Rachel Hanes's Reviews > Don't Tell Me How to Die
Don't Tell Me How to Die
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Well there’s always that one person� 🤷🏻♀� There’s lots of hype surrounding this book right now, lots of five-star reviews. I will say this book was good, but it didn’t have me crying like most people stated (I think I’m heartless, or just had my mind mentally prepared for what was coming). I also didn’t find this to be a fast-paced thriller. This book read super sloooow, in which I had to take several breaks before I could pick it up again. I also feel that I had to wait too long for any of the twists and reveals to take place (nothing happens until Part Three of the book).
This story basically focuses on the life of Maggie. Maggie’s mother died at the age of forty-three from a fatal blood disease (HLH). Maggie and her sister Lizzie were on a mission after her mother’s death to vet all the single women away from their father. Of course, her father would still pick the wrong one�
Twenty six years later, Maggie learns that she has the same fatal blood disease as her mother. How can that be? Maggie is now the mayor of the city she grew up in, the wife to a successful doctor, and she’s a mother to two wonderful children. Maggie decides that she is now on a mission to find the perfect wife for her husband, so he will have a good woman once she is gone.
I personally felt like this story had lots of unnecessary details/filler in it, and once again the twists took too long to take place. This is a good story with some “a-ha� moments, but if you’re looking for a fast-paced thriller, then this isn’t the book for you.
(3.5 stars, rounded down)
I would like to thank NetGalley, Blackstone Publishing, and the author for a DRC of this book which I had the pleasure of reading. All opinions are my own.
Publication date: March 4, 2025
This story basically focuses on the life of Maggie. Maggie’s mother died at the age of forty-three from a fatal blood disease (HLH). Maggie and her sister Lizzie were on a mission after her mother’s death to vet all the single women away from their father. Of course, her father would still pick the wrong one�
Twenty six years later, Maggie learns that she has the same fatal blood disease as her mother. How can that be? Maggie is now the mayor of the city she grew up in, the wife to a successful doctor, and she’s a mother to two wonderful children. Maggie decides that she is now on a mission to find the perfect wife for her husband, so he will have a good woman once she is gone.
I personally felt like this story had lots of unnecessary details/filler in it, and once again the twists took too long to take place. This is a good story with some “a-ha� moments, but if you’re looking for a fast-paced thriller, then this isn’t the book for you.
(3.5 stars, rounded down)
I would like to thank NetGalley, Blackstone Publishing, and the author for a DRC of this book which I had the pleasure of reading. All opinions are my own.
Publication date: March 4, 2025
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I hope you love your next read. 🤗💕

Thank you so much, Amina! 🤗

I hope you love your next read. 🤗💕"
Lol! Thank you, Shelley!! 💝 I’ve cried in lots of books, but this wasn’t one of them. I’d love for you to read this one to see if we’re both the same. 🤣 I hope you are loving your current and next read too!!



I hope your next read is more satisfying. It is rare for me to cry in a book, but I have this one, too. I am curious if some of the similarities of what happened to my mother will bring tears to my ears as I read it or if I just might be too jaded to shed any tears. We shall see! 🤷🏻♀�


You’re welcome, Lisa! 💗 While this book was enjoyable, it just took a long time to get into. I will be watching for your thoughts on this one. Enjoy!! :)

Jayme, yes- it definitely had strong characterization. However, this is more of a domestic suspense than thriller, and I think I was expecting something way different�

I hope your next read is more satisfying. It is rare for me to cry in a book, but I have this one, too. I am curious if some of the similarities of what happened to my ..."
Thank you, Tara! 💗 I often cry in books, but for some reason I didn’t in this one (I think because I knew what was coming). However, if there are any similarities to what happened with your mother, you may definitely shed many tears. I will definitely be watching for your thoughts on this one. I hope you enjoy this one! 🤗

Thank you, Jayme! 💗 So glad that you loved this one. However, I do agree with you that the marketing is deceiving on this book because I was expecting something much different than what I read�

Thank you very much, Srivalli! :)


You definitely know me pretty good, Federico! Slow thrillers are not my jam- and since I had to wait so long for something to finally happen- I was just over it, if I’m being honest. Thank you for liking my heartless review. lol!! 🤗

Thank you very much, Debbie! 💗

Great honest review, Rachel. The publisher declined my ARC request and I have this on Libby reserve. You are right....there are many, many 5-star reviews. After reading your insightful review, I am less angry about being declined. I hope your next book is a winner.

Great honest review, Rachel. The publisher declined my ARC request and I have this on Libby reserve. You are right....there are many, many 5-sta..."
Thank you so much, Jayne! I was able to get this book as a ‘Read Now� on NetGalley. Not sure if it’s still available (as it was very recent)? Regardless, I hope that you still enjoy this one when you do read it. :)


Thank you so much, Cara!!! 💝 You are so right about everyone having different emotions while reading a book. I was just hoping to feel like everyone else while reading this, but it didn’t quite happen�


Thank you very much, Rosh! 💗 I read a lot of thrillers, so maybe I just expected something different/more. Either way, I hope that you enjoy this book, and I will be watching for your thoughts!

Thank you, Maureen! 💗 And you are so right- we can’t win them all!


Thank you so much, Kat! 💗 I hate when I’m an outlier, and the story doesn’t work out for me- but, as you can see this one certainly wasn’t one of my favorites.

Thank you, Staci! That was me the whole book (well, almost the whole book), wondering what I was missing?�

Thank you, Kezia! And yes, that’s exactly what happened with me in this book. By the time all the twists came- I totally did not care!! You nailed it!! 😀

Thank you, Holly! 💝 I hope you enjoy this one. I will be watching for your thoughts! :)

Thank you so much, Mary Beth! 💝

Great review Rachel!

Great review Rachel!"
Thank you, Jan!! I have found that lately I’m the one on Outlier Island 😬. I can’t wait to see your thoughts on this one! Enjoy!

Thanks, Melissa! I would love to see your thoughts on this one. There certainly is lots of hubbub surrounding this book!

Thank you for enjoying my review, Marilyn! I was really hoping to love this one, but it just didn’t work out for me� So glad this was a winner for you! :)
