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Memories of My Melancholy Whores
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May 01, 2009
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To enjoy this book you have to enter the mind and world of this old, old man, living the last years of his life in poverty in the once-grand, decaying house of his youth. His career never rose above second-rate reporter, he never married and never even fell in love. His personal relationships with women were limited to the whores he paid for. A most unfulfilled life.
But then, for a present for his 90th birthday, he gives himself a 14 year-old virgin, a would-be whore. Exhausted from menial labour and drugged-up with valerian by the brothel madame, she sleeps every night they spend together, her sleeping and he sitting on a chair next to her bed. and for the first time in his life he falls in love. In love with the idea of his sleeping beauty.
This is a poetic, sensual book that many reviewers, unable to see beyond their own ideas of fitness, have condemned as tawdry, a paean to pedophilia and just plain sick. But it isn't. It's the last flowering of a rose; touched by frost it should have died but instead is more glorious, more beautiful because it is so unseasonal, a real surprise. What it says about the nature of men's love for young beauty is age-old: look good, be quiet and demure, and let him be the dominant one, is taken to an extreme here. It worked for Snow White, it worked for the Sleeping Beauty and it works for Delgadina too.
Love changes everything. Despite his 90 years, the old, old man walks with a spring in his step, his head held high and smiling to the world. He has an epiphany, 'sex is the consolation one has for not finding enough love' and writes about love in his weekly columns in the local newspaper. This brings him the fame, respect and friendship he had craved all his life. In his 91st year, at last, he has found fulfillment.
Ultimately, Gabriel Garcia Marquez says through this book: Never Give Up.
Read May 1, 2009
Update I've been reading other reviews and it seems that people think this book is about paedophilia, some Lolita book. Nothing could be further from the truth. The whores and loveless sex without dreams or commitment didn't bring the old man happiness. Now, not having sex but just sitting beside a sleeping girl and dreaming and falling in love with the dream, has brought about a sea change. Pure love and romantic daydreams have made him happy and this happiness has seeped into every aspect of his lire, until, despite his years he walks with a spring in his step and a smile on his face and this happiness makes him a hero to all who see him.
This is a brilliant book. It is the last book, the final jewel inset into the crown that is the literature of GGM. Do not hold back because of what you've heard. Do not misinterpret and see what isn't there. This book is the musings of a life without much happiness, not sex, and the girl is no more molested than was Snow White resting in her glass case with only her beauty on show.
I wrote this update purely because both on GR and in my shop people "have heard" about this book and so don't think they want to read it. December 4th, 2016
But then, for a present for his 90th birthday, he gives himself a 14 year-old virgin, a would-be whore. Exhausted from menial labour and drugged-up with valerian by the brothel madame, she sleeps every night they spend together, her sleeping and he sitting on a chair next to her bed. and for the first time in his life he falls in love. In love with the idea of his sleeping beauty.
This is a poetic, sensual book that many reviewers, unable to see beyond their own ideas of fitness, have condemned as tawdry, a paean to pedophilia and just plain sick. But it isn't. It's the last flowering of a rose; touched by frost it should have died but instead is more glorious, more beautiful because it is so unseasonal, a real surprise. What it says about the nature of men's love for young beauty is age-old: look good, be quiet and demure, and let him be the dominant one, is taken to an extreme here. It worked for Snow White, it worked for the Sleeping Beauty and it works for Delgadina too.
Love changes everything. Despite his 90 years, the old, old man walks with a spring in his step, his head held high and smiling to the world. He has an epiphany, 'sex is the consolation one has for not finding enough love' and writes about love in his weekly columns in the local newspaper. This brings him the fame, respect and friendship he had craved all his life. In his 91st year, at last, he has found fulfillment.
Ultimately, Gabriel Garcia Marquez says through this book: Never Give Up.
Read May 1, 2009
Update I've been reading other reviews and it seems that people think this book is about paedophilia, some Lolita book. Nothing could be further from the truth. The whores and loveless sex without dreams or commitment didn't bring the old man happiness. Now, not having sex but just sitting beside a sleeping girl and dreaming and falling in love with the dream, has brought about a sea change. Pure love and romantic daydreams have made him happy and this happiness has seeped into every aspect of his lire, until, despite his years he walks with a spring in his step and a smile on his face and this happiness makes him a hero to all who see him.
This is a brilliant book. It is the last book, the final jewel inset into the crown that is the literature of GGM. Do not hold back because of what you've heard. Do not misinterpret and see what isn't there. This book is the musings of a life without much happiness, not sex, and the girl is no more molested than was Snow White resting in her glass case with only her beauty on show.
I wrote this update purely because both on GR and in my shop people "have heard" about this book and so don't think they want to read it. December 4th, 2016
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The last flowering of the [old] rose, within the context of a concern about whether he deflowered the [young] rose or rosebud.
Two extremes in the life of a rose.
Then the fact that his career never "rose" above second-rate reporter!
["Je vois la vie en rose": I see life in rosy hues]

The last flowering of the [old] rose, within the context of a concern about whether he deflowered the [young] rose or rosebud.
Two extremes in the life of a rose.
Then t..."
I would love to claim I had the depth of vision in my rose reference that you did in your comment but I didn't :-( He never did deflower in the book, he just sat by her bed and dreamed while she slept. He wasn't that pervy and anyway at his advanced age it was probably beyond him anyway (which might have been one of the rasons why the author decided not to put him to the test!)

I have since read "Ulysses" and roses play a big part in it as well.

Ulysses 'suffered' a horrid accident when I was reading it, so apart from the bunch of flowers I don't know what more part roses played in it.

Ulysses'suffered' a horrid accident when I was reading it, so apart from the bunch of flowers I don't know what more part roses played in it."
I used to be, though nobody invites me to dinner parties any more.
I thought they died out in the 80's or post-kids.
I made a bunch of references to roses and flowers in my review:
http://www.goodreads.com/story/show/2...

If you live on a very small island, dinner parties are de rigeur for any kind of social life. Come to think of it, I don't actually have a social life, I have Å·±¦ÓéÀÖ :-)

Anyway, you make a great point in the review of "Melancholy Whores": "To enjoy this book you have to enter the mind and world of this old, old man..."
I think it applies equally to James Joyce, not to mention my reviews.
I love the fact that you live on two little islands, the other being England.
Goodreaders should have more dinner parties together.

;-)


See, the thing that appealed to me about your predicament was the irony that "The Odyssey" was a "logbook" of Odysseus' travels across the waters of the Aegean Sea, whereas your copy of "Ulysses" might have descended into the waters of your bathtub and become a "waterlogged" book.
It took me a little while to realise this, and a little while longer to write it, but I wasn't prepared to get out of bed.
I still feel that I'm missing a joke about "waterlogged" though.
I hate it when I sail right past and miss the point.

I understand why you enjoyed Ulysses so much though. You don't miss a beat, you must have caught every literary reference.

Hopefully, we can just laugh about this exchange over dinner one day. On one of our islands.

Hopefully, we can just laugh about this exchange over dinner one day. On one of our islands."
I've just seen this.
Yes. One day.








I think the trick is to allow yourself to get into the mind of the old man and not to see things from a modern Western perspective.
And that comment too. :-)
Even though i haven't read this volume, that comment from you is a true piece of wisdom, which is applicable to a whole lot of books; especially for books from an entirely different era.




Read many of his earlier works but never this one. I should make a point to read it soon.
Thanks for review Petra, really enjoyed it...


If you are going to write about love, then there are always going to be commonalities and synchronicities. I don't really see that the two books are related. However others might and some librarian might take it upon themselves to turn it into a series (as they have so many other books unrelated except that they are by the same author on the same theme and authors do tend to have favourite themes).

I've read Love in the Time of Cholera, but am basing my impressions of ...Whores only on your review. Commonalities to me would be,
1. a message celebrating and standing up for the legitimacy of finding love in old age
2. a lifetime of lots of sex without committed love for the sexual partners, even if appreciating them sincerely
3. an old man having a romantic relationship with a girl (without sex)
You sum up the meaning of ...Whores as "Never Give Up." I see Love in the Time of Cholera partly as a meditation on and affirmation of living life fully in old age. Those do seem like common themes to me.
But because to you the books seem unrelated, I'm guessing you draw a different central meaning from Love in the Time of Cholera?

Love in the Time of Cholera is a man who never stopped loving and longing for his first love a real woman, no matter what time went by. My Melancholy Whores is a man who never experienced love or even wanted it, and in extreme old age finally falls in love, but with an idea, and that's good enough for him.
Authors, like artists, often have preoccupations that they draw upon for their work. They aren't always even conscious of them.

I don't know how good this book yet, but the summary and your review made me want to read this book and write a review myself.
