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A Mother's Reckoning by Sue Klebold
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I am not sure how you review something like this - a mother's recounting of a cherished son's life, the heinous act he commits and the aftermath of that act on her life and family. I'm giving it a 3.5 just in terms of the writing, readability and narrative flow but I am in no position to review the veracity of what happened here.

All I can say is that I feel great sympathy for Sue Klebold and everyone affected by this tragedy. She does a great job of giving readers insight into what it would be like to be in her position. I of course had given a passing thought to what it would be like to be in the shoes of the shooters' parents, but I never gave it any deep or sincere consideration. This book forces you to really absorb their anguish, guilt and anger. I think the real lessons of this book are twofold: to attempt to lead with compassion and withhold judgement as much as we are able, and two, to be much more mindful and watchful with our children. Even young children can be masters of hiding internal conflict and even despair - heads up, parents. Don't think for one minute this could never happen to you or someone you think you know well.

I was very sorry, but not surprised, to read that the Klebold's marriage did not survive the aftermath of Columbine. The casualties of this terrible event, and others like it, just continue to ripple into the future. Hearbreaking.
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September 20, 2016 – Started Reading
September 20, 2016 – Shelved
September 20, 2016 –
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September 25, 2016 – Shelved as: best-of-2016
September 25, 2016 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Valery (new) - added it

Valery Really good review, Dianne.


Dianne Thank you, Valery.


message 3: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen Sounds like a Tough read. Great review, Dianne


Deanna I started listening to this one awhile back. I hope to get back to it soon. Very emotional. Great review, Dianne!


Esil Excellent review, Dianne. This is definitely a hard one.


message 6: by DeB (new)

DeB I enjoyed reading your sensitive and empathetic review. Your quandary over how to review this book is so affirmative as a parent, while puzzled as a bystander. Terrific review, Dianne!


message 7: by Carol (new) - added it

Carol Many of my GR friends have finally read this. I bought it but am saving it for a time I feel up to its reading. I know I want to hear her perspective. Thank you for reviewing this.


Dianne Thanks very much, ladies. It's very hard to get your head around the enormity of the trauma she has to deal with for the rest of her life.


message 9: by Katie (new)

Katie Sounds like a really tough heart-wrenching read. Great review, Dianne.


message 10: by Karen (new)

Karen Great review Dianne! I saw an interview with her on tv.


Dianne Thanks, Katie and Karen, Karen, what did you think of her? How did she come across?


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Karen That is a link to the interview with Diane Sawyer


Dianne Karen wrote: "That is a link to the interview with Diane Sawyer"

Sweet; thanks!


message 15: by Diana (new) - added it

Diana Jorge-tulk Great review


message 16: by Carol (new)

Carol A thoughtful review, Dianne. I live in Colorado and I've often been curious about those two families. It was such a tragic event.


Kelli This is an excellent review. I listened to the audio of this but found it difficult to review. Well done.


Dianne Thanks, Diana, Carol and Kelli. It IS difficult to review - difficult to get your mind around at all.


message 19: by Carol (new) - added it

Carol Dianne stated on my review :It is a hard review to write, but you did it beautifully! A book that makes you think hard. "

I feel very much the same about your review Dianne. It is a difficult book to read. I believe each reader will take something different from Sue Klebold's book. Just her exploration of suicide and its impact on Dylan is worth reading.

I didn't mention it in my review but I also was not surprised that this marriage ended in divorce. I was surprised that it was so recent.

I am going to find the audio or the video as I'd like to hear Sue Klebold talk about her experiences.

Excellent review Dianne.


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