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Loved and Missed
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This was what I would call a hyper-realistic novel. It's about a mother, Ruth, and Eleanor, her drug addicted beautiful daughter. Eleanor has a baby she's unable to take care of, so Ruth takes Lily under her wing. Ruth is a devoted grandmother, striving to avoid the mistakes she thinks she made with Eleanor.
The writing offers us great insights into Ruth's thinking. People are simple but also complicated.
I found this novel utterly depressing but that's because it was realistic.
If you're after an uplifting novel, this is not that the right choice. If you're keen to read a well-written novel, Loved and Missed will certainly fit the bill.
The writing offers us great insights into Ruth's thinking. People are simple but also complicated.
I found this novel utterly depressing but that's because it was realistic.
If you're after an uplifting novel, this is not that the right choice. If you're keen to read a well-written novel, Loved and Missed will certainly fit the bill.
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Jul 30, 2024 06:08PM

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Jan, this read like I was inside Ruth, the writing is truly exceptional, it's just the subject matter broke me.

It was tough, Jen. I get so sad and depressed on account of the characters, as it reminds me yet again how unfair life is for some people.



Great review, Bianca!"
Thanks, Karen. I can't wait to find out what you make of it.

Hi Betsy. I'm Romanian but have been living in Australia for over twenty years. I haven't noticed the Britishisms as such. In theory, Australian English is closer to British English as the English colonised Australia. As you noticed, I spell things the British way.
Just a few minutes before reading your comment, in another Australian book group, some were complaining about the Americanisms being used in an Australian set and printed book, most of us don't like that, we kind of grumble about things being changed to suit the American market etc.
I prefer the British spelling because that's what I use, but that's not to say that I won't read a book with American spelling, especially if it's set in the US, written by an American.
I dislike the sterilisation of cultures and languages to suit the powerful (ie the US). I also favour regionalisms, and colloquialisms and all the other things that make languages unique, with Google at our fingertips, it's easy to find out what things mean.

It's quite short Diane, can't wait to find out what you make of it.

Hahaha, they seem to be the kind of books I often read. My problem is that I can't distance myself from some books, they affect me, I cry too easily when it comes to books and movies.

Hahaha, they seem to be the kind of books I often read. My problem is that I can't distance myself from some..."
Bianca, I'm the same! But I find it cathartic, which I've been missing lately :)
