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Loved and Missed by Susie Boyt
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it was amazing
bookshelves: contemporary, 5-star-favourites

My head and heart hurt.

The story:
Parenting can be tough. But it can be tougher as a single parent. It can be tougher with a teen. It can tougher when your teen turns to drugs as a way of living.

Ruth is a mother. Her estranged drug addicted daughter is someone who is difficult to have a relationship with. But her daughter has a daughter, Lily. Now it’s about ensuring her granddaughter's safety.

An intimate look at the relationship between mother and daughter. The disappointments and expectations. The shame of being powerless to save her child and the realisation she can’t protect her from harm. A grieving process that has peaks of hope for recovery but is followed by despair when change doesn’t happen.

But sometimes an opportunity opens up: a 2nd chance. The relationship between grandmother and granddaughter can be a beautiful and powerful thing; a healing balm.

This writing knocked me off my feet. The story brought me to tears but also made me smile.

I am in awe, Boyt.
5⭐️
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Reading Progress

November 25, 2024 – Shelved
November 25, 2024 – Shelved as: to-read
February 28, 2025 – Started Reading
March 1, 2025 –
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March 2, 2025 – Shelved as: contemporary
March 2, 2025 – Shelved as: 5-star-favourites
March 2, 2025 – Finished Reading

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Mark  Porton Excellent Jen Jen!!


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Lorna Beautiful, Jen.


message 3: by Suzy (new)

Suzy Terrific review Jen! Sounds like an emotional read for sure! 💗


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linda Wow !!


message 5: by Jayme (new)

Jayme Amazing review! 💞


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Lori  Keeton Sounds quite emotional! Your last lines say it all! Great review, Jen!


Canadian Jen Mark wrote: "Excellent Jen Jen!!"

I know you adored this one as well, Mark!


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Roxanne Meek Thanks for putting this one on my radar, Jen. Can’t wait to read it


message 9: by Martine (new)

Martine Excellent review, Jen!


Canadian Jen Lorna wrote: "Beautiful, Jen."

Thanks Lorna. It was a beautiful read!


message 11: by Christy (new)

Christy fictional_traits Wonderful review Jen. As a mother to 2 daughters, I’m sure I’d find this a very poignant read.


Antoinette Excellent review, Jen. My number one book of last year. This book was dead solid perfect IMHO


Canadian Jen Thanks Suzy, Linda & Jayme!


Canadian Jen linda wrote: "Wow !!"

It was a wow one for sure, Linda. Hope you get a chance to check it out.


Canadian Jen Lori wrote: "Sounds quite emotional! Your last lines say it all! Great review, Jen!"

This one is going to stay with me, Lori.


Bianca Fab review, Jen. It is a powerful novel, but it broke my heart.


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Tracy Greer- Hansen Oof! This review is everything. Adding it now my friend. ♥️


Mark  Porton I'm so happy to see you loved this one Jen Jen, what a story, poor Ruth. An all too familiar story of estrangement - heartbreaking. Great review :)) 👏


message 19: by Debbie (new)

Debbie W. This sounds so heartbreaking, Jen!


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Terrie  Robinson I'm intrigued, Jen! Wonderful review! Checking it out now...


message 21: by Stacey B (new)

Stacey B Great review Jen. I cant read this. I need happy books.


Kim (binge reading to avoid reality and the fall of US democracy) You’ve written such a wonderful review, Jen. I recently read this book and felt much the same as you. So many tears but so much hope as well. I’m glad this was a 5-star read for you!


Shelley's Book Nook Fabulous review, Jen. 🤗💕


message 24: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Wonderful review Jen


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Lindsay L Wow! Incredible review! I’m adding!


message 26: by Krystal (new)

Krystal Beautiful review, Jen!🩵


Canadian Jen Roxanne wrote: "Thanks for putting this one on my radar, Jen. Can’t wait to read it"

Hope you love it, Roxanne. It's a tough one but the writing is absolutely great!


Canadian Jen Martine wrote: "Excellent review, Jen!"

TY Martine!


Canadian Jen Christy wrote: "Wonderful review Jen. As a mother to 2 daughters, I’m sure I’d find this a very poignant read."

I think you would too, Christy.


Canadian Jen Antoinette wrote: "Excellent review, Jen. My number one book of last year. This book was dead solid perfect IMHO"

It's def on my favourite's shelf now, Antoinette. I have to say, the cover I got wasn't this one. Very amateurish and disappointing. But, I can't even complain about that after reading it.


Canadian Jen Bianca wrote: "Fab review, Jen. It is a powerful novel, but it broke my heart."

Mine too, Bianca. 💔


Canadian Jen Tracy wrote: "Oof! This review is everything. Adding it now my friend. ♥️"

It's a tough one, Tracy, but I think you'll love it too.


message 33: by Karen (last edited Mar 02, 2025 06:20PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Karen ❤️❤️❤️
Amazing review my friend�


message 34: by Christina (new) - added it

Christina Fabulous review, Jen!


Norma ~ The Sisters Amazing review, Jen! This sounds like an emotional and powerful read.


message 36: by K (new)

K Such a heartfelt review, Jen. This is the second 5-star rating for this novel on my feed today, both by likeminded GR friends. I need to get my hands on a copy soon!


message 37: by Rosh (new)

Rosh I find it tough to read books about drug addicts, but the rest is impressive enough to make me want to give this a try. Excellent review, Jen!


message 38: by Taufiq (new)

Taufiq Yves The 'healing balm' of the grandmother-granddaughter relationship sounds so beautiful, Jen.


message 39: by Tina (new)

Tina Sounds very emotional. A fab review Jen ❤️‍�


message 40: by Fran (new)

Fran Jen...an excellent review of a tough, emotional read!❤️‍� A well earned five stars!


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Diane Barnes Exactly!


message 42: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Enticing review Jen!


Canadian Jen Mark wrote: "I'm so happy to see you loved this one Jen Jen, what a story, poor Ruth. An all too familiar story of estrangement - heartbreaking. Great review :)) 👏"

And Jean?! OMG. So relatable! I loved your review too, Mark.


Canadian Jen Terrie wrote: "I'm intrigued, Jen! Wonderful review! Checking it out now..."

Highly recommend, Terrie!


Canadian Jen Stacey B wrote: "Great review Jen. I cant read this. I need happy books."

It is a hard read, Stacey. This won't appeal to everyone for sure. Hope you are reading some uplifting ones now!


Canadian Jen Thanks Debbie, Shelley, Maureen & Krystal!


Canadian Jen Lindsay L wrote: "Wow! Incredible review! I’m adding!"

I'll be looking fwd to your thoughts, Lindsay.


Canadian Jen Kim (binge reading to avoid reality and the fall of US democracy) wrote: "You’ve written such a wonderful review, Jen. I recently read this book and felt much the same as you. So many tears but so much hope as well. I’m glad this was a 5-star read for you!"

It was wonderful and heartbreaking at the same time. I'm glad you felt the power of Boyt's writing too, Kim.


Canadian Jen Karen wrote: "❤️❤️❤️
Amazing review my friend�"


So good!! ❤️


Canadian Jen Thanks Christina, Norma & Tina.


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