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“Instead of saying, "I'm damaged, I'm broken, I have trust issues" say "I'm healing, I'm rediscovering myself, I'm starting over.”
― Horacio Jones

“Integrating and befriending our shadow, our running mate means balancing yin and yang, reframing our understanding of ourselves and the world, and opening new arrays for meaning and purpose. (“Not without my shadow »)”
― Erik Pevernagie

“A reframe is not about telling yourself that
your fear is wrong. Reframes are about finding another way to look at the possibilities of your life.”
― Rebecca K. Sampson, Stronger Now: How to Thrive in Any Circumstance and Become Unstoppable

“The language we use is extremely powerful. It is the frame through which we perceive and describe ourselves and our picture of the world.”
― Iben Dissing Sandahl, The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids

“Good begets good. Calm begets calm. It isn´t the child who is bad; it is the action that is bad.”
― Iben Dissing Sandahl, The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids

“Reframing is a term from cognitive psychotherapy which simply means seeing something in a new way, in a new context, with a new frame around it.”
― Elaine N. Aron, The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You

“What's your favourite painting?'
'Sunday Afternoon on the Island of La Grande Jatte,' Win says without hesitation. 'By Georges Seurat.'
'Isn't that the one made up of dots?'
'Pointillism. Yeah. It represents the two sides of art that I love-on one habd, it's just beautifully rendered because the artist made sure every inch of the canvas was pulsing with life. But there's a whole other side of it - pointillism is a metaphor for society and politics. Painting dot by dot stands in for the industrial revolution and how it was filtering into leisure time in society. I could write a whoe paper on it.' She smiles. 'I did.'
'Sounds like a perfect marriage of skill and significance, 'I say.
'A perect marriage, ' Win repeats. 'Yes.”
― Jodi Picoult, The Book of Two Ways

“When you persuade yourself that you “get toâ€� do something rather than “have to,â€� you can find a silver lining. For instance, saying “I have to clean the houseâ€� implies cleaning is an unpleasant task. On the other hand, saying “I get to clean the houseâ€� reframes the labor as something you look forward to, emphasizing how important it is to have a place to live in the first place. A great strategy to change your perspective and enhance your mental health is to reframe the tasks you encounter in daily life with a positive outlook.”
― Josh King Madrid, JetSet Life Hacks: 33 Life Hacks Millionaires, Athletes, Celebrities, & Geniuses Have In Common

“Precision of thought comes from a tranquil mindset. A presenter can have a competitive edge if they are unmoved by the jabs and provocations that are directed at them”
― Josh King Madrid

“Think of the things you most dislike hearing in yourselves and then put a mirror up. That is what you will get from your child.”
― Iben Dissing Sandahl, The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids

“The multiple niche markets in Vietnam's global sex industry offer insight into some of the larger macroeconomic shifts that reframe our understanding of the coproduction of gender and global capital.”
― Kimberly Kay Hoang, Dealing in Desire: Asian Ascendancy, Western Decline, and the Hidden Currencies of Global Sex Work

“at the end of the day, the narratives, myths, and frameworks you use to make sense of the world are only approximations, they are never the truth. If you are able to pick the most suitable one for the moment or your situation , by reframing, this is an essential skill for survival in a fast changing and uncertain world.”
― Bryan Callen

“An individual's frame is influenced by their willpower, perseverance, endurance, skill set, emotional maturity, and self assurance. The fact that frame is self-reinforcing is among its most significant features.”
― Josh King Madrid

“When referring to human connection, the term
"frame" describes the significance you assign to a given interaction and how you characterize what is happening.”
― Josh King Madrid

“Mindfulness is essential to frame control. It's crucial to just pay attention to your surroundings, thoughts, feelings, and responses to the situation or encounter in which you find yourself.”
― Josh King Madrid

“The Ecology Frame focuses on achieving your goals in a way that benefits everybody. It involves acting morally and setting up scenarios where everybody wins.”
― Josh King Madrid

“The way truth or a topic is presented affects how we respond to it. Consider two milk containers as an illustration. One reads "20%
cholesterol," while another says "80% cholesterol free." We will choose the second alternative as a result of the framing effect...”
― Josh King Madrid

“Our choices are affected by how information is framed. Depending on which qualities are emphasized, identical facts can be more or less appealing.”
― Josh King Madrid

“When people were attempting to persuade others in the legendary Arena in ancient Greece, frame battles were frequently conducted. The delivery and techniques may have changed over time, but the fundamental ideas behind frame control have mostly remained the same.”
― Josh King Madrid

“Our mind is capable of detecting even the smallest hand and finger movements, and if gestures and motions are employed successfully during an utterance or discussion, they can enhance the transmission of information.”
― Josh King Madrid

“Control in this context does not mean domineering others or dominating a conversation...Your framing should enthuse and captivate the audience rather than trying to convince them of your own notions or viewpoints.”
― Josh King Madrid

“People with strong frames typically achieve their goals most of the time.”
― Josh King Madrid

“A frame is a psychological model you build for yourself to organize and carry out a strategy to attain a goal; to move from spot A to spot B while guarding against detours and resistance.”
― Josh King Madrid

“Frame control creates power and power attracts.

BY JOSH (JETSET) KING MADRID

WHAT DO KANYE WEST AND ELON MUSK HAVE IN COMMON? When you put the two together, there may be few similarities, but I believe one trait they share is the ability to control their frame, also known as frame control.

Frame control is a little-known underlying phenomenon that may be one of the reasons they are so influential and successful despite the controversy. Nonetheless, they maintain their status as some of our culture's most powerful figures.

The power of how we frame our personal realities is referred to as frame control. A frame is a tool that you can use to package your power, authority, strength, information, and status. Standing firm in your beliefs can persuade and influence.

I first discovered frame control in 2016 after coming across the book Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff. I was hooked instantly. I was a freshman in college at UC Irvine at the time and was earning a few thousand dollars a month in my online business. In just a few short months after applying the concept of frame control in my life and business, everything changed � I started dating the girl of my dreams, cleared my first $27,000 in one month and dropped out of college to go all in on my business.

Since then, I've read every book, watched every video, and studied every expert-written blog I can find on the subject. This eventually led me to obtain NLP and neuro-marketing certifications, both of which explain the underlying psychology of how our brains frame social interactions and provide techniques for controlling these frames in oneself and others in order to become more likable, influential, and lead a better life overall.

Frame control is about establishing your own authority, but it isn't just some self-help nonsense. It is about true and verified beliefs. The glass half-empty or half-full frame is a popular analogy. If you believe the glass is half-empty, that is exactly what it will be.

But someone with a half-full frame can come in and convince you to change your belief, simply by backing it up with the logic of “an empty glass of water would always be empty, but having water in an empty glass makes it half-full.�

Positioning your view as the one that counts does take some practice because you first have to believe in yourself. You won’t be able to convince anyone of your authority if you are not authentic or if you don’t actually believe in what you’re trying to sell.

Whether they realize it or not, public figures are likely to engage in frame control.
When you're in the spotlight, you have to stay focused on the type of person you want the rest of the world to see you as. Tom Cruise, for example, is an example of frame control because of his ability to maintain dominance in media situations.

In a well-known BBC interview, Tom Cruise assertively puts the interviewer in his place when he steps out of line and begins probing into his personal life. Cruise doesn't do it disrespectfully, which is how he maintains his own dominance, but he does it in such a way that the interviewer is held accountable.

How Frame Control Positions the User as Influential or Powerful
Turning toward someone who is dominant or who seems to know what they are doing is a natural occurrence. Generally speaking, we are hard-wired to trust people who believe in themselves and when they are put on a world stage, the effects of it can be almost bewildering.

We often view comedians as mere entertainers, but in fact, many of them are experts in frame control. They challenge your views by making you laugh. Whether you want to accept their frame or not, the moment you laugh, your own frame has been shaken and theirs have taken over.”
― JetSet (Josh King Madrid), The Art of Frame Control: The Art of Frame Control: How To Effortlessly Get People To Readily Agree With You & See The World Your Way

“Human' is the only group consensus of which I personally choose to identify with. It is an agreement of eight billion humans world wide.”
― Deanna L Lawlis

“Having a positive past depends very little on what events actually occurred.
What happened to you doesn’t matter as much as what story you decide to tell yourself about what happened.
What happened to you doesn’t matter as much as what emotions you feel about what happened.

We get to choose what story we attach.
Grief expert and psychiatrist Gordon Livingston, M.D., said, “The stories of our lives, far from being fixed narratives, are under constant revision.

Psychologically, the past, present, and future exist together here and now. Our present state is largely what determines those critical past narratives.

With deliberate practice, you can develop the skill of positively reframing any past experience into a gain. With practice, you can get better and quicker at converting pain into growth and purpose. This is what psychologists call post-traumatic growth.

Can you feel genuinely glad you went through your hardest moments?
Without those, you wouldn’t know what you now know or be who you are.”
― Benjamin P. Hardy, Be Your Future Self Now: The Science of Intentional Transformation

“We can’t change the world, but we can change how we respond to the world.”
― Stephanie M. Hutchins PhD

“We can’t change the world, but we can change how we respond to the world.”
― Stephanie M. Hutchins

“A well conditioned (controlled) mind will have us disliking persons, places, and things that have not been a part of our personal five sensory experience.”
― Deanna L. Lawlis

“Questions are the seeds of wisdom. Reframing an uncertainty can reveal a better truth”
― Aaron Gilbee, Where the Cuckoo Lives: Other Tales Not about the Cuckoo