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“Don't turn a good dude who is loyal to his chick into a bad nigga by throwing yourself at him when he is already committed. Know when to stay the hell away.Good men are rare. If he aint single, don't make him unfaithful. Oh Yes, he might cheat with some other chick. It does not have to be you.”
― Crystal Evans, Ten Things Your Mother Should Have Told You about Dating

“you see a nigga won't give a good girl shit yet he will spend his last dime trying to make a bad girl his bitch. He will go broke trying to trap some whore into a monogamous relationship”
― Crystal Evans, Ten Things Your Mother Should Have Told You about Dating

“To be completely honest about your flaws is the only liberation from feelings of inferiority, inadequacy and external manipulation. Your happiness is only a change of conviction away.”
― Crystal Evans , Ten Things Your Mother Should Have Told You about Dating

“I keep saying that i wish our black women would not stop raising their sons to be like the niggas who left them. I see mothers covering for their deadbeat sons, putting some other child's mother through the same shit, her babyfather put her through.
We have spent the last few decades blaming absentee fathers for the lack of "graces" among our young men forgetting that they are raised by women. Women have always been other women's worst enemies. Maybe we need to start asking our mothers, what have they been doing wrong. Trying to smother the only man who won't leave them cause he can't, hes biologically linked to her. Trying to make up for the men who dumped her.
Raising monstrous, spoiled brats and then unleashing them on the female population. What we have today is a culture of men raised like daughters who do not know how to be a partner, a man and a father.”
― Crystal Evans, The Bunna Man: Joe Grind Series

“All i can say to women is to guard your personal space with discrimination, anno every and anybody to get access to your life so they can have a story to tell about you. For what they do inno hun, is tek the likkle weh dem know bout you and spread it like that is you. A few composite of events , experiences and perceptions makes someone create this tabloid about you not knowing anything about you. I don't let people get close to me anymore. Some people who managed to do so, should already know that i will never allow them to get so close to me that they get a platform to fabricate stories about me. What's worse, in this time and age, people are quick to believe the worse of others. I don't make it bother me, am like oil, that shit don't stick it just rolls the fuck off. Not only that, they can't lower me for oil never sinks, don't even try mixing it, it will float right back on top.”
― Crystal Evans, Every Man Deserves A Good Jacket II: Babydaddy Series

“Sometimes people do you favour by leaving your life. You have to adopt that WOW factor,
With Or Without you attitude then move on and move up.”
― Crystal Evans, Every Man Deserves A Good Jacket II: Babydaddy Series

“There will always be women less than and greater than me. I can’t live my life to be in competition with every woman. I don’t want to hate femihood. I don’t want to sabotage it either. I don’t want to hate myself. Yes there will be women more beautiful, sexier, desirable, smarter than I am. But I am me. Uniquely me.”
― Crystal Evans, Tall Dark and Bad : Full Edition

“The most direct way that I can define advantage in our society—is that it's an allowable difference in the margin of error necessary to succeed.

You could have two people, seemingly side by side, while one is there because they scraped and clawed and rarely misstepped, while the other person tripped their way to the same position.

For the disadvantaged are not allowed to speak on it or talk about their struggles to get where they are at.
What you did with that disadvantage has no bearing on whether it existed or not.
People like myself have to face obstacles but are also given a tiny margin of error�
We are not allowed to fail or to make mistakes.”
― Crystal Evans, Blood Money: The Scammer and The Ex-slave Owner

“Lifting one loc, he rolled it between his fingers, familiarizing himself with the soft texture. He tugged it a little and let it spring out of his grip.
When he met her gaze, he could have sworn Nasira was holding her breath.

She released it and took another shallow one, closing her eyes. Almost as if she was waiting for a kiss.”
― J.L. Campbell

“Be wary of people who are always powerless in their circumstances.
People who can’t do this.
People who are too tired, too busy, too committed to do this and that.
Yet are convinced that you are flexible, convenient or available enough to accommodate them.

You aren’t helping yourself.
You are helping them to build up a dependency on your efforts and not theirs thus fostering usery.

They invest nothing in you.
And as such have no qualms about leaving because they have nothing to lose to begin with.

Such people are cowards and snakes.”
― Crystal Evans, 100 Dating Tips for Jamaican Women

“A man trying to convince me to accept terms I am not interested in:
Me: Sir I am trilingual, I speak English, Spanish and I understand sign language.
This is a sign that it ain’t gonna work.”
― Crystal Evans, 100 Dating Tips for Jamaican Women

“Man shares his opinion on me:
Man: I think you are delusional

Me: Is that propositional logic
Me: Or predicate logic or your ego transposing some excuse/reason/premise to why you can’t have me the way you want�

You have only known me for a few days�
And you only know what I tell you or show you�
”
― Crystal Evans, The Bunna Man Trilogy