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milk and honey by Rupi Kaur
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***UNPOPULAR OPINION TIME LOL***



I'm honestly surprised by how popular this book is because not only is it over-hyped, it's just not a very good book at all, in my opinion. The poetry is so cloying and pretentious - just enough "unique" enough to be "special" but vague enough to be relatable. If I had to describe the style, I'd say it's a cross between fortune cookie messages & those weird 3AM posts that one weird friend you have on Facebook loves to post that are always a) calling someone out, b) posting about personal drama, or c) writing weird inspirational stuff inspired by their mood board on Pinterest.



(YOU KNOW WHICH FRIEND I'M TALKING ABOUT. WE ALL HAVE THAT WEIRD 3AM POST FRIEND.)



THE PRINCESS SAVES HERSELF IN THIS ONE is written in a very similar style to this, and I reluctantly gave that book 3 stars because it felt genuine, and maybe even authentic, even if it was written in a style that I didn't like and felt juvenile. MILK AND HONEY, I'm sure, comes from authentic emotions and experiences as well, and while I can appreciate someone wanting to share those experiences and use poetry to heal, I, as a reader, am in no way obligated to like said poetry just because the intent behind it was important. If "intent" was enough to get five stars, the star rating system would be pointless, because I'm pretty sure most writers publish their books with the intent of success and acclaim.



MILK AND HONEY comes across as pretentious and unpolished - a dichotomy that should not be possible, and yet, in MILK AND HONEY, it is. The book also features some incredibly gross metaphors like "the goddess between your legs / makes mouths water" and "the very thought of you / has my legs spread apart / like an easel with a canvas / begging for art." Ughhhh, noooo. I can only imagine that the popularity from this poetry comes from accessibility and the format that seems so easy to copy that any young aspiring poet probably takes one look and goes, "oh, if this dreck can be published, maybe my dreck can be published, too!" The drawings are no better, ugly even, and look like napkin scribbles rather than actual art.



I didn't like this at all. Everything in it has been said before. I could write a longer review ranting more about taste, expectations, and Shel Silverstein, but I'm trying to cut back on swearing and brusqueness in reviews, so I don't think any more negativity is necessary. This author apparently has a pretty devoted following on social media, so I guess if you're into Tumblr feminism and line-break poetry (which seems to be the new trend), you'll probably enjoy this.



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Reading Progress

January 12, 2018 – Started Reading
January 12, 2018 – Shelved
January 12, 2018 – Shelved as: poetry
January 12, 2018 –
page 11
5.39% "the very thought of you
has my legs spread apart
like an easel with a canvas
begging for art


Ew, why would you say that, why, why, why"
January 12, 2018 –
page 18
8.82% "love is not cruel
we are cruel
love is not a game
we have made a game
out of love


No, but seriously, someone tell me why this is so popular

I do not understand

Am I being trolled?"
January 12, 2018 –
page 25
12.25% "the goddess between your legs
makes mouths water


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO"
January 12, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Chelsey (new) - added it

Chelsey Clark Thank goodness I’m not the only one who didn’t fall head over heels for this book. I was worried I didn’t understand it or missed something. I liked bits and pieces of it, but overall, I don’t disagree with anything you said!


Sophia  Arabella I'm currently reading this book and I really hate it omg


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Chelsey wrote: "Thank goodness I’m not the only one who didn’t fall head over heels for this book. I was worried I didn’t understand it or missed something. I liked bits and pieces of it, but overall, I don’t disa..."

You're definitely not alone! :-)


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Fire Moon wrote: "I'm currently reading this book and I really hate it omg"

That was exactly how I felt. I was like, "Wait, THIS is the book everyone won't hush up about? THIS BOOK? I don't understand!"


message 5: by Carmen (new) - added it

Carmen Great review.


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Carmen wrote: "Great review."

Thank you, Carmen!


Beatrix Ugh, couldn't agree more, Nenia! And, you've said this so eloquently: I, as a reader, am in no way obligated to like said poetry just because the intent behind it was important. Thank you!

And I also read The Princess Saves Herself in This One; while I didn't love it, I felt it was less pretentious than this.


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Beatrix wrote: "Ugh, couldn't agree more, Nenia! And, you've said this so eloquently: I, as a reader, am in no way obligated to like said poetry just because the intent behind it was important. Thank you!

And I a..."


Thank you so much, Beatrix. <3

And yes, for some reason TPSHiTO annoyed me less than this one, probably because as you said, it didn't feel like it was trying so desperately hard.


Doc. "those weird 3AM posts that one weird friend you have on Facebook loves to post that are always a) calling someone out, b) posting about personal drama"

LOL! I knew it reminded me of someone. Spot-on description.


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell S. wrote: ""those weird 3AM posts that one weird friend you have on Facebook loves to post that are always a) calling someone out, b) posting about personal drama"

LOL! I knew it reminded me of someone. Spot..."


LOL thanks. ;-D


Isabella - SnooRegrets Hahahaha fortune cookies! That is the comparison I was searching for!


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Isabella - wrote: "Hahahaha fortune cookies! That is the comparison I was searching for!"

Haha awesome!


Brittney Andrews (beabookworm) (YOU KNOW WHICH FRIEND I'M TALKING ABOUT. WE ALL HAVE THAT WEIRD 3AM POST FRIEND.)

This made me laugh so hard - what an awesome review!!!


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Brittney wrote: "(YOU KNOW WHICH FRIEND I'M TALKING ABOUT. WE ALL HAVE THAT WEIRD 3AM POST FRIEND.)

This made me laugh so hard - what an awesome review!!!"


Haha thank you! :D


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Evers☯n wrote: "Nice review!
I simply labeled this modern day trash, because that is exactly what I thought of it! There is nothing here memorable (in a good way), and nothing remotely poetic. Essentially, it is a..."


Haha I'm sorry you didn't like it either. I definitely don't get the hype surrounding this author.


Katie Longbottom Sometimes it’s not about flowery language, it’s about saying something at all. The poems moved me deeply, and I’m not unfamiliar with poetry. Interesting to see your different perspective


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Katie wrote: "Sometimes it’s not about flowery language, it’s about saying something at all. The poems moved me deeply, and I’m not unfamiliar with poetry. Interesting to see your different perspective"

Thanks


message 18: by Ellen Gail (new)

Ellen Gail Gotta admit, I laughed a little at 2018 Nenia trying to cut back on swearing in reviews lol!


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Ellen Gail wrote: "Gotta admit, I laughed a little at 2018 Nenia trying to cut back on swearing in reviews lol!"

I'm still trying to be good when I plan to cross-post to Amazon! They don't tolerate that shit there LOL

But anything else... FREE FOR ALL


message 20: by Ellen Gail (last edited Jan 12, 2021 10:33PM) (new)

Ellen Gail Nenia ✨️ Socially Awkward Trash Panda ✨️ wrote: "Ellen Gail wrote: "Gotta admit, I laughed a little at 2018 Nenia trying to cut back on swearing in reviews lol!"

I'm still trying to be good when I plan to cross-post to Amazon! They don't tolerat..."


Lol! That’s fair, gotta stay on Amazon’s good side. Gotta say though, as much money as I throw at them, I think I should get a profanity pass! 😂


Caitlin Theroux I'm late to the party, but here's my two cents no one asked for. There's one illustration where the poem talks about taking honey from inside her, and the illustration is someone's hand dripping with stuff, and am I the only one that looked at that and gagged a bit?


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Caitlin wrote: "I'm late to the party, but here's my two cents no one asked for. There's one illustration where the poem talks about taking honey from inside her, and the illustration is someone's hand dripping wi..."

Eek, I must have missed that one. D:


message 23: by Kat (new)

Kat Williamson So it is white woman Instagram poetry?


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Kat wrote: "So it is white woman Instagram poetry?"

Well, Rupi Kaur is not white but it's definitely the social media version of poetry and pretty basic.


message 25: by Kat (new)

Kat Williamson @nenia yes, I was speaking figuratively. It just sounds so bland and staged.


Nenia ✨ I yeet my books back and forth ✨ Campbell Kat wrote: "@nenia yes, I was speaking figuratively. It just sounds so bland and staged."

Oh my b. Yeah, bland and staged is a good way of describing it!


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