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“Invest in the human soul. Who knows, it might be a diamond in the rough.”
― Mary McLeod Bethune

“Recognising our own mistakes helps us to empathise non-judgementally with others and helps enable us to understand their issues.”
― Jay Woodman

“In its highest form, not judging is the ultimate act of forgiveness.”
― John Kuypers, The Non-judgmental Christian: Five Lessons That Will Revolutionize Your Relationships

“As I turned my head and looked out the window, I saw that everything around me was glowing from within. The sunlight on the trees, the swaying of the leaves in the wind, the slight rattle of the panes of glass in the old window frame, were too beautiful for words. I was enthralled at how miraculous everything was. Absolutely everything was beautiful. . . .

I saw clearly that everyone is made of light—that we are like forms of light—but that a crust has formed over it. The crust is black and rubbery like tar and has obscured the inner light that is everyone’s real, inner self. Some blotches of tar are very thick; other areas are thinner and more transparent. Those who have worked on themselves for longer have less tar and they radiate more of their inner light. Because of their personal history, others are covered with more tar and need a great deal of work to get free of it. . .

If we observe ourselves truthfully and non-judgmentally, seeing the mechanisms of our personality in action, we can wake up, and our lives can be a miraculous unfolding of beauty and joy.”
― Don Richard Riso, The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types

“Judgments are like a snowball. They stick to you. As time rolls along, the snowball becomes a boulder and then an avalanche.”
― John Kuypers, The Non-judgmental Christian: Five Lessons That Will Revolutionize Your Relationships

“A judgment with an evil design comes about when we compare a person to our pre-conceived beliefs about what is right or wrong and then condemn that person.”
― John Kuypers, The Non-judgmental Christian: Five Lessons That Will Revolutionize Your Relationships

“Love is not the answer, peace is. Throughout my whole life I have experienced and seen others use love as a reason to treat people with unkindness by being controlling, jealous, shouting in anger, and projecting guilt and shame.

If you love someone but there is not peace in your heart when you think of that person then your work is not done. Do not stop at love, continue all the way towards the freedom of inner peace.

Love starts when peace begins. Without peace love is simply a mask for our insecurity, judgment, and egoic attachments.”
― Alaric Hutchinson

“To celebrate someone else’s life, we need to find a way to look at it straight on, not from above with judgment or from below with envy.”
― Sharon Salzberg, Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection

“Just as the sun shines on every soul, let your light of compassion shine on everyone irrespective of who they are and what they believe.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign

“Never judge the others
for each one wears a cover
for their version of the original.

(talking about individuals in the stream of consciousness that gives rise to each one of us.)”
― Jay Woodman

“Keep your opinion to yourself unless it’s asked for.”
― Alaric Hutchinson, Living Peace: Essential Teachings For Enriching Life