Å·±¦ÓéÀÖ

“Fault is past tense. Responsibility is present tense. Fault results from choices that have already been made. Responsibility results from the choices you're currently making, every second of every day."

"There's a difference between blaming someone else for your situation and that person's actually being responsible for your situation. Nobody else is ever responsible for your situation but you. Many people may be to blame for your unhappiness, but nobody is ever responsible for your unhappiness but you. This is because you always get to choose how you see things, how you react to things, how you value things.”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“The solution to one problem is merely the creation of the next one”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“You can't be an important and life changing presence for some people without also being a joke an an embarrassment to others. You just can't. Because there's no such thing as lack of adversity. It doesn't exist. The old saying goes that no matter where you go, there you are. Well, the same is true for adversity and failure. No matter where you go, there's a five-hundred-pound load of shit waiting for you. And that's perfectly fine. The point isn't to get away from the shit. The point is to find the shit you enjoy dealing with.”
― Mark Manson.

“I used to think the brain was the most important organ in the body, until I realized who was telling me that.”
― Emo Phillips

“This is why not giving a fuck is so key. This is why it's going to save the world. And it's going to save it by accepting that the world is totally fucked and that's all right, because it's always been that way, and always will be.”
― Mark Manson.

“Pain is an inextricable thread in the fabric of life, and to tear it out is not only impossible, but destructive: attempting to tear it out unravels everything else with it. To try to avoid pain is to give too many fucks about pain. In contrast, if you're able to not give a fuck about the pain, you become unstoppable.”
― Mark Manson.

“This fixation on the positive- on what's better, what's superior- only serves to remind us over and over again of what we are not, of what we lack, of what we should have been but failed to be. After all, no truly happy person feels the need to stand in front of a mirror and recite that she's happy. She just is.”
― Mark Manson.

“Nereye giderseniz gidin, sizi bekleyen bir sorun yumağı vardır. Bunda bir sorun da yoktur. Mesele bu yığından kaçmak deÄŸil, mesele uÄŸraÅŸmaktan hoÅŸlanacağınız yumağı bulmaktır.”
― Mark Manson, Ustalık Gerektiren Kafaya Takmama Sanatı

“Keep your “selfâ€� out of your decisions, because most likely, it’s not about “you.â€� Simply ask yourself, “Is this a good thing to do?â€� Yes? Then go do it.

Oh, you failed to do it? Is it still a good thing to do? Yes? Then go do it again. And if, at any point, you realize that it wasn’t as good as you thought, then don’t do it again.

End of story.

(From the article: Stop Trying to Change Yourself)”
― Mark Manson

“The more something threatens your identity the more you will avoid it .”
― mark manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“Honesty is a natural human craving. But part of having honesty in our lives is becoming comfortable with saying and hearing the word "no." In this way, rejection actually makes our relationships better and our emotional lives healthier.”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“The willingness to be different, an outcast, a pariah, all for the sake of one's own values. The willingness to stare failure in the face and shove your middle finger back at it.”
― Mark Manson.

“They say, "Fuck it," not to everything in life, but rather to everything unimportant in life. They reserve their fucks for what truly matters. Friends. Family. Purpose. Burritos. And an occasional lawsuit or two.”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“Al fin y al cabo, una persona de verdad feliz no siente la necesidad de pararse frente a un espejo y recitar hasta el cansancio que es feliz; simplemente lo es.”
― Mark Manson, El sutil arte de que te importe un caraj*: Un enfoque disruptivo para vivir una buena vida

“La clave para una buena vida no es que te importen muchas cosas, es que importen menos, para que en realidad te importe lo que es verdadero, inmediato y trascendente.”
― Mark Manson, Finding Your Life Purpose

“Don’t hope for better. Just be better.
Be something better. Be more compassionate, more resilient, more humble, more disciplined.
Many people would also throw in there “Be more human,â€� but no—be a better human. And maybe, if we’re lucky, one day we’ll get to be more than human.”
― Mark Manson, Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope