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Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov
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it was amazing
bookshelves: 5-star-reads, classics

Pushing the boundaries of what acceptable literature can actually be, Lolita is very much a piece of art.

For many years I kept hearing about this book, the content sounding disturbing and perhaps even slightly fascinating. It’s a book that’s central theme is one of the darkest elements of mankind: paedophilia. And although such a thing is beyond revolting, it is used to tell the tale of a very lost and very lonely man. Humbert is a man to be pitied, pitied because he actually exists.

A child in a man’s body, unable to move on from what was to him the most perfect memory; Humbert’s obsession with youth takes on the form of paedophilia: he becomes attracted to this idea of purity and develops strong sexual feelings towards it. Humbert knows he is a monster, but he just doesn’t care. To him his feelings are perfectly justifiable, natural even. He has an incredibly distorted view of the world; thus, we see the world through the eyes of an extremely unreliable narrator. Perhaps unreliable is the wrong word. He reports what he sees with utmost honesty; however, his perceptions of these experiences are, well, just wrong.

As a character study, he is a very worthy subject. In the wake of Freudian psychoanalysis, Nabokov’s novel is aware of the rising field of psychology. Humbert is a walking contradiction. He is at times unbelievably arrogant, and at other times he is timid and weak; he is passive yet manipulative; he derides nothing from life other than a person sense of sexual gratification: it’s all he lives for. He has an exceedingly narrow range of interests; he scrutinises everything and remembers the most minor of details. He is charming, but at other times completely socially awkward. I think it wouldn’t be too far a thing to suggest that there are elements of Autism within his personality. He is obsessive about things, about his work and “his� Lolita. Ironically, at one point, he expresses succinct knowledge of Freud and at another he demonstrates complete ignorance towards Freud’s psychosexual stages of development. So who exactly is this Humbert?

Humbert is lost; he is lost in life, and he is lost within himself: he is hopeless, looking for any sense of light in his life. Unfortunately, this projection of desperation takes on the form of a child. He falls in love with Lolita, and what she represents to him. But of course it’s not real love; Lolita is just a sexual object to him not a person. So what follows is a story of a man who has convinced himself that his actions are perfectly justified. When he takes a twelve year old child in his arms; it is perfectly fine to his mind because she comes willing. Never mind the fact that he has crafted a situation so that she responds to his advances. She is vulnerable and completely alone in the world; she has no one to turn to in her moment of grief, and the snake is ready to lunge.

Nabokov describes some truly disturbing scenes, though he does so with eloquence bordering on the genius. Sounds odd, considering what I have just described. The content of the book is vile, Humbert is vile, but in a fictionalised world we have to look beyond that. The world is seen through the eyes of Humbert, so everything we see is what he sees and what he experiences. Nabokov uses free-indirect style to narrate some harrowing scenes, the content is vile but the language is beautiful. Again, this is what Humbert experiences. As troubling as this book may be, I argue that this has very strong place in the literary world. Nabokov explores the mind of a sexual predator and I think as readers we can learn a great deal in the process. We can see how the psychological make up of such an individual is formed and we can see what they think and they feel. To understand such a man is the first step towards stopping him and recognising this behaviour in other men.

As a reviewer, I find it of vital importance to read the reviews of others. There’s a quote on the back of my book from one such review; it says, and I quote “There’s no funnier monster in modern literature than poor, doomed Humbert Humbert.� I cannot quite describe how angry that quote makes me. There is nothing funny about Lolita.This book is terribly serious in content, and Humbert is not a man to be laughed at. What we have is a deeply disturbed individual, one confused and drifting through life, cold and utterly broken inside, and he is about to ruin the life of a young girl.

I don’t laugh at this book, I weep at its brilliance.

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Reading Progress

April 26, 2017 – Started Reading
May 3, 2017 – Shelved
May 3, 2017 – Shelved as: 5-star-reads
May 3, 2017 – Finished Reading
May 13, 2017 – Shelved as: classics

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message 1: by [deleted user] (new)

One of the best books ever! Although I got disturbed to the point I "almost" gave up, but that was the power of Nabokov's writing. Glad I finish it when I did.


Rosemary Atwell Can't wait for your review. One of my favourite books.


Vishal Goel My favourite book. Waiting for your review.


Vicky Kern loved, loved, loved Lolita! Nabakov was a genius


Sanja I really enjoyed the first half of the book, that would habe been a five star rating for me too. And I totally agree that the writing was extraordinary! But the second half made me sick to the point where not even the beautiful writing could make up for the awful things that happened plot-wise. I finished it, but that was heavy stuff... sticks with you for a very long time. Looking forward to your review!


Sean Barrs Sanja wrote: "I really enjoyed the first half of the book, that would habe been a five star rating for me too. And I totally agree that the writing was extraordinary! But the second half made me sick to the poin..."

I agree, the first half is certainly stronger. And heavy stuff is one way to describe it!


Sean Barrs Vicky wrote: "loved, loved, loved Lolita! Nabakov was a genius"

I can see why!


Sean Barrs Adrianne wrote: "I'm glad you enjoyed the book- looking forward to your review!!"

Rosemary wrote: "Can't wait for your review. One of my favourite books."

Vishal wrote: "My favourite book. Waiting for your review."

It's up!


Sean Barrs Morgan wrote: "One of the best books ever! Although I got disturbed to the point I "almost" gave up, but that was the power of Nabokov's writing. Glad I finish it when I did."

I would agree, this book is certainly a remarkable piece of work


Sonja Fantastic review, Sean!


Hailie great review


Pascale Your review is perfection.


Amira MT ❤️


message 14: by Melinda (new)

Melinda Ive wanted to read this for some time.


Tortuga I don't think he actually meant laughing at Humbert Humbert, but about his quite "special" sense of humour....? o.0


Sean Barrs Sonja wrote: "Fantastic review, Sean!"

thanks :)


Sean Barrs Vahid wrote: "Humbert seems to be the kind of a person who has fallen into one of the many murky, filthy, and agonizing wells of this world and what is more doleful is that I don't think he understand where he i..."

Glad to hear, and he really doens't quite realise how damaged he actually is.


Sean Barrs Hailie wrote: "great review"

thank you :)


Sean Barrs Melinda wrote: "Ive wanted to read this for some time."

then you should go for it!


Sean Barrs Gandalf wrote: "I don't think he actually meant laughing at Humbert Humbert, but about his quite "special" sense of humour....? o.0"

Possible, either way he is still making light of a terrible situation.


Sean Barrs Pascale wrote: "Your review is perfection."

kind words, thank you. I enjoyed writing it. :)


message 22: by Iris (new) - rated it 4 stars

Iris Lolita's life wasn't ruined. She never gave Humbert that power.


Sean Barrs Iris wrote: "Lolita's life wasn't ruined. She never gave Humbert that power."

Debatable, she directly mentions at the end that he ruined her.


Alice this was a pleasure to read, well said, wonderful review.


message 25: by Puneet (new) - added it

Puneet Gautam Brilliant review, Sean! I have been putting off reading this book for a very long time due to its theme - which i find very repulsive. Your review, however, has made me reconsider my doubts about reading it.


Nathalie I'm currently reading Lolita and find your review very insightful. I almost gave up on it in the beginning but I'm glad I decided to continue. Nabokov proves to be a very skilful writer in what must have been his second (or third?) language.


Sean Barrs alice wrote: "this was a pleasure to read, well said, wonderful review."

thanks :)


Sean Barrs Puneet wrote: "Brilliant review, Sean! I have been putting off reading this book for a very long time due to its theme - which i find very repulsive. Your review, however, has made me reconsider my doubts about r..."

It's worth it. it really is.


Sean Barrs Nathalie wrote: "I'm currently reading Lolita and find your review very insightful. I almost gave up on it in the beginning but I'm glad I decided to continue. Nabokov proves to be a very skilful writer in what mus..."

It's amazing really. he has a stronge rgrasp that most native speakers/writers.


message 30: by Ned (new) - rated it 4 stars

Ned Fabulous review.


Georgie Absolutely incredibly put, I adore this novel not for its controversy but the masterful way Nabokov plays with language and the way in which such he delves into the mind of such an unreliable narrator as Humbert Humbert and manages to craft goodness within the perverted soul


Sean Barrs Ned wrote: "Fabulous review."

thanks :)


Sean Barrs Georgie wrote: "Absolutely incredibly put, I adore this novel not for its controversy but the masterful way Nabokov plays with language and the way in which such he delves into the mind of such an unreliable narra..."

Thanks, it is an incredible piece of writing. The words entralled me, poetry in novel form.


message 34: by [deleted user] (new)

I've been wanting to read this for quite a while, but this review might have just pushed it to the front of my TBR.


Khwaja Nuzhat So many people differs when I say it’s a beautiful piece of literature. Very beautiful review, well explained :)


Sean Barrs Zoheb wrote: "Terrific review Sean. Lucidly written. The book must have been quite an experience. I haven't read this one. However, your review gave me a shocking peek into it."

Thank you- it is certainly worth a read! 😊


I'mogén This was a fantastic review. I recall watching the film a good few years ago and really wanted the book. At that time my mum was having none of it and was very uncomfortable that I had seen the film! I finally bought the book myself around a year or 2 again and need to read it, because although disturbing, the story is very interesting


message 38: by Eden (new) - rated it 3 stars

Eden Prosper I was also taken aback by the incongruity of the reviews on my version of Lolita.

"The only convincing love story of our century." -Vanity Fair
"Intensely lyrical and wildly funny." - Time

Intensely lyrical - I will give it that, but wildly funny? A love story?? Are these actually referring to the story of Lolita?!

I appreciate your review. I wish I could say I came away from this book with as much insight as you have; it was a hard one to grapple with but you've given me some things to think about.


message 39: by Diya (new) - added it

Diya Waghmare This is the best review I read for Lolita!


Timothy Great review, I'd love to know what Nabikov wanted us to make of this book


message 41: by Jay (new) - rated it 5 stars

Jay Steinberg "Nabakov makes this an even more difficult sexual arrangement for his readers to contemplate, because the 12 year old is an eager, compliant and willing partner to the crime." Let's be clear: this was not, as you seem to believe, a relationship betwen equals. The preceding quote suggests a basic failure of understanding behind what was happening in this novel.


message 42: by Reagan (new)

Reagan : I agree with you completely. Everyone should read the reviews of others because it shows us a bigger picture and new opinions. For years I have always wondered if Lolita was truly a story about forbidden love or a man who is a monster. Here the character Humbert is a monster. In fact, he believes his actions are justified because he has a strongly distorted view towards the world. This book gives the readers a look into the mind of a pedophile, whose lust for young girls never left because he is a boy trapped in a man’s body. Nabokov’s novel brings awareness to the psychological field. Humbert is a walking contradiction because sometimes he is charming and other times he is just a manipulative liar. In the sick mind of Humbert, he believes Lolita came to him willfully, but Lolita had no where else to go and he was the only option. The content of the book itself is sickening, but the words Nabokov used were quite beautiful and stood out to me. Since we have an unreliable narrator, Humbert, the readers are only seeing how Humbert views the world, not Lolita. I believe Humbert’s actions have corrupted Lolita’s life because she was only 12 years old, and he is a grown man who used manipulation to keep her around. Eventually Lolita ran away and had a hard life because of Humbert. The book itself is a masterpiece, but it is the narrator who confuses the readers.


message 43: by Rowan (new)

Rowan There’s nothing fascinating about pedophilia! Hope this helps


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