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A Mother's Reckoning: Living in the Aftermath of Tragedy
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I think now more than ever in a time when the Internet and Social Media has become such a huge part of teenagers and children's every day life and parents struggle to know exactly what their kids are browsing or becoming sucked into, this book raises important alarms or even important discussions which as parents we need to be having.
I had recently read
and when a goodreads member reviewed
by Sue Klebold I really wanted to read it to try and understand why a teenager could commit such horrific crimes.
This book is written 16 years after the horrific massacre and the writer is Sue Klebold, the mother of of Dylan Klebold who walked into Columbine High School in Littleton Colorado along with his friend Eric Harris and killed 12 of their fellow students and a teacher and wounded twenty four others before taking their own lifes. The book focuses on the aftermath of the tragedy and how the family tried to come to terms and understand what had happened to turn their son into a murderer and how they struggled on a daily basis with the stress and grief.
The book is superbly written and you cant help feeling this mother's pain as she struggles to understand why her son who is precious to her and her family could do something so horrific and as a mother of a teenage son it just doesn't bear thinking about and to be honest I found the book at times quite difficult reading and yet Sue Klebold tells her story so well, never seeking pity and always trying to convey how regular a family they were and what signs she thinks she missed that Dylan was troubled. This is her story and I thought she did an excellent job in telling it.
How do you go on after this has happened to your family, the shame, the guilt the anger the sadness, the hurt and the huge sense of responsibility is overwhelming on every level but I think the book while helping her as a mother come to some sort of understanding may well be a valuable tool in helping other parents who are struggling with teenagers and need to understand the signs of when intervention or help is needed.
I listened to this book on audio and Sue Klebold is the narrator and I thought she did a wonderful job on the audio as well as the book.
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This book is written 16 years after the horrific massacre and the writer is Sue Klebold, the mother of of Dylan Klebold who walked into Columbine High School in Littleton Colorado along with his friend Eric Harris and killed 12 of their fellow students and a teacher and wounded twenty four others before taking their own lifes. The book focuses on the aftermath of the tragedy and how the family tried to come to terms and understand what had happened to turn their son into a murderer and how they struggled on a daily basis with the stress and grief.
The book is superbly written and you cant help feeling this mother's pain as she struggles to understand why her son who is precious to her and her family could do something so horrific and as a mother of a teenage son it just doesn't bear thinking about and to be honest I found the book at times quite difficult reading and yet Sue Klebold tells her story so well, never seeking pity and always trying to convey how regular a family they were and what signs she thinks she missed that Dylan was troubled. This is her story and I thought she did an excellent job in telling it.
How do you go on after this has happened to your family, the shame, the guilt the anger the sadness, the hurt and the huge sense of responsibility is overwhelming on every level but I think the book while helping her as a mother come to some sort of understanding may well be a valuable tool in helping other parents who are struggling with teenagers and need to understand the signs of when intervention or help is needed.
I listened to this book on audio and Sue Klebold is the narrator and I thought she did a wonderful job on the audio as well as the book.
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Thanks Brenda. It was a great narration and she has an easy to listen to voice and It does add to the experience.


Thanks Catherine. I find that too with audio books as not all audio narrators suit me and prefer in most cases hard copy but when it works it's great. I look forward to your thoughts when you get a chance to read it.

So glad I read it Jonetta. Tough read but certainly an eye opener for parents.




I really loked both books and Columbine was a scary insight to what happened on the day.

Connie wrote: "Good review Dem. I always wonder about the families of the folks who do these horrific things, and usually feel so badly for them. I may have to try this even though I imagine it would be a hard re..."
Thanks Connie, She had amazing courage to write this and the scene that really stood out for me was one moment she was preparing for a meeting at work when she realises she has missed two phone calls from her husband and suddenly her whole life is turned upside down. It's unbearable to think about it.
My thoughts and sympathies were also with the paraents, siblindgs and survivors who might happen upon this book as their feelings need to be considered too as so much hurt and pain with bringing the past up and writing about it.

Yes I think it's important to have read Columbine first as you get a sense of what the families and the community on a whole go through and the devastation caused by two boys.


Thanks Paul, hope you get the chance to read it.

