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A Mother's Reckoning by Sue Klebold
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I think now more than ever in a time when the Internet and Social Media has become such a huge part of teenagers and children's every day life and parents struggle to know exactly what their kids are browsing or becoming sucked into, this book raises important alarms or even important discussions which as parents we need to be having.

I had recently read Columbine by Dave Cullen and when a goodreads member reviewed A Mother's Reckoning Living in the Aftermath of Tragedy by Sue Klebold by Sue Klebold I really wanted to read it to try and understand why a teenager could commit such horrific crimes.

This book is written 16 years after the horrific massacre and the writer is Sue Klebold, the mother of of Dylan Klebold who walked into Columbine High School in Littleton Colorado along with his friend Eric Harris and killed 12 of their fellow students and a teacher and wounded twenty four others before taking their own lifes. The book focuses on the aftermath of the tragedy and how the family tried to come to terms and understand what had happened to turn their son into a murderer and how they struggled on a daily basis with the stress and grief.

The book is superbly written and you cant help feeling this mother's pain as she struggles to understand why her son who is precious to her and her family could do something so horrific and as a mother of a teenage son it just doesn't bear thinking about and to be honest I found the book at times quite difficult reading and yet Sue Klebold tells her story so well, never seeking pity and always trying to convey how regular a family they were and what signs she thinks she missed that Dylan was troubled. This is her story and I thought she did an excellent job in telling it.
How do you go on after this has happened to your family, the shame, the guilt the anger the sadness, the hurt and the huge sense of responsibility is overwhelming on every level but I think the book while helping her as a mother come to some sort of understanding may well be a valuable tool in helping other parents who are struggling with teenagers and need to understand the signs of when intervention or help is needed.

I listened to this book on audio and Sue Klebold is the narrator and I thought she did a wonderful job on the audio as well as the book.
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February 19, 2017 – Started Reading
February 19, 2017 – Shelved
February 22, 2017 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Wendy (new) - added it

Wendy Great review Dem!


message 2: by Brenda ~The Sisters~Book Witch (last edited Feb 24, 2017 11:42AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Brenda ~The Sisters~Book Witch Great review Dem! I have the Ebook on loan from the library but after reading your review I think I might want to listen to the audiobook instead.


message 3: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Wendy wrote: "Great review Dem!"

Thank you Wendy.


message 4: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Brenda wrote: "Great review Dem! I have the Ebook on loan from the library but after reading your review I think I might want to listen to the audiobook instead."

Thanks Brenda. It was a great narration and she has an easy to listen to voice and It does add to the experience.


message 5: by Diane S � (new) - added it

Diane S ☔ Good review of what sounds like a difficult book, Dem


message 6: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Thank you Diane.


message 7: by Carmen (new) - added it

Carmen Great review.


Cathrine ☯️ I just tried this on audio and decided to return it and request a hard copy. Audio books and me are a hard match-up, plus the files didn't download correctly and it was jumping ahead. I'm pleased to see your endorsement and great review Dem.


Jonetta I was hoping you'd find this as educational as I did. Glad it worked for you. Great review!


message 10: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Carmen wrote: "Great review."

Thank you Carmen.


message 11: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Cathrine � wrote: "I just tried this on audio and decided to return it and request a hard copy. Audio books and me are a hard match-up, plus the files didn't download correctly and it was jumping ahead. I'm pleased t..."

Thanks Catherine. I find that too with audio books as not all audio narrators suit me and prefer in most cases hard copy but when it works it's great. I look forward to your thoughts when you get a chance to read it.


message 12: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Jonetta wrote: "I was hoping you'd find this as educational as I did. Glad it worked for you. Great review!"

So glad I read it Jonetta. Tough read but certainly an eye opener for parents.


Elisa I also enjoyed this book and I agree with you it could be an eye opener for many parents. I also read Columbine by Dave Cullen and it was fascinating from a more technical point of view.


message 14: by Connie (last edited Feb 25, 2017 06:12AM) (new)

Connie Cox Good review Dem. I always wonder about the families of the folks who do these horrific things, and usually feel so badly for them. I may have to try this even though I imagine it would be a hard read. She has some courage to write this...but again it may have been healing for her.


Elisa Dem, i did not see the pictures you posted due to weak internet. I see you previously read Columbine. I thought it was a good pair since they present different points of view.


Kelli I also found the audio powerful.


message 17: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Elisa wrote: "I also enjoyed this book and I agree with you it could be an eye opener for many parents. I also read Columbine by Dave Cullen and it was fascinating from a more technical point of view."

I really loked both books and Columbine was a scary insight to what happened on the day.


message 18: by Dem (last edited Feb 25, 2017 08:54AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Connie wrote: "Good review Dem. I always wonder about the families of the folks who do these horrific things, and usually feel so badly for them. I may have to try this even though I imagine it would be a hard re..."

Connie wrote: "Good review Dem. I always wonder about the families of the folks who do these horrific things, and usually feel so badly for them. I may have to try this even though I imagine it would be a hard re..."

Thanks Connie, She had amazing courage to write this and the scene that really stood out for me was one moment she was preparing for a meeting at work when she realises she has missed two phone calls from her husband and suddenly her whole life is turned upside down. It's unbearable to think about it.
My thoughts and sympathies were also with the paraents, siblindgs and survivors who might happen upon this book as their feelings need to be considered too as so much hurt and pain with bringing the past up and writing about it.


message 19: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Elisa wrote: "Dem, i did not see the pictures you posted due to weak internet. I see you previously read Columbine. I thought it was a good pair since they present different points of view."

Yes I think it's important to have read Columbine first as you get a sense of what the families and the community on a whole go through and the devastation caused by two boys.


message 20: by Paul (new)

Paul Lockman Dem, thanks for the excellent review, this book has been on my to read list for a while now and you've made me want to read it even more so now.


message 21: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Paul wrote: "Dem, thanks for the excellent review, this book has been on my to read list for a while now and you've made me want to read it even more so now."

Thanks Paul, hope you get the chance to read it.


message 22: by Mary Beth (new) - added it

Mary Beth Wonderful review Dem! I have this on my tbr.


message 23: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Mary wrote: "Wonderful review Dem! I have this on my tbr."

Thank you Mary.


message 24: by Carla (new)

Carla Great review Dem. I do not think I could read this, it sounds like a very difficult book to read and kudos to this mom for writing it.


message 25: by Dem (new) - rated it 4 stars

Dem Thanks Carla, it's one of those books that really makes you think.


PinkAmy loves books, cats and naps I vividly remember the Columbine shootings. Glued to the TV I couldn’t stop watching all the sadness. I felt so bad for the parents of the shooters, who not only had to mourn their sons but live with the consequences of their horrible actions. I too was impressed with Sue Klebold. I saw her TED talk and read the book.


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