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Memories of My Melancholy Whores by Gabriel García Márquez
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A Latin-American "Lolita" Lite or: Don't Let The Title Scare You (This Isn't A Dirty Old Man Book)

It’s been years since I've read anything by Gabriel García Márquez, and so this little book, while not as grand, sweeping or substantial as the works that earned him the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1982, came as a lovely, gentle surprise.

Reading it felt like catching up with a grizzled old friend who can tell a mean story. García Márquez’s seductive writing has a perfumed air of nostalgia and romance about it. Once sniffed, it's impossible to tear yourself away.

Take the book’s remarkable opening line:

“The year I turned ninety, I wanted to give myself the gift of a night of wild love with an adolescent virgin.�

The unnamed narrator isn’t as lecherous as he sounds. He’s “ugly, shy, and anachronistic,� a journalist who used to rewrite wire copy and now supplements his income by teaching Spanish lessons and penning a newspaper column. He never married (although he was once engaged), and doesn’t have any children. And, until now, he’s never been in love.

Yes, this is a story about a man who’s gone nearly a century without finding love. And now, old, wrinkled, his joints (and other things) creaky, he falls. With passion. And frustration. And jealousy. But absolutely no regrets.

The object of his love isn’t all that important in the book. She’s kept intentionally vague, often seen sleeping (she works at a factory sewing on buttons), her tired back usually turned to the narrator. We're not even told her real name, although the narrator calls her “Delgadina,� after the lyrics of a favourite song.

The fact is, the burst of energy the man gets from his (rather chaste) relationship with Delgadina suddenly gives his life meaning and purpose. His columns, many of them now about love, become famous in town; radio hosts read them to thousands of listeners. He gets the nickname “the maestro of love.� People recognize him on the streets.

García Márquez's powers of description are as strong as ever. The pacing is impeccable. Several characters � from the brothel madame, Rosa Cabarcas, to the narrator's hard-working, tireless maid � snap to life in a few sharp sentences and lines of dialogue. As a 90th birthday present, the old man is given an old cat, who pads his way through a few scenes without becoming too obvious a symbol. In one heartbreaking episode the narrator hooks up with an old sexual partner and instead of getting physical, they talk honestly about their lives and their age, which feels even more intimate than sex.

There's not one wasted word. García Márquez has distilled his art to its very essence. One caveat: If you're too young, you may not get as much out of this. You need to have chalked up some regrets. It's one of those "the unexamined life is not worth living" books.

Prepare to think about your own history of love. To be nostalgic for a time and place you never even knew. To laugh and weep over the surprises, joys and melancholic moments of a long, fully inhabited life.
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Reading Progress

May 12, 2015 – Started Reading
May 12, 2015 – Shelved
May 13, 2015 – Shelved as: not-usa-can-uk
May 13, 2015 – Shelved as: nobel-winners
May 13, 2015 – Finished Reading

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Glenn Sumi Seriously? I haven't read Garcia Marquez in years. What a writer. Weird, potentially offensive subject, but so gorgeously and humanely done.


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Cecily "It’s been years since I've read anything by Gabriel García Márquez"

Me too. I think when I've finished Borges, I'll return to Marquez. It seems appropriate.


Glenn Sumi It'll feel like reuniting with a long lost friend. I've had a copy of Borges's Collected Stories for years. Now that I've visited Buenos Aires, I must finally crack it open.


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Debbie Great review, but I can't get past the first line. Even if he isn't as bad as he sounds, I already hate him. I liked Marquez in the past, but can't remember any of his books!


Glenn Sumi Hi, Debbie. Yeah, I totally hear you. I went in thinking: Ick. GGM is aware of how we'll feel and he makes his narrator very likeable and human. Also, hard to articulate here, but there's something about his voice and the culture he's depicting that make it palatable. Certainly I'd have a different feeling from, say, an Updike protagonist in New York or Philadelphia. But I must admit I miss GGM's prose, even in translation. There are a couple I still haven't read, including his memoir. But do I remember details about 100 Yrs of Solitude? Not really.


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Debbie I really like books about aging, so if I could get past thinking he's a pig, I bet I'd even like the book. So many other books on my list, though!


Petra in Tokyo That was a lot better review than mine. Interesting reading.


Glenn Sumi Mummy wrote: "That was a lot better review than mine. Interesting reading."

Hi Mummy: I beg to differ. Your line about the blooming of the rose is perfection. And your description is much more accurate and efficient. You get right to the heart of how and why the novella works!


Petra in Tokyo That's nice of you, but actually your review is better, mine was too limited. Yours was of the book, mine was of the emotional elements. I didn't realise it until I read yours.


Petra in Tokyo btw I'm not your Mummy. Not unless you really really want me to be. We're friends, I'm Petra :-)


Glenn Sumi Ha! Thanks, Petra. I think we both agree that this book deserves to be read. ;)


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Debbie I loved both of your reviews!


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Cecily Debbie wrote: "Great review, but I can't get past the first line. Even if he isn't as bad as he sounds, I already hate him. I liked Marquez in the past, but can't remember any of his books!"

I know what you mean. There's a similarly troubling angle in Love in the Time of Cholera, regarding a old man and a very young girl.


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Debbie Yeah, it's hard to try something out when you know you're going into it with a bad attitude. Didn't read Love in the Tine of Cholera, and don't think I will. Old men and their fantasies about young girls is just not what I want to spend my time reading about. I do like books with old protagonists who talk about aging, but I'd do better with a non-pedophile old woman telling a story.


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Cecily Debbie wrote: "I do like books with old protagonists who talk about aging, but I'd do better with a non-pedophile old woman telling a story."

Have a look at Atwood's brilliant The Blind Assassin. It's a multi-layered story, framed by a feisty old woman, who poignantly describes the challenges of her aging body, as she tells the story of her life. (The other layers are compelling too, with the possible exception of a pap sci-fi serial, that won't be to everyone's taste.)


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Debbie Thanks for the add. Sounds right up my alley (except for the 'pap sci-fi' element, lol--I don't even know what it means!). I love Atwood! Recently read Stone Mattress: Nine Tales and really liked the stories.


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Paula Hagar Glenn - I like your review of this book far better than I liked the book itself!


Glenn Sumi Hehe! Thanks, Paula. I think it was a matter of reading the right book at the right time. I just adore GGM's writing.


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Greg Glenn, I'm with Paula, your review was better than the book.


Glenn Sumi Greg wrote: "Glenn, I'm with Paula, your review was better than the book."

Greg: Ouch! Thanks! Also: Your review? Ha! Well at least it was short! I still really like GGM's prose (although I get what you say about the passages you quote!). I need to go back and read some of his earlier books. No "burning assholes" there! :)


message 21: by g.m. (new) - rated it 1 star

g.m. kar He really is every bit the dirty old man the first sentence of the book suggests (and some worse things yet) and Lolita was intended by the author to show the delusions and deception of a pedophile to manipulate a child into an abusive relationship, even if most readers don't think of it that way, so you correctly draw a comparison between this and Lolita.


Glenn Sumi GM wrote: "He really is every bit the dirty old man the first sentence of the book suggests (and some worse things yet) and Lolita was intended by the author to show the delusions and deception of a pedophile..."

Thanks for the comment, GM. I still need to read Lolita. I don't know why I've been putting it off.


Vinicius Corbellini Couldn't write my feelings about this book better than this review. Thanks!


Glenn Sumi Vinicius: So sorry! I’m just seeing your lovely comment right now. Thank you for that!


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