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The End of the Affair by Graham Greene
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I am not only committing to the five stars for this review, I wish I could give it more. To say it deserves it would be rather an understatement. Reading the book was actually one of those physically memorable experiences: curling up in a ball with it, crouched over it reading behind piles of work I should have been doing, completely zoning out the world around me until it was forced to my attention, not to mention the actual physical pain I felt at the beauty of some of the language employed. Greene's writing here is just absolutely astounding. I cannot emphasize that enough. It is an obsessive love he writes of, obstensibly. That's what the back cover and the short summaries would have us believe that this book is about. But that is not all this book is about. Not even close.

Greene writes about hatred, the nature of belief, the nature of God and what it means to believe in Him, the physical and emotional experience of love, the effects that that love can have on our lives.... and blends it all together so that we see that none of those things can be seperated. This is one of three novels in his "Catholic" trilogy, and the love of and need for God is as intrinsic as the love and need for our soulmates in life. Everything in the end is about God, but through love and hate and the deepest emotions that can be written out from our core. Greene manages to convey emotions and ways of thinking about life and love that we have all felt, but in such a beautifully done way perhaps we could never quite express what it meant ourselves. There were phrases in the book that brought back vivid, intense flashes out of my own experiences, little poignant moments that exactly fit just some random little sentence inserted into a two page rant. That happened over and over again. If I did such things to my books, I would have paragraphs highlighted on every page.

Many times during the book a sort of stream of consciousness is evident in the narration where it is unclear whether the narrator is expressing his thoughts or those of his lover's, whether his thoughts are now or in the past, or whether he can really tell himself which it is. I found that device to be very powerful, showing the effect that even the memory of great events can have upon us, and how visceral the feelings can be even all these years later. Greene is also not afraid to lay his characters bare, perhaps get them on our bad side, to show them in all their ugliness and pettiness- which makes them all the more real. It is how we all act in love and in times of desperation and need. This was so much better done than Heart of the Matter, where I think Greene really tries to keep the reader at more of a distance. That was a mistake. /This/ is a book that gets one thinking about God and love and what it's all about. One has to get at the reader's core before such basic beliefs can really be brought out to be questioned and beaten. And the author won't do that without first going there himself through his characters and his deeply felt, naked writing.

Anyway... possibly the best treatise on love and God I've ever read, and certainly the one that will stay with me the longest. Those were just some random thoughts that came to me upon finishing it, but I hope it is enough that someone else will read it. It's an experience that everyone should have.
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May 26, 2007 – Shelved
Started Reading
March 1, 2008 – Finished Reading
March 22, 2008 – Shelved as: favorites
March 22, 2008 – Shelved as: fiction
July 22, 2008 – Shelved as: brit-lit
June 1, 2009 – Shelved as: always-on-my-mind
July 29, 2009 – Shelved as: worlds-lost-dead-and-dying
January 12, 2010 – Shelved as: give-me-seven-years
January 16, 2010 – Shelved as: 20th-century-postwar-to-late
October 21, 2011 – Shelved as: grand-opera
May 4, 2014 – Shelved as: melancholia

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message 1: by else (new)

else fine Another one I couldn't finish. I think this one was the fault of my poor attention span rather than anything about the book itself.


Kelly Well, each their own taste and all that. I'm absolutely loving it so far. If I did such things I'd be highlighting a paragraph on practically every page.


brian   great review kelly.

i'm a black-hearted god-hating son of a bitch and the End of the Affair is one of the few books that actually had me crying like a little girl.

Heart of the Matter is just as good. read it next.


Kelly Yeah, I was also crying like a little girl... but then again, I am a rather little girl, so perhaps this is less impressive. It was unbelievable writing. I really didn't think that Graham Greene could get to me in this way. And it is because of Heart of the Matter. I have actually read it already (I posted a review of it with what I thought a few months ago) and while I thought the writing was stellar, it just kept me at a distance and I didn't believe the characters like I did here.


Conrad Yes, well done. I wish I could read it for the first time all over again - those last lines in particular are just devastating. This is going on my queue now...


message 6: by Kelly (last edited Mar 22, 2008 01:32PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Conrad- I sort of had that reaction even on the first read through. I regretted reading the words in the sense that the experience of feeling this enthralled was slowly slipping away. I actually delayed turning the last page for a few minutes just to prolong the pleasure of having more of it to read.

Tracy- yes, I did! You got me there. :)


message 7: by Taylor (new)

Taylor yeah, I'm not sure how I feel about this whole God tie-in business, either.


message 8: by Ben (last edited Apr 28, 2009 01:02PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Ben Great review. I'm currently reading this and I keep finding myself transfixed in a whirlwind of emotion... nothing short of amazing so far.


Kelly Thanks, for the positive comment, and yes, as you see, I definitely had a similiar experience. I'll look forward to seeing your review.


Jessica wow. you make me want to get this book and read it. right now.


Jesse Does this serve as a good introduction to Greene?


Eric_W Great review, Kelly. I am embarrassed that this is one Greene I have yet to read. Your review has now made that a necessity. Thanks.


message 13: by John (new)

John Kelly, fine job. Myself, for what it's worth, I put THE POWER & THE GLORY up at the top of the Greene pile -- but this one matches it, in many ways.


message 14: by Kelly (last edited Apr 29, 2009 07:29AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kelly Thank you everyone for all your positive comments on this review, I really appreciate it! Nothing better for a fellow book-lover than inspiring someone to read something!

As for this being a good introduction to Greene, Jesse- I believe it is in terms of displaying to the fullest degree the themes and ideas that he's obsessed with, and because, well, it is far and away the best of his that I've read. However, some people do find the very prominent place of God and Catholicism in this book to be less relatable than others (I've heard this perception, I myself do not find it so at all, and please don't let that put you off, I really think concentrating on only that element of it makes people miss so much!). However, if this is a problem for you, I would say to read Brighton Rock. That one is the most accessible of the three novels that I've read of Greene's work in that his passions are not hung out in the open (though they are still there) and it can be enjoyed as simply a twisted, darkly comic pulp novel.

I haven't read Power & the Glory (though I do plan to!), but I would be amazed if anything else Greene wrote could be as memorable or as impactful an experience as this work is. If so, well, damn, I'll be in even more awe of Greene than I was before.


Barb H Lovely, well thought-out review, Kelly. You make me want to reread this after many years. As you have said, the religious part of it was less relatable to me, but I think I would see other things that you have so adeptly mentioned!


message 16: by Kenneth P. (last edited Oct 30, 2015 07:11PM) (new) - rated it 2 stars

Kenneth P. Here I am commenting on your review 4 years after the fact. It's a very good review, especially when you delve into the narration and how the thoughts of the two lovers become intertwined. I enjoyed your review. You may be wrong, however, when you include this in Greene's so-called "Catholic Trilogy." It would seem that "Heart of the Matter" was the third book.


Kelly Well thanks for the nice compliment. Re, the Catholic trilogy: I did think that Heart of the Matter was included in it. My impression was it was that End of the Affair, Heart of the Matter and Power and the Glory that formed what's often referred to as the "Catholic trilogy". No? I mean, it isn't a formal "trilogy" as such so I'm sure there are varying categorizations, but...


Kenneth P. Thanks for responding Kelly. Here's my understanding of the trilogy: Brighton Rock, Power n the Glory, Heart of the matter. Not a big deal. While I loved Brighton and PnG (5 stars each), I'm a bit disappointed (25 pages to go) with the heavy-handed treatment of the religious theme in "Affair."

FWIW there is an upcoming book discussion (12/01/12) on "Our Man in Havana" in the group Constant Reader. It would be nice to have you, if not for this discussion, then as a CR member.


message 19: by Matt (new) - rated it 4 stars

Matt Great review. Honestly, sometimes you write out exactly what I've wanted to say about the same books but never quite get on paper (or pixel). The moments when a long-dead author somehow explains something you've thought or felt precisely in the way that you've thought it or felt it...it's uncanny. Bravo.


Kelly Thanks! I've revisited this review a few times and thought about deleting most of the copious adjectives, adverbs and other exaggerated forms of emphasis I use to describe what goes on here. But then I never do it, because over four years later, I still remember how reading this book felt. That's pretty rare, and deserves all the superlatives it can get.


message 21: by Matt (new) - rated it 4 stars

Matt Go pro!


Kelly Ha! Hardly, but thanks for the vote of confidence. I hope you enjoy reading some Greene if that's in your plans!


message 23: by Matt (new) - rated it 4 stars

Matt I just started The Power and The Glory, but it wasn't connecting with me like it should so I switched to something else....


Kelly I haven't read that one so I'm sad to hear a bad report of it! I hope you'll try another Greene another time!


Jessica I also couldn't connect (strongly) with The Power and the Glory, though it's been many years since I've read it. But I recommend any (and all of these): A Burnt-Out Case, The Comedians, The Honorary Counsel, The Heart of the Matter, The Quiet American, Brighton Rock...


message 26: by Billy (new)

Billy O'Callaghan This is a terrific review, Kelly. I'm a big admirer of Greene's, and this is my favourite of his books. It's one of those that makes a deep impression, in some strange, visceral way, so that readers can actually remember (as you say so well, in your first paragraph) the physical act of reading it. Now I want to go and read it again!


Kelly I still remember the feeling of reading it, all these years later! Amazing!


Christopher One of my top favorites. Beautiful book.


Kelly Me too! I am due for a re-read. I hope it will hold up!


message 30: by Kenneth P. (last edited Oct 30, 2015 07:20PM) (new) - rated it 2 stars

Kenneth P. The Power and the Glory is great Mexican history. It harkens to a time when the Catholic Church was banned in that country. It's a fine novel that draws attention to Greene's faith while emphasizing the consequences of the Church's crimes in Mexico. He was committed to both Catholicism and Marxism. There were no cheap shots in The Power and the Glory. I wish I could say the same for End of the Affair which takes numerous cheap shots.
Here's my take:

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Perry Tremendous review of this novel. Thoughtful and tantalizing.


Kelly Thanks, it's a great book!


Julie G Hi Kelly,
I see you wrote this review a few years back, but I still wanted to comment. I love this book, and I feel protective of it. When others "get" this book, I feel joyful and relieved. I just wanted to reach out and say thank you for "getting" it, too!


Kelly One of the best things about a site like this, and one of the reasons I'm still here! I love connecting with passionate book lovers- thanks for commenting. :)


Roger Brunyate What a brilliant review! I鈥檝e just started a re-read of the book after a gap of a decade, and already I鈥檓 in awe. But I can well recognize the truth of everything that you say, and admire how very, very well you say it. We鈥檙e 鈥渇riends,鈥� aren鈥檛 we? I certainly hope so! Roger.


Kelly Thanks much!! I love this book as well- I鈥檓 glad your re-read held up because I鈥檝e been afraid to re-read it for that reason. I don鈥檛 know if we are bookfriends, but feel free to friend me if not.


Roger Brunyate Yes, it appears we already are!


Kelly Excellent! Happy reading!


message 39: by J.C. (new) - rated it 4 stars

J.C. I love the review, Kelly. I can't
read - then it's always a treat to read yours.
Like you, I zoned out when re-reading this the other night. Powerful, evocative, challenging from the pen of a master - the lot.


Michelle Angelle Agree.


Kelly I picked up a couple of Greenes I haven鈥檛 read yet at the used bookstore- looking forward to diving in.


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