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Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton
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It is a plaintive story of a poor farmer, Ethan Frome, a man with thwarted desires and meagre resources. His entire life (past, present and future) is allegorical of hardship, austerity and distress!

I was expecting it to be focused around passion (as from the blurbs), but I found it to be everything else but passion. Maybe had I read it a few years ago, then I might have exultantly and emotionally rated it high, but a mindset smacked with experiences, derives loopholes, and studies books with a different lens!

The synopsis -

A poor farmer (Ethan Frome) of meagre resources,
Of bleak and stiffened appearance,
Frozen by his tragic past,
Imprisoned in a forever mortal silence,
Having accumulated the cold,
of many Starkfield winters!
Living in a mute melancholy,
Having lost his parents,
Expecting a brief reprieve post marriage with Zeena,
But both fall into a forever ghastly silence,
No love, no communication,
Just doctoring his sickly wife!
The birds start twittering, and love is foretold,
When pretty, sensitive, natural beauty, Zeena’s cousin, Mattie, joins the family,
To help her!
Ethan starts falling for Mattie!
Zeena forces upon a smothering silence on her too!
A day comes by, when the 2 are alone,
Savoring every moment.
Zeena returns back home, with a medical report full of complications,
The wife confronts the two,
Catching them red-handed,
basking in a pleasure perverse!
Ethan’s sense of responsibility to his wife,
outweighs his love for Mattie,
So drives Mattie to the station, to bid her adieu.
A change of heart occurs,
When the 2 take a detour,
both reminisce about the fleeting moments of happiness shared,
Desperate, both plan a final sled ride down the hill(sledding),
Just to join each other forever in death!
But a horrendous turn impends,
Their plan is impeded, and
Both are left brutally injured,
Zeena, changes her mind/outlook post the accident,
Accepts Mattie in the household,
Story fast-forwards 20 years,
With the two slovenly women,
Huddled together in cold,
In a poorly furnished room!

My views stand tangentially opposite to what it is supposed to be construed!

For me Ethan Frome suffuses silence, isolation, self-flagellation, living in a hard-rule-bound society, and finally irrationality! But definitely, I couldn’t find a tinge of real passion/love, as it professes!

Throughout there is a silence � emotional, mental, physical



There is an eternal silence in Ethan’s life, Zeena too resorts to horrendous silence post her marriage, there is an evident lack of communication between the husband and wife.

Finally, when Mattie joins in the household, silence is enforced on her by Zeena, and finally Ethan and Mattie, both abandon rationality as they decide to commit suicide, just to enter a forever hell of silence.
For me they were already living a silent hell, suicide wasn’t a solution!
Ethan Frome is emblematic of silence & isolation, post losing parents, getting married, adoring Mattie and yet not getting her!

The imprisonment and enslavement to society rules hold the centre stage in the novel! Ethan doesn't leave his wife because he feels bound by his marriage avowals. He dreams about being married to Mattie; he writes his goodbye letter to Zeena, but subsequently his conscience does not allow him to execute his wishes. Instead, the rules of society govern his life and stays ensnared in a loveless marriage!

If I have to define the 3 characters my way, I would say-


Ethan Frome
- Epitome of self-flagellation

Mattie
- metaphor for the ephemeral joys of life, transience of life and joy!

Zeena
- the sickly kind-hearted wife, who accepts Mattie back, post the accident, irrespective of their affair!

It is defined as a tale of adulterous passion, but honestly, I found it to be a tale of poignancy, silence and isolation. Where an isolated being, finding love and pleasure, still couldn’t get it due to society rules and self-flagellation, and finally when he loses all his rationality, he ends up making the rest of his life as the worst of his life!

Did the irrationality in Ethan sprung-up due to his love for Mattie or the abomination towards his life? I presume the latter is true.

There is no effrontery but only submission!


“The return to reality was as painful as the return to consciousness after taking an anaesthetic. His body and brain ached with indescribable weariness, and he could think of nothing to say or to do that should arrest the mad flight of the moments�
I was restive and had a queer feeling throughout the read.

A queerly 3.5 stars!
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message 1: by Di yan (new)

Di yan A heart-touching review meghna.


message 2: by Bharath (new)

Bharath Another lovely review Meghna! You are on a roll. Especially liked the creative synopsis in verse.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Di yan wrote: "A heart-touching review meghna."

Many thanks! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Bharath wrote: "Another lovely review Meghna! You are on a roll. Especially liked the creative synopsis in verse."

Thanks so much, Bharath, for acknowledging! :)
Your appreciation keeps me inspired.


Antoinette Wonderful review, Meghna! I read this many years ago and remember how powerful it was. I should reread it one day.


Maureen Fantastic review Meghna!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Antoinette wrote: "Wonderful review, Meghna! I read this many years ago and remember how powerful it was. I should reread it one day."

Many thanks, Antoinette! :)
It is indeed a novel that offers a strong punch.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Maureen wrote: "Fantastic review Meghna!"

Thanks so much, Maureen! :)


message 9: by Rosh (new)

Rosh Whoa - A poetic synopsis! Now that's something most reviewers can't do. Well done, Meghna! Too bad this left you restive instead of rested. Expectations can mess up the experience of a book.


message 10: by Ceecee (new)

Ceecee Amazing review Meghna ❤️


Miya (severe pain struggles, slower at the moment) Wonderful review Meghna 💜


message 12: by Holly (new)

Holly  B (slower pace!) Lovely review Meghna!


message 13: by Tokoro (new)

Tokoro Hmm, I've always been more interested in other Wharton works, but you may persuade me to pick this up because of its themes. I can relate to the self-flagellation and resigning to life, under the structures of societal expectation. This could be a too relatable, sentimental read for me.


Margaret M - (having a challenging time and on GR as much as I can) Superb review Meghna 💖


message 15: by Liong (new)

Liong Read 2 times. Wonderful review.


message 16: by Tina (new)

Tina A fab review Meghna!!!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Rosh wrote: "Whoa - A poetic synopsis! Now that's something most reviewers can't do. Well done, Meghna! Too bad this left you restive instead of rested. Expectations can mess up the experience of a book."

Many thanks, Rosh! :)
True, I held high expectations, and were marred!
I loved how you played with restive and rested.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Ceecee wrote: "Amazing review Meghna ❤️"

Thanks a lot, Ceecee! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Miya (struggling with pain, doing my best) wrote: "Wonderful review Meghna 💜"

Thanks kindly, Miya! :) <3


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Tokoro wrote: "Hmm, I've always been more interested in other Wharton works, but you may persuade me to pick this up because of its themes. I can relate to the self-flagellation and resigning to life, under the s..."

I feel blessed, if it could persuade you a wee to consider this work! Thanks so much Tokoro :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Margaret M - hiatus wrote: "Superb review Meghna 💖"

Thanks kindly, Margaret! Hope you having a great festive season :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Liong wrote: "Read 2 times. Wonderful review."

Thanks so much, Liong! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Tina wrote: "A fab review Meghna!!!"

Thanks so much kindly, lovely Tina! :) <3


Mark  Porton Terrific review Meghna - a book about passion, without passion!! Shame this didn't have that for you, but you seemed to get some enjoyment out fo this one at least!!


message 25: by Lisa (new)

Lisa I haven't read anything Wharton except Age of Innocence. That novel is so perfect that I've been afraid to read anything else by her.
Great review of this one, and I am not tempted.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Mark wrote: "Terrific review Meghna - a book about passion, without passion!! Shame this didn't have that for you, but you seemed to get some enjoyment out fo this one at least!!"

Thanks as always, Mark! Maybe others have found passion in it, but I found more of perplexed discernment due to the atrocities faced in life. I liked it, but yes, my over-expectations were defeated :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Lisa wrote: "I haven't read anything Wharton except Age of Innocence. That novel is so perfect that I've been afraid to read anything else by her.
Great review of this one, and I am not tempted."


Lisa, thanks so much! :) <3
Yes, Age of Innocence cannot be compared with this one. You can very well skip this one. Not being gender-biased, but I still have an inkling that male counterparts may relish it more :)


message 28: by [deleted user] (new)

Thoroughly enjoyable review, Meghna! I think your final quote provides a nice summation. I can't remember reading this book, although if I did decades ago, it's lost - forgettable - where it belongs.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Thoroughly enjoyable review, Meghna! I think your final quote provides a nice summation. I can't remember reading this book, although if I did decades ago, it's lost - forgettable - where it belongs."

Many thanks, Bob! Hope the review, revived your memory of the book. Well, it is not a very recognizable work of Wharton, but the explorer in me, keeps pushing me to pick up the less-known :-D


message 30: by Carmen (new)

Carmen Great review.


message 31: by [deleted user] (new)

Meghna wrote: "Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Thoroughly enjoyable review, Meghna! I think your final quote provides a nice summation. I can't remember reading this book, although if I did decades ago, it's lost - f..."

I really count on you to come up with those I need to blow the dust from and perhaps rediscover - or let the dust to resettle. You have captured my attention.


message 32: by Meghhnaa (last edited Oct 03, 2022 06:40AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Meghna wrote: "Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Thoroughly enjoyable review, Meghna! I think your final quote provides a nice summation. I can't remember reading this book, although if I did decades ago..."

Blow the dust, or allow it to resettle! Ufff.. Bob, your reviews and enticing word play forever capture my attention. Your grandchildren are blessed to have you around :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Carmen wrote: "Great review."

Thanks so much, Carmen! :)


message 34: by Nora (new) - added it

Nora Currie Great review, Meghna! I’m sorry that this book didn’t have the passion you were looking for. I love the poem you wrote by the way!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Nora wrote: "Great review, Meghna! I’m sorry that this book didn’t have the passion you were looking for. I love the poem you wrote by the way!"

Nora, I refer to the missing of true passion, or let me re-phrase true love. I found it to be a book based on love for convenience!
Thanks for the compliment :)


message 36: by Nora (new) - added it

Nora Currie Meghna wrote: "Nora wrote: "Great review, Meghna! I’m sorry that this book didn’t have the passion you were looking for. I love the poem you wrote by the way!"

Nora, I refer to the missing of true passion, or le..."


I totally understand, Meghna. You’re welcome for the compliment :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Nora wrote: "Meghna wrote: "Nora wrote: "Great review, Meghna! I’m sorry that this book didn’t have the passion you were looking for. I love the poem you wrote by the way!"

Nora, I refer to the missing of true..."


<3 <3 <3


message 38: by Pratham (new) - added it

Pratham An inordinately perspicacious and thorough review.


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Pratham wrote: "An inordinately perspicacious and thorough review."

Many thanks, Pratham! Brilliant choice of words for praising someone :)


message 40: by Rachel (new)

Rachel Hanes Outstanding review Meghna! 💗


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Rachel wrote: "Outstanding review Meghna! 💗"

Thanks so much, Rachel! :)


message 42: by Jasmine (new) - added it

Jasmine Excellent review as usual, Meghna! You make this sound so compelling! I should dust off my copy and read it asap.


message 43: by Chantel (new)

Chantel Lovely review, Meghna, as always :) This one's style was interesting & presented a lot to draw on! I appreciated your personal reflection & thoughts about how the book might have been read, had you come upon it some time ago, rather than now. I'm still glad to see that you were able to enjoy so much of it :) xx


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Jasmine wrote: "Excellent review as usual, Meghna! You make this sound so compelling! I should dust off my copy and read it asap."

Thanks so much for your kind comment, Jasmine! :)


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Chantel wrote: "Lovely review, Meghna, as always :) This one's style was interesting & presented a lot to draw on! I appreciated your personal reflection & thoughts about how the book might have been read, had you..."

Thanks dearest, Chantel :)
Experiences introduce volcanic changes, which I refer to as evolution :) <3


message 46: by emma (new) - rated it 4 stars

emma love love love this review meghna! will put this specific book to the bottom of my edith wharton to read list!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) emma wrote: "love love love this review meghna! will put this specific book to the bottom of my edith wharton to read list!"

Thanks thanks thanks, emma!
It will surely do justice to your TBR :) <3


Jennifer Welsh Wonderfully fair review, Meghna. I thought even The Age of Innocence lacked passion! 😃😅


message 49: by [deleted user] (new)

Meghna wrote: "Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Meghna wrote: "Bob (aka Bobby Lee) wrote: "Thoroughly enjoyable review, Meghna! I think your final quote provides a nice summation. I can't remember reading this book, a..."

Thank you, dear friend!


Meghhnaa  (On a Review-Writing Break!) Jennifer wrote: "Wonderfully fair review, Meghna. I thought even The Age of Innocence lacked passion! 😃😅"

Thanks, Jennifer! :) <3
Passion is such a subjective term, and the definition varies for each :)
Seems we belong to a common clan of "true love" <3


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