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Don't Tell Me How to Die by Marshall Karp
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Well there’s always that one person� 🤷🏻‍♀� There’s lots of hype surrounding this book right now, lots of five-star reviews. I will say this book was good, but it didn’t have me crying like most people stated (I think I’m heartless, or just had my mind mentally prepared for what was coming). I also didn’t find this to be a fast-paced thriller. This book read super sloooow, in which I had to take several breaks before I could pick it up again. I also feel that I had to wait too long for any of the twists and reveals to take place (nothing happens until Part Three of the book).

This story basically focuses on the life of Maggie. Maggie’s mother died at the age of forty-three from a fatal blood disease (HLH). Maggie and her sister Lizzie were on a mission after her mother’s death to vet all the single women away from their father. Of course, her father would still pick the wrong one�

Twenty six years later, Maggie learns that she has the same fatal blood disease as her mother. How can that be? Maggie is now the mayor of the city she grew up in, the wife to a successful doctor, and she’s a mother to two wonderful children. Maggie decides that she is now on a mission to find the perfect wife for her husband, so he will have a good woman once she is gone.

I personally felt like this story had lots of unnecessary details/filler in it, and once again the twists took too long to take place. This is a good story with some “a-ha� moments, but if you’re looking for a fast-paced thriller, then this isn’t the book for you.
(3.5 stars, rounded down)

I would like to thank NetGalley, Blackstone Publishing, and the author for a DRC of this book which I had the pleasure of reading. All opinions are my own.
Publication date: March 4, 2025
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Reading Progress

January 16, 2025 – Shelved
January 16, 2025 – Shelved as: to-read
January 27, 2025 – Started Reading
January 30, 2025 – Shelved as: advanced-reader-copy
January 30, 2025 – Shelved as: from-publisher
January 30, 2025 – Shelved as: netgalley
January 30, 2025 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Amina (new)

Amina An honest review, Rachel, definitely is fair when even even the a-ha moments aren't enough to make it an engaging read. Hope your next read is much more promising! 😊


Shelley's Book Nook Excellent review, Rachel. I may have the same problem with this one, I can be heartless too. LOL

I hope you love your next read. 🤗💕


Rachel Hanes Amina wrote: "An honest review, Rachel, definitely is fair when even even the a-ha moments aren't enough to make it an engaging read. Hope your next read is much more promising! 😊"

Thank you so much, Amina! 🤗


Rachel Hanes Shelley's Book Nook wrote: "Excellent review, Rachel. I may have the same problem with this one, I can be heartless too. LOL

I hope you love your next read. 🤗💕"


Lol! Thank you, Shelley!! 💝 I’ve cried in lots of books, but this wasn’t one of them. I’d love for you to read this one to see if we’re both the same. 🤣 I hope you are loving your current and next read too!!


NZLisaM Sorry it wasn’t the best, Rachel. I’ll be reading this next month and I hope I enjoy it more. Thanks for your honest review. ❤️


JaymeO Rachel, I agree…it’s more domestic suspense than thriller. I liked it but it definitely was not 5 star for me. I think it’s the strong characterization that helped sell this one!


Tara(I’m back and way behind) Excellent review, Rachel! 💖
I hope your next read is more satisfying. It is rare for me to cry in a book, but I have this one, too. I am curious if some of the similarities of what happened to my mother will bring tears to my ears as I read it or if I just might be too jaded to shed any tears. We shall see! 🤷🏻‍♀�


Jayme The marketing is deceiving but I loved it! Sorry it didn’t work for you! Hope you love your next! ❤️


message 9: by Taufiq (new)

Taufiq Yves Fair assessment & insightful review, Rachel.


message 10: by Srivalli (new)

Srivalli Rekha Sorry this one didn't work for you. Hope your current read is a winner. Great review, Rachel. :)


Rachel Hanes NZLisaM wrote: "Sorry it wasn’t the best, Rachel. I’ll be reading this next month and I hope I enjoy it more. Thanks for your honest review. ❤️"

You’re welcome, Lisa! 💗 While this book was enjoyable, it just took a long time to get into. I will be watching for your thoughts on this one. Enjoy!! :)


Rachel Hanes JaymeO wrote: "Rachel, I agree…it’s more domestic suspense than thriller. I liked it but it definitely was not 5 star for me. I think it’s the strong characterization that helped sell this one!"

Jayme, yes- it definitely had strong characterization. However, this is more of a domestic suspense than thriller, and I think I was expecting something way different�


Rachel Hanes Tara wrote: "Excellent review, Rachel! 💖
I hope your next read is more satisfying. It is rare for me to cry in a book, but I have this one, too. I am curious if some of the similarities of what happened to my ..."


Thank you, Tara! 💗 I often cry in books, but for some reason I didn’t in this one (I think because I knew what was coming). However, if there are any similarities to what happened with your mother, you may definitely shed many tears. I will definitely be watching for your thoughts on this one. I hope you enjoy this one! 🤗


Rachel Hanes Jayme wrote: "The marketing is deceiving but I loved it! Sorry it didn’t work for you! Hope you love your next! ❤️"

Thank you, Jayme! 💗 So glad that you loved this one. However, I do agree with you that the marketing is deceiving on this book because I was expecting something much different than what I read�


Rachel Hanes Taufiq wrote: "Fair assessment & insightful review, Rachel."

Thank you very much, Taufiq!


Rachel Hanes Srivalli wrote: "Sorry this one didn't work for you. Hope your current read is a winner. Great review, Rachel. :)"

Thank you very much, Srivalli! :)


message 17: by Federico (new)

Federico DN Slow ass thrillers are really not your jam Rachel. Sounds like you got bored out of your mind waiting for something to finally happen lol. And since you didn't mention anything about the ending I'm guessing it was kind of a letdown too. Glad you enjoyed the “a-ha� moments though! Honest and heartless review ;)


Rachel Hanes Federico wrote: "Slow ass thrillers are really not your jam Rachel. Sounds like you got bored out of your mind waiting for something to finally happen lol. And since you didn't mention anything about the ending I'm..."

You definitely know me pretty good, Federico! Slow thrillers are not my jam- and since I had to wait so long for something to finally happen- I was just over it, if I’m being honest. Thank you for liking my heartless review. lol!! 🤗


message 19: by Gary (new) - rated it 3 stars

Gary Parkes I concur!


Debbie Fair and honest review, Rachel. I hope that you are enjoying your current read more. 🩷


Rachel Hanes Gary wrote: "I concur!"

Thanks, Gary! Glad I’m not alone. :)


Rachel Hanes Debbie wrote: "Fair and honest review, Rachel. I hope that you are enjoying your current read more. 🩷"

Thank you very much, Debbie! 💗


message 23: by Jayne (new)

Jayne I am also that "one person" ....so I am with you!!!

Great honest review, Rachel. The publisher declined my ARC request and I have this on Libby reserve. You are right....there are many, many 5-star reviews. After reading your insightful review, I am less angry about being declined. I hope your next book is a winner.


Rachel Hanes Jayne wrote: "I am also that "one person" ....so I am with you!!!

Great honest review, Rachel. The publisher declined my ARC request and I have this on Libby reserve. You are right....there are many, many 5-sta..."


Thank you so much, Jayne! I was able to get this book as a ‘Read Now� on NetGalley. Not sure if it’s still available (as it was very recent)? Regardless, I hope that you still enjoy this one when you do read it. :)


message 25: by Cara (new)

Cara Wonderful review as always, Rachel💗!!!!!!!! I don't think you're heartless by any means, everyone has many different emotions while reading the same book. I've read books that others have sobbed through and I didn't shed a tear, and I've also had many experiences with crying while reading a book that other's didn't find emotional💞!!!!!!!!!


Rachel Hanes Cara wrote: "Wonderful review as always, Rachel💗!!!!!!!! I don't think you're heartless by any means, everyone has many different emotions while reading the same book. I've read books that others have sobbed th..."

Thank you so much, Cara!!! 💝 You are so right about everyone having different emotions while reading a book. I was just hoping to feel like everyone else while reading this, but it didn’t quite happen�


message 27: by Rosh (new) - rated it 3 stars

Rosh I understand the pain of being "that one person", but such honest reviews do help in toning down the expectations. I had grabbed this book only because of the hype, so your review is so very helpful, Rachel. I'm sorry this didn't work much for you. I'll go in prepared for a slower pace. Wish you a much better book after this one! ❤️


Rachel Hanes Rosh wrote: "I understand the pain of being "that one person", but such honest reviews do help in toning down the expectations. I had grabbed this book only because of the hype, so your review is so very helpfu..."

Thank you very much, Rosh! 💗 I read a lot of thrillers, so maybe I just expected something different/more. Either way, I hope that you enjoy this book, and I will be watching for your thoughts!


message 29: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Fair and honest review Rachel, we can’t love everything 💕


Rachel Hanes Maureen wrote: "Fair and honest review Rachel, we can’t love everything 💕"

Thank you, Maureen! 💗 And you are so right- we can’t win them all!


message 31: by Kat (new) - added it

Kat Excellent review, Rachel. I've heard all the raves lately for this, so it's a relief to finally hear the other side of the story! I'm sorry it didn't work as well for you! 💙


Rachel Hanes Kat wrote: "Excellent review, Rachel. I've heard all the raves lately for this, so it's a relief to finally hear the other side of the story! I'm sorry it didn't work as well for you! 💙"

Thank you so much, Kat! 💗 I hate when I’m an outlier, and the story doesn’t work out for me- but, as you can see this one certainly wasn’t one of my favorites.


message 33: by Staci (new)

Staci I hate those “Did I miss something?� moments. Great review.


Rachel Hanes Staci wrote: "I hate those “Did I miss something?� moments. Great review."

Thank you, Staci! That was me the whole book (well, almost the whole book), wondering what I was missing?�


Heather Adores Books Great, honest review, Rachel!


Rachel Hanes Heather Adores Books wrote: "Great, honest review, Rachel!"

Thank you very much, Heather!


message 37: by Kezia (new)

Kezia Duah The problem with twists that take too long is after a while I don’t care 😫! Wonderful review!


Rachel Hanes Kezia wrote: "The problem with twists that take too long is after a while I don’t care 😫! Wonderful review!"

Thank you, Kezia! And yes, that’s exactly what happened with me in this book. By the time all the twists came- I totally did not care!! You nailed it!! 😀


Holly  B (slower pace!) I got this one as a read now! I'm going to adjust my expectations! Great review Rachel! 💖


Rachel Hanes Holly wrote: "I got this one as a read now! I'm going to adjust my expectations! Great review Rachel! 💖"

Thank you, Holly! 💝 I hope you enjoy this one. I will be watching for your thoughts! :)


message 41: by Mary Beth (new) - added it

Mary Beth Fantastic review! 💟 Hope you are loving your current read.


Rachel Hanes Mary Beth wrote: "Fantastic review! 💟 Hope you are loving your current read."

Thank you so much, Mary Beth! 💝


message 43: by JanB (new) - rated it 2 stars

JanB I have this from NG, and love differing opinions. I’ll adjust my expectations a bit. I’m used to being on Outlier Island, ha!
Great review Rachel!


Rachel Hanes JanB wrote: "I have this from NG, and love differing opinions. I’ll adjust my expectations a bit. I’m used to being on Outlier Island, ha!
Great review Rachel!"


Thank you, Jan!! I have found that lately I’m the one on Outlier Island 😬. I can’t wait to see your thoughts on this one! Enjoy!


Melissa (Always Behind) Sorry it didn't work for you! I am interested to read this to see what all of the hubbub is about!


Rachel Hanes Melissa (Always Behind) wrote: "Sorry it didn't work for you! I am interested to read this to see what all of the hubbub is about!"

Thanks, Melissa! I would love to see your thoughts on this one. There certainly is lots of hubbub surrounding this book!


MarilynW Sorry it didn't work so well for you, Rachel, I enjoyed your review!


Rachel Hanes MarilynW wrote: "Sorry it didn't work so well for you, Rachel, I enjoyed your review!"

Thank you for enjoying my review, Marilyn! I was really hoping to love this one, but it just didn’t work out for me� So glad this was a winner for you! :)


Darla A fair and honest review. Totally agree that the pacing was off. It took way too long to get to those big reveals. Hope your reads since have been amazing!🥰


Rachel Hanes Darla wrote: "A fair and honest review. Totally agree that the pacing was off. It took way too long to get to those big reveals. Hope your reads since have been amazing!🥰"

Thank you very much, Darla! 💝


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