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“To be white, or straight, or male, or middle class is to be simultaneously ubiquitious and invisible. You’re everywhere you look, you’re the standard against which everyone else is measured. You’re like water, like air. People will tell you they went to see a “woman doctorâ€� or they will say they went to see “the doctor.â€� People will tell you they have a “gay colleagueâ€� or they’ll tell you about a colleague. A white person will be happy to tell you about a “Black friend,â€� but when that same person simply mentions a “friend,â€� everyone will assume the person is white. Any college course that doesn’t have the word “womanâ€� or “gayâ€� or “minorityâ€� in its title is a course about men, heterosexuals, and white people. But we call those courses “literature,â€� “historyâ€� or “political science.â€�

This invisibility is political.”
― Michael S. Kimmel, Privilege: A Reader

“Leading people is like cooking
Don’t stir too much
It annoys the ingredients
And spoils the food”
― Rick Julian

“Failure is our greatest teacher
Blame blinds us to her lessons”
― Rick Julian

“First of all understand that I get it. That there are millions and millions of women who are steely eyed realists. And millions and millions of men who are anything but. However. For lack of a better term I would say that the feminine values are the values of america :

Sensitivity is more important than Truth. Feelings are more important than Facts. Commitment is more important than Individuality. Children are more important than People. Safety is more important than Fun.

I always hear women say 'Y'know married men live longer'.

Yes. And an indoor cat also, lives longer.”
― Bill Maher

“Love melts the hardest hearts
Enters between the cracks”
― Rick Julian

“Many things that can be measured, don't matter—many things that matter, can't be measured.”
― Rick Julian