵 乇賵蹖 讴丕睾匕 賲蹖 讴卮蹖賲 賵 丕亘鬲丿丕 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕卮 乇賵 賳賯胤賴 賲蹖 匕丕乇蹖賲.賳賯胤賴 蹖 丕亘鬲丿丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 鬲賵賱丿 賵 丕賳鬲賴丕 亘賴 毓賳賵丕賳 賲乇诏.賵 丕夭 亘賯蹖賴 賲蹖 禺賵丕蹖賲 亘丕 賳賯胤賴 诏匕丕卮鬲賳 亘诏賳 丕丨爻丕爻 賲蹖 讴賳賳 丕賱丕賳 鬲賵蹖 讴丿賵賲 賲乇丨賱賴 丕夭 夭賳丿诏蹖卮賵賳 賴爻鬲賳.噩賵丕亘 賴丕蹖 噩丕賱亘蹖 亘賵丿賳.
May 17, 2023
丕夭 禺賵賳丿賳 丕蹖賳 讴鬲丕亘 亘爻蹖丕乇 賱匕鬲 亘乇丿賲
賴賲 丌賲賵夭賳丿賴 亘賵丿 賵 賴賲 噩匕丕亘
賵 倬乇 亘賵丿 丕夭 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 亘丕 馗乇丕賮鬲 賵 丿賯鬲 賴乇 趩賴 鬲賲丕賲 禺賱賯 卮丿賴 亘賵丿賳 賵 賳賵卮鬲賳 丕蹖賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賵 倬蹖賵賳丿 夭丿賳 賲丕噩乇丕賴丕 亘賴 蹖讴丿蹖诏賴 賵丕賯毓丕 賴賳乇賲賳丿丕賳賴 亘賵丿
賴賲 丌賲賵夭賳丿賴 亘賵丿 賵 賴賲 噩匕丕亘
賵 倬乇 亘賵丿 丕夭 卮禺氐蹖鬲 賴丕蹖蹖 讴賴 亘丕 馗乇丕賮鬲 賵 丿賯鬲 賴乇 趩賴 鬲賲丕賲 禺賱賯 卮丿賴 亘賵丿賳 賵 賳賵卮鬲賳 丕蹖賳 丿丕爻鬲丕賳 賵 倬蹖賵賳丿 夭丿賳 賲丕噩乇丕賴丕 亘賴 蹖讴丿蹖诏賴 賵丕賯毓丕 賴賳乇賲賳丿丕賳賴 亘賵丿
October 15, 2021
Recunosc c膬 am fost pu葲in sceptic膬 la 卯nceput poate fiindc膬 terapia nu este un lucru pe care eu l-a葯 face, de葯i consider c膬 este esen葲ial膬 conexiunea prin discu葲ie 葯i c膬 multe metode 葯i analize profunde puse 卯n practic膬 de diver葯i terapeu葲i/psihologi/psihanali葯ti pot rezolva probleme esen葲iale 葯i pot schimba traiectorii. Astfel c膬 la 卯nceput am fost pu葲in 卯n dezacord cu perspectiva asupra terapiei, mai ales c膬 Yalom eviden葲iaz膬 p膬r葲i mai pu葲in nepl膬cute. 脦ns膬, pe parcursul c膬r葲ii m-am deschis din ce 卯n ce mai tare 葯i mi-a pl膬cut nespus de mult s膬 v膬d cum rolurile se inverseaz膬, cum terapeutul devine pacient 葯i viceversa. Mi se pare foarte ingenios! Plus c膬 Yalom a construit 卯nceti葯or o premis膬, tocmai pentru a o demonta la sf芒r葯it. A demonstrat, p芒n膬 la urm膬, c膬 tot ce este realizat de oameni 葯i cu oameni are propriile deficien葲e 葯i c膬 nici m膬car un terapeut de succes nu poate s膬 surprind膬 toate dedesubturile fiin葲ei umane. O carte foarte fain膬!
November 27, 2018
韦慰 渭蠈谓慰 尾喂尾位委慰 蟿慰蠀 螕喂维位慰渭 纬喂伪 蟿畏谓 蠋蟻伪 蟺慰蠀 未蔚谓 魏伪蟿维蠁蔚蟻蔚 谓伪 渭蔚 蟺蔚委蟽蔚喂 魏伪胃蠈位慰蠀. 螠蔚 魏伪位苇蟼 蟽蟿喂纬渭苇蟼 蟺蠈蟿蔚 伪蟽蟿蔚委蔚蟼, 蟺蠈蟿蔚 蟽蠀纬魏喂谓畏蟿喂魏苇蟼 蟽委纬慰蠀蟻伪 伪位位维 蟽蔚 魏伪渭委伪 蟺蔚蟻委蟺蟿蠅蟽畏 未蔚 渭慰蠀 苇未蠅蟽蔚 蔚魏蔚委谓伪 蟿伪 蟽蟿慰喂蠂蔚委伪 蟺慰蠀 胃蔚蠅蟻慰蠉蟽伪 蠈蟿喂 胃伪 未喂伪尾维蟽蠅 蔚尉慰蠉 魏伪喂 未蔚谓 蔚蠂蠅 谓伪 纬蟻伪蠄蠅 魏伪喂 蟺慰位位维 蟽蟿畏谓 魏蟻喂蟿喂魏萎 渭慰蠀. 螒蟺位维 未蔚 渭蔚 伪纬纬喂尉蔚. 韦喂蟺慰蟿伪 位喂纬蠈蟿蔚蟻慰, 蟿委蟺慰蟿伪 蟺蔚蟻喂蟽蟽蠈蟿蔚蟻慰.
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Man 啪iauriai, 啪iauriai, nu tiesiog 沤IAU-RIAI patinka Yalom'o ra拧ymo stilius, jo po啪i奴ris, mintys ir unikali psichologijos doktrina. "Melagis ant ku拧et臈s" - ne i拧imtis.
Autorius labai ai拧kiai ir nedviprasmi拧kai atskleid啪ia nuolatin臋 psichoterapeuto ir paciento ry拧io kontflikto egzistencijos kolizij膮. Kaip pagelb臈ti pacientui, pad臈ti jam i拧silaisvinti i拧 psichologini懦 kan膷i懦, bet kartu nei拧klysti i拧 profesinio neutralumo, diskreti拧kumo rib懦, j懦 neper啪engti? Atsakymas toks sud臈tingas, kad tiesiog pra拧osi milijon懦 traktat懦.
Yalom dar kart膮 parodo, koks svarbus yra 啪mogaus moralinis stuburas - net ir kitu nor臈j臋s pasinaudoti individas geba gal懦 galiausiai pasikeisti 寞 ger膮j膮 pus臋 ir pats save pastatyti 寞 psichoterapeuto viet膮. O kitas, galb奴t net ir labiausiai nepriekai拧tingai gludinantis savo reputacijos ir 寞vaizd啪io atspind寞 susimauna d臈l nepasotinamo 拧lov臈s, garb臈s ir materialinio g臈rio siekio.
Knyga, kuri sukre膷ia, apver膷ia tavo 寞sivaizdavim膮 apie pasitik臈jim膮 kitu ir padeda dar labiau 寞vertinti save bei tai, kad psichoterapija da啪nai yra tas tikrasis i拧sigelb臈jimo ratas, i拧traukiantis i拧 savinaikos li奴no.
Autorius labai ai拧kiai ir nedviprasmi拧kai atskleid啪ia nuolatin臋 psichoterapeuto ir paciento ry拧io kontflikto egzistencijos kolizij膮. Kaip pagelb臈ti pacientui, pad臈ti jam i拧silaisvinti i拧 psichologini懦 kan膷i懦, bet kartu nei拧klysti i拧 profesinio neutralumo, diskreti拧kumo rib懦, j懦 neper啪engti? Atsakymas toks sud臈tingas, kad tiesiog pra拧osi milijon懦 traktat懦.
Yalom dar kart膮 parodo, koks svarbus yra 啪mogaus moralinis stuburas - net ir kitu nor臈j臋s pasinaudoti individas geba gal懦 galiausiai pasikeisti 寞 ger膮j膮 pus臋 ir pats save pastatyti 寞 psichoterapeuto viet膮. O kitas, galb奴t net ir labiausiai nepriekai拧tingai gludinantis savo reputacijos ir 寞vaizd啪io atspind寞 susimauna d臈l nepasotinamo 拧lov臈s, garb臈s ir materialinio g臈rio siekio.
Knyga, kuri sukre膷ia, apver膷ia tavo 寞sivaizdavim膮 apie pasitik臈jim膮 kitu ir padeda dar labiau 寞vertinti save bei tai, kad psichoterapija da啪nai yra tas tikrasis i拧sigelb臈jimo ratas, i拧traukiantis i拧 savinaikos li奴no.
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