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“I watch porn
Cause I'll never be in love”
― Dorothea Lasky, Rome: Poems

“La muerte se ha transformado en una especie de pornografía que se transmite en vivo por televisión. La masacre que en el pasado se difundía en forma de rumor, ahora se emite rápida y detalladamente vía satélite. Nadie se estremece viendo pornografía.”
― Kim Young-ha

“Imagination is all too often wasted on masturbation.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

“Gaining sexual skills is not the solution to the quest for “moreness.”
― Lebo Grand

“I'm in my room, consuming, cyber, and confused.
I don't remember the last time I made something
Besides blunts, cum, minimum wage, bad grades, a noose.
Sometimes I know I'm just twiddling my thumbs in front of a screen,
That the songs about the money make me fake feel rich too.
That the porn gets weirder, life gets shorter, and I eat shit stew.
That these unrealistic characters I play make me feel strong.
That I'm screaming at plastic that did nothing wrong.
That I'm hurting and escaping and yearning and breaking.
That underneath this hole, I may actually have some flair.
Sometimes I'd like to leave my room and go see what's out there.
Would you like to go with me?”
― Karl Kristian Flores, Can I Tell You Something?

“The salacious pictures lost context and daring, turning into contorted masses of flesh. If one couldn't escape a plague of breasts, if they swarmed, they ceased to be erogenous.”
― Thomm Quackenbush, Holidays with Bigfoot

“I don't have a type. I like any girl that likes me.”
― Asa Akira, Insatiable: Porn - A Love Story

“I’ve heard a lot of ladies say they want a guy who is good in bed (No, I don’t mean a guy who doesn’t snore), but I’m talking about a guy with sexual skills. I asked myself why skill is so important and the realization I came to was that it is proportional to sensuality. Essentially, skill predetermines the quality of both the journey and the destination, if you know what I mean.

Many people have a desire for MORE or to go DEEPER, but their biggest limitation is in the area of skill. This reminds me of a story I heard of a boy who was sitting by the piano trying to create some music. He became frustrated with himself as he couldn’t play, but the desire to play and create music was there burning strong within him. Someone saw him in a dejected spirit and asked why he was distressed. The boy replied, “I can feel music in me but when I try to play it on the piano, I can’t get my hands right.�

You see, there was a lot of sensual energy burning inside the boy, but his skill level was not proportional to that sensual energy. This confirms one of my usual sayings: when you know you were designed to be sensual, YOUR POTENTIAL HAUNTS YOU. And that’s the dilemma most people are facing in life and in their relationships today. Our sensuality is haunting us because it wants to fully express itself through our bodies, gifts and talents, but our skills are underdeveloped.

One guy asked me, so does it mean we should go out there and sleep with as many girls as possible so we can develop our sexual skills? I responded, “There’s a huge difference between gaining sexual skills and gaining sensual skills.� Most people are obsessed with gaining sexual skills. That’s why porn is a billion dollar industry. But porn, in my opinion, doesn’t teach sensuality, not even a little bit. If anything, it teaches anti-sensuality.

GAINING SEXUAL SKILLS IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO THE QUEST FOR “MORENESS.â€� (Read that again). Some people assume my business is sexual. It’s not. My business is sensual. I call people into a sensual space which is a far more exciting than any sexual skill they can ever acquire.”
― Lebo Grand

“Gaining sexual skills is not the solution to the quest for moreness.”
― Lebo Grand

“Some technologies have made it possible for one to travel to the other side of the world in order to see something, whereas some technologies have made that unnecessary: if it were not for things such as the camera and the internet, some African boys would have never seen a Chinese woman’s vagina.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana, F for Philosopher: A Collection of Funny Yet Profound Aphorisms

“Being in a public space with [Mark] Spiegler is simultaneously the best and worst. Because he's a porn agent, he's constantly on his phone yelling things like 'Your boy/girl scene tomorrow just became anal!' regardless of where we are.”
― Asa Akira, Dirty Thirty: A Memoir

“Complainers

Some people don't want to die
Because you can't complain when you're dead
I hope heaven is just a bunch of men lying around
Ready to do what I say
Ready with dicks and some such
When I'm dead I won't be looking for a partner
As much as a heavenly creature
After all I was promised virgins
But I don't care about that as much
As the eyes looking into me in abandon
Like porn but better
Because there will be no screen
There will be no holy divider then
Between me and my brethren
And the smell of sunshine
Will emit from every brow
That's the kind of thing I expect from death
That's the kind of thing I'm waiting for”
― Dorothea Lasky, Rome: Poems

“Godless forces are all around. You are literally living in "enemy-occupied territory." A plague of poisonous pornography abounds. It ensnares all who yield to its insidious grasp. This was foreseen by the Lord, who said, “And now I show unto you a mystery, a thing which is had in secret chambers, to bring to pass even your destruction in process of time, and ye knew it not.â€� He added a second warning: “And again, I say unto you that the enemy in the secret chambers seeketh your lives.â€� Consider how many people, in however many secret chambers, are seeking to destroy your life and happiness, right now! I plead with you precious brothers and sisters to shun pornography absolutely. It is as destructive as leprosy, as addictive as meth, and as corrosive as lye.”
― Russell M. Nelson, Accomplishing the Impossible: What God Does, What We Can Do

“While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage.â€� Avoid that bondage, my beloved friends. If you are currently viewing pornography, stop! Now! Seek help from your bishop. None are smart enough to outwit the adversary on their own, once they have been poisoned by pornography.”
― Russell M. Nelson, Accomplishing the Impossible: What God Does, What We Can Do

“Porn is like sex without orgasm, compulsive without being satisfying.”
― Clifford Thurlow, Cocaine Confidence

“Some people assume my business is sexual. It’s not. My business is sensual. I call people into a sensual space which is a far more exciting than any sexual skill they can ever acquire.”
― Lebo Grand

“Unfortunately, the majority of young people in the United States don't receive comprehensive sexuality education that includes information on pleasurable and fulfilling sexual relationships. We also live in a sex negative culture that includes a lot of oversexualization, sex stigma, and body shaming so there are few positive and pleasurable representations of sexuality for young people. Many young people are curious about sex and how it works. As a result many young people turn to the internet and end up looking at porn to figure it out. That's like watching the Fast and the Furious to learn how to drive. Porn is not a realistic representation of healthy, pleasurable, communicative, and responsible sex.”
― Shafia Zaloom, Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between: The New and Necessary Conversations Today's Teenagers Need to Have about Consent, Sexual Harassment, Healthy Relationships, Love, and More

“It is a well-documented fact that pornography as a separate category did not exist until the nine-tenth century, when lawmakers throughout Europe ostensibly sought to protect a predominantly white, middle-class female population from sexually explicit material and - by extension - knowledge of their own sexuality.”
― Annie Sprinkle, Hardcore from the Heart: The Pleasures, Profits and Politics of Sex in Performance

“Life is a seqenced porn.”
― Deyth Banger, Yup, Please Hate YourSelf

“Some twenty years after the end of the war with Japan a freighter arrived in Brooklyn with the largest collection of Japanese pornography ever assembled in a Western tongue. The owner of the collection, a huge, smiling fat man named Geraty, presented a passport to customs that showed he was a native-born American about as old as the century, an exile who had left the United States nearly four decades before. The collection contained all the pornographic works written in Japan during the last three hundred and fifty years, or since the time when Japan first closed itself to the West.”
― Edward Whittemore, Quin's Shanghai Circus

“The tiredness induced by a long walk expresses itself first in a trancelike state, where insidious, aggressive thoughts bubble up without your realizing it, then in mild hallucinations, before ending in euphoric confusion.

The hypochondriacal obsession. Once all protection is secured, it is from the inside that the body is overexposed to all assaults and disruptions. Against the disorders that ensue there is only the character armour, which does not even allow the signals from the body to show through.

Wariness of one's nearest and dearest, as though they were potential witnesses for the prosecution in your existence, evidence of guilt in a trial that is permanently suspended.

The panda that is having trouble reproducing: they show him porn films to rouse his libido.”
― Jean Baudrillard, Cool Memories V: 2000 - 2004

“Some technologies have made it possible for one to travel to the other side of the world in order to see something, whereas some have made that unnecessary: if it were not for things such as the camera and the Internet, some African boys would have never seen a Chinese woman’s vagina.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana, F for Philosopher: A Collection of Funny Yet Profound Aphorisms

“Most men think the most difficult part of being a porn star is having sex for so long without ejaculating. They’re right but for the wrong reason. It’s having sex for so long and then ejaculating that’s the problem. Porn becomes a job like any other pretty quick. Then it’s all about maintaining the erection and being ready to fire on command. It’s not easy, believe me.”
― Philip Elliott, Porno Valley

“Believe me, porn’s not easy. It’s not just screwing hot chicks. Especially when you’ve made a name for yourself. A lot’s expected of you, man. A lot. Sometimes for hours. You got all those crew members standing around expecting you to perform, waiting on you, wanting to get home to their wives or their kids or whatever but they can’t till you do what you gotta do. And it’s repetitive. There’s only so many ways to fuck somebody. And most of your co-workers become friends and you get to know them too well, to the point they irritate you, and there’s just no sexual chemistry most times—like I said, it’s a job—and you gotta psyche yourself up, like training for a marathon.”
― Philip Elliott, Porno Valley

“Everyone has an addiction they are suffering from.  The problem some don't see their addiction is bad , until is too late. Some end up thinking their addiction is their lifestyle or who they are. You can't break from addiction alone. You need help from others. Choose to reach out, before is too late .”
― De philosopher DJ Kyos

“When the person you rely on for support and survival shows themselves to be not what you expected, it can cut deep.”
― Tony Overbay, He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and A Former Addict Answer Your Questions

“Like other chronic diseases, addiction often involves cycles of relapse and remission. But there is help, and there is hope.”
― Tony Overbay, He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and A Former Addict Answer Your Questions

“The exact defining of the word "addiction" is largely a matter of semantics. If it's affecting your relationship negatively and you suspect it's an issue that needs to be dealt with, the labeling of "addiction" or "not addiction" becomes irrelevant. If it's negatively affecting your marriage, relationship, or family, it needs to be treated, whatever you want to call it.”
― Tony Overbay, He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and A Former Addict Answer Your Questions

“For every community of angsty kids who pretend they are secretly vampires, there are seven different forums of white nationalists who sincerely believe that Jewish people are secretly vampires. For every Kiki and silly toy collectors community, there are forums full of dudes collecting upskirt photos of random women and girls who had no idea that they were about to become porn.”
― Zoe Quinn, Crash Override: How Gamergate (Nearly) Destroyed My Life, and How We Can Win the Fight Against Online Hate

“Just like I said to Bill Clinton years ago: "drop the pan and plug in some porn, babe!" And then he hung up!”
― Jean Koning