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The Story of the Lost Child by Elena Ferrante
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it was amazing
bookshelves: faves, italy, 21st-century

I’ve never read a series before. Finally I understand why people sleep outside bookstores the day before the next instalment is due to be published. Were there to be a book five I might well zipper myself inside a bag outside Feltrinelli the night before release. Except there will be no next instalment here. I’m done. Lila has left my life and I will never know anything more about her. I feel horribly bereft.

Book Four has less of a feel of fictional memoir about it; it reads more like a novel. It contains some clever post-modernist tricks, most notably the book within a book theme. Elena Greco finally writes about Lila, except it isn’t these books (these books play no part whatsoever in her story); it’s a seventy page novella called Friendship. Meanwhile she has the suspicion that Lila is writing secretly about Naples. In spirit, these have always been Lila’s books. Now Elena lets slip the possibility that maybe they really are Lila’s books. Vanity is probably the central theme of this book but authorship is also a prevailing theme. Ferrante asks many probing questions about the nature of authorship. And we end up asking, who is the author of the Neapolitan series?

Elena becomes rather more disagreeable in this book. She becomes vain and a bit petty. Especially in contrast to Lila, who seems to live without any recourse to vanity, which is why perhaps she’s such a compelling and deeply fascinating character. The only other author I can recall who attempted to create a character free of vanity was Dostoevsky with The Idiot and, brilliant as that was, I'd have to say Ferrante did a better job than he did. It began to bother me how disagreeable I was finding Elena and her vanity. I wasn’t at all sure this was what Ferrante intended. Then I realised that what Ferrante intended was probably exactly the confusion I was feeling. This isn’t one of those run of the mill novels where every character is morally and emotionally consistent and so has a clearly designated and manipulative charge and endgame. It’s a novel that constantly springs surprises, that constantly makes you stop and question lazy emotional and moral assumptions you realise you harbour. One thing Ferrante does so well is get at the anatomy of every strong emotion. Emotions aren’t single and straightforward. Every emotion carries the charge of its opposite. Emotion in fact is often us arguing with ourselves. She shows how hate can be simultaneously present with love, jealousy with aspiration, admiration with resentment, conviction with doubt. I don't think any writer has done arguing better than Ferrante. You could say the books are one protracted argument � everyone is constantly arguing, romantically, domestically, politically, socially - and you come to realise that this what life is, a long protracted messy argument. Lila is almost like some magical touchstone creature. Even when she appears to be wrong she turns out to be right. I don’t think she’s wrong once in the entire novel and yet she’s far from some simplistic Obi Wan Kenobi; she’s hugely complex, volatile, divisive, contradictory, spontaneous, calculated, adorable, obnoxious. She bristles with lived life on every page. In contrast, the more of Elena’s vanity we see the more we doubt that Elena Greco could have written these novels. You begin to feel only Lila could have.

For me Lila is up there with Anna Karenina, Molly Bloom and Mrs Ramsey as one of the great female characters of literature. No question in my mind Ferrante will be on the classics shelf in two hundred years.
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Reading Progress

September 9, 2015 – Shelved
September 9, 2015 – Shelved as: to-read
October 19, 2016 – Started Reading
October 29, 2016 – Finished Reading
October 30, 2016 – Shelved as: faves
October 30, 2016 – Shelved as: italy
October 30, 2016 – Shelved as: 21st-century

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Karen Fantastic review Violet! I loved this series! Lila really was a great character, I never really knew if she was really right about things or if she had a jealousy of Elena.. and, yes, she was always right.


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Fionnuala I'll be on the lookout in two hundred years time to see if you were right, Violet ;-)


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Dianne Great review, Violet! I can't wait to read these.


Violet wells Karen wrote: "Fantastic review Violet! I loved this series! Lila really was a great character, I never really knew if she was really right about things or if she had a jealousy of Elena.. and, yes, she was alway..."

Thanks Karen. I think Ferrante was brilliant at exposing the emotions we feel but don't like to admit. Jealousy of a friend's success was certainly one of these. However I always felt Elena was much more jealous of Lila. And that this jealousy became the energy of her driving ambition. The jealousy turned out to be a positive force in many ways.


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Violet wells Fionnuala wrote: "I'll be on the lookout in two hundred years time to see if you were right, Violet ;-)"

Good luck with that! It fascinates me that you are one of the most intelligent and eloquent people I know here and yet you couldn't articulate why you didn't like Ferrante. I'm very interested how Ferrante could leave anyone cold. I read a negative review of this last night and it was completely incoherent. The overriding idea seemed to be that if you dig deeper these books are little more than commercial melodrama. In other words it was a kind of trite commercial for his superiority as an in depth reader over all us commoners. I'm really curious what an intelligent eloquent negative review of this would focus on as its flaws.


Violet wells Dianne wrote: "Great review, Violet! I can't wait to read these."

Thanks Dianne. Elyse articulates the experience perfectly - they take you into a burrow. Utterly engrossing.


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Lisa Wonderful, Violet! I really need to get started on this series soon. It has been on my mind for ages, and you make a perfect case for it!


Violet wells Elyse wrote: "Violet -- I loved reading your thoughts about Lila ...
I really did feel like I was living in a cave when I read these books.
I never used that phrase ( going into my reading cave) -- BEFORE this s..."


I think tree house rather than cave! They give you the feeling of being up high where there's an enlightening view of life. Second one was probably my favourite. Perhaps partly because they're my age but also you finally understand what all the fuss is about. I really enjoyed Book One but it didn't have me rushing out to buy the second.


Violet wells Lisa wrote: "Wonderful, Violet! I really need to get started on this series soon. It has been on my mind for ages, and you make a perfect case for it!"

Thanks Lisa. My advice is to read book two immediately after Book One even if you don't quite feel the love for the first one. It's Book two that turns you into an addict.


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Canadian Jen Nice review! A good series can be like coming home with characters. Love them. I need to get to this one.


Violet wells Thanks Jen. It was horrid finishing this, a bit like finishing university!


Connie (on semi-hiatus) G Great review, Violet! After reading your review, I'll have to go out and get book two soon.


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Melanie I am looking forward to starting this series! Nice review Violet.


Violet wells Connie wrote: "Great review, Violet! After reading your review, I'll have to go out and get book two soon."

Thanks Connie. Book One wasn't really addictive but once you're half way through Book two you know you'll read the other two in quick succession.


Violet wells Melanie wrote: "I am looking forward to starting this series! Nice review Violet."

Thanks Melanie. I envy you! Wish I still had them to start.


Jeanette You could say the books are one protracted argument � everyone is constantly arguing, romantically, domestically, politically, socially - and you come to realise that this what life is, a long protracted messy argument."
This is how Southern Italy and Sicilian exchange sounds, as well. Do I know it. It is completely effusive. More is more is more. And so is the body language that goes with it.


Violet wells You wrote a great response to the guy who thought these books were little more than an interminable cycle of melodrama, Jeanette. I can see how some men would find her books difficult, the kind of men perhaps who like a quiet life, who never want a fuss, but his attempt to objectify and intellectualise his difficulty didn't cut any mustard for me.


Jeanette Violet, that's exactly why I can't stomach books like "Stoner" that everyone else seems to dote on. For me, less is less is less. LOL!


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Fionnuala Violet wrote: "Good luck with that! It fascinates me that you are one of the most intelligent and eloquent people I know here and yet you couldn't articulate why you didn't like Ferrante. I'm very interested how Ferrante could leave anyone cold..."

But Ferrante didn't leave me cold in The Days of Abandonment, Violet - that book was full of angry passion, and I really enjoyed it.
I know from your excellent reviews that I need to read the second book of the Naples series before abandoning Elena and Lila completely, and I fully intend to, and the rest of the books too, especially now that you've told us that the fourth book creates confusion as to who might be the real author of the books within the books - I love that kind of playfulness on the part of the author.
I wish I'd been able to articulate why I couldn't write anything about the first book but I did really think that the very fact that I had nothing to say was significant.
I'll get back to you when I read more.


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Fionnuala Jeanette wrote: "Violet, that's exactly why I can't stomach books like "Stoner" that everyone else seems to dote on. For me, less is less is less. LOL!"

Here's someone who couldn't stomach Stoner either, Jeanette :-)


message 21: by Jeanette (last edited Oct 30, 2016 01:55PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Jeanette Fionnuala, I thought I was the only one.

The reason you may have felt as you did after Book 1 with Ferrrante, may easily be that they are SO dense that it is confusing. Especially with all the men's names and family/neighborhood connections. There is a crux of Southern Italian "town" life that truly is hard to translate, IMHO. What people say is not at all what they may mean. Patriarchy is/was even more- in ALL. Every structure and context of connection has 4 or 5 different legs of meaning. People who have never experienced that kind of judgmental intensity (on top of the mob nuance that is always there too)- they, IMHO, have a harder time. No road map. And these books have many different families involved. Some readers try to compare it to small time rural living in the USA Kentucky or TN mountain areas- with the clan feuds. It's not similar. This is a land that has been invaded and ruled by foreign powers dozens of times and for millennia. People don't trust enough to register cars, phones, births- and all is for sale or through connection. Government is generally the enemy all around. It's not an easy context- and especially not in the youth time of Lila.


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Cheryl I enjoyed reading your beautiful portrait of Lila, Violet. I'm not sure which character I'd like better, but I certainly look forward to starting this series. So far, the only Ferrante I've tried and loved was The Days of Abandonment.


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Rae Meadows Violet, I love your review. A thousand times yes! I also put Lila in with the greats, Mrs. Ramsey being one of them. This was my first series as well and I thought this book was not only the best, but the perfect fourth piece.


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Praveen Beautiful Review !


Violet wells Fionnuala wrote: "Violet wrote: "Good luck with that! It fascinates me that you are one of the most intelligent and eloquent people I know here and yet you couldn't articulate why you didn't like Ferrante. I'm very ..."

Yep, I remember you loved Days of Abandonment, Fi. I meant My Brilliant Friend. I think what Jeanette says is very true. There's a deluge of characters and a lot of scene setting in that first book. She doesn't actually add that many characters in the subsequent books. I really liked it but I didn't quite understand what all the fuss was about. It took me more than a year to get round to Book Two. That's when I began to feel the love. The author within the author and the books within books theme really becomes compelling in this fourth book. She's playing so many games with the reader. The book ends up asking who is Elena Ferrante so it's no surprise the challenge of finding out was taken up, except they went looking for a literal answer to what is essentially a metaphysical question. I really hope you do get round to reading them.


Violet wells Cheryl wrote: "I enjoyed reading your beautiful portrait of Lila, Violet. I'm not sure which character I'd like better, but I certainly look forward to starting this series. So far, the only Ferrante I've tried a..."

Thanks Cheryl. I've still got Days of Abandonment to look forward to.


Violet wells Rae wrote: "Violet, I love your review. A thousand times yes! I also put Lila in with the greats, Mrs. Ramsey being one of them. This was my first series as well and I thought this book was not only the best, ..."

Thanks Rae. I've got a feeling every character I read about for a while will seem like pasteboard or puppet compared to Lila!


Violet wells Praveen wrote: "Beautiful Review !"

Thanks Praveen.


Violet wells Thanks Marita. Are you back from your travels? Hope you had a fabulous time.


Violet wells "One of the most startling illusions with Ferrante, novel to novel, is the sense of being admitted to the deeply private thoughts of her narrators. But for women, private writing can be considered noncanonical behavior—silly, tragic, self­-indulgent. Ferrante is not a diarist, and her stated desire to remove herself from that kind of condescension is one of Frantumaglia’s openly stated themes."

Good article about Ferrante's new book of autobiographical essays -


Jeanette Interesting link, Violet. Thanks.

Southern Italian cultural girlhood, especially in the times of these novels, and perhaps even now- it's far, far harder to develop a separate female self-identity than people outside that culture (maybe some Asian cultures would compare) can grasp, IMHO.

And it's possible, but I find that "disappearance" aspect mentioned here in that link- that occurred in my own Sicilian extended family. My girl cousins (3 years older, 5 years older) became Matriarchal of large, large families and then "disappeared" for most connection to their siblings and other relations. They are 100% of this culture. So it translated even after an early 20th century migration. I was extremely fortunate in having a German grandmother who lived to 99 and in close contact- as she was quiet but mighty. Another completely different kind of authority that didn't need to shout and act out for female power.

But not about me and more important- do you think she could be 1/2 German? Or only in Naples for that short of a time in her youth? Elena always struck me as a goodly part non-Napolitana. Now I'm really wondering after reading that piece. It little matters to the depth of these books, but for me, it could explain the "inside her own difference looking out" aspect of Elena. Which I noticed more and more as these books progressed.


Violet wells Jeanette wrote: "Interesting link, Violet. Thanks.

Southern Italian cultural girlhood, especially in the times of these novels, and perhaps even now- it's far, far harder to develop a separate female self-identity..."


According to the new discovery her mother was a German Jew and fled to Italy from the Nazis, Jeanette. And yep, she only lived in Naples for a short time so that's some brilliant sleuth work on your part!


Violet wells Great news. Glad you had a fabulous trip, Marita and welcome back!


Kathy Adams I'm also sad to finish this series.


Violet wells Kathy wrote: "I'm also sad to finish this series."

There's always the consolation that in ten years one can read it again!


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Julie G Wow! So, what's the secret to getting book #1 to pull me in??


Mayela I love how we can all read the same novel and get different things out of it. To me, it is clear that Elena writes the Neapolitan novels, since they're imbued with an awkwardness, a self-reflection that Lila never showed. But it is also clear she would have never, ever written them, or much of her work, without Lila. They're in a complex, symbiotic sort of relationship.


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Rett Wonderful review. I, too thought at the end that Lila had written the quartet. Elena does hint at this in the last page of the epilogue. but also, see the last page of the story. "I must resign myself to not seeing her anymore." could have been written by either character. Also, the first book is titled, "My Brilliant Friend", The brilliant friend is Elena. Another clue is the false identity of the author. Elena Ferrante is, in fact, someone else. Lila's character is drawn simply, with declarative thoughts and emotions. Elena is extremely conflicted, passive, yet successful. More like the fictional character rather than the real narrator. There is an unresolved scene in the quartet for me: The beginning of the first book. I don't have the copy in front of me but it is Rino asking where his mother is and Elena asking him to stop calling her. What does that mean?
Overall, I haven't read anything as real, honest as these books. Bravo, Elena Ferrante, whoever you are!


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Rett I just read Laimark's comment that lina nd lenu are the same names which opens the possibility that Ferrante is writing abut one person and about the varieties of a person't personality.
It's fun to think what the novels mean from the three possible viewpoints: Lena as narrator, Lila as narrator, or both as the same person. The emotional and insight hits come from different dirctions.


Celina Not sure you will see this, but I just finished book four and am not sure what to make of the last line. (BTW, I also think we are meant to consider the possibility that it is Lila's book; indeed, it is only her who uses the phrase, "My Brilliant Friend" at it is in reference to Elena.


Nitin Vaidya Brilliant review Violet! Well done! I just finished the whole quartet and I must say Ferrante is simply unbelievable!


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